Why are you Taurus men so stubborn?

Dating a Taurus man. I like him he is very smart, loud, but won't admit to anything. When I'm honest with him he gets mad. All of our friends thinks he is a very stubborn man. I told him that and he says "don't assume" but its true because my and his friend talked about his stubbornness all the time.

So yesterday when he out but I thought it was rude of him flirting with the waitress. I talked to him about it in a calm way today and he says "Oh she was flirting with me" and I said "if she was , why continue?" and he says " Fine I'm going to be rude than". Thye always say that its always good to communicate with your partner so I did. I wanted to tell him how I felt.

I AM: Leo Sun, Leo Moon with Scorpio Rising
HE IS: Taurus Sun, Pisces Moon with Scorpio Rising

taurus peeps do not really like to be called stubborn. don't say such things.
truth, when it refers to them having done anything wrong, shakes their inner spirit. there is virtually nothing more harmful you can do to a taurus man than tell him a truth in harsh manner, except tell him around others. that is a BIG NO NO. they will close up for how ever long until they forget about it or resolve the truth dictated. avoid telling taurus their faults. just stop talking to them when they do something stupid. they will come with gifts and smiles. no apology.

you being a leo, you call out BS openly and fast. he can't take this. it burns his earth. good luck.

I notice a lot of people on here misuse the word "stubborn."

When I first read this post I assumed English was not the OP's first language, but I could be way off and it is just a lack of command issue?

Human versions of the Bull (just like the 4 legged ones) can be staid, stoic and sometimes stern looking (none of these things are bad) but if you show them love and care they will do pretty much anything for you.
They want to be there for you - that is the nature of a Bull.
Much more likely to be "willing" than "stubborn".

Maybe the guy is just a wanker or severely up himself? Wankers are born year round - no sign has a monopoly.

Posted by ellessque
why did it bother you that he was flirting with the waitress?

If you are dating a Leo I am guessing it is not a good thing to be seen to be flirting with others?
Your world revolves around your Leo.

"avoid telling taurus their faults. just stop talking to them when they do something stupid. they will come with gifts and smiles. no apology."

Really!!! Thats the craziest crap in the world. If you cannot tell a person that they have hurt you in some kind of way without a big brawl or a power struggle to follow then you need not be bothered with that person PERIOD!! Damn some gifts!!

I am on the same page as you!!! I totally agree. If i could change my profile name it would be "Cancer got tired of that taurus and kept it moving". Nevertheless, from my experience, this is what works with a Taurus. You can ask Taurus to really know.

There is a difference between the right thing to do and the wise thing to do.

Hmmmmm I guess if you have the fortitude to deal with it and you want to stay with one your best bet is to do as you advised..lol Oh no that would never work for me..But I am sure there is some women that could do it..

I get that Taurus' have sensitive egos but come on, what are we here, children?

Relationships don't last unless there is effective communication.

And communication isn't possible if 1 or both people can't actually...communicate... when it's necessary

You shouldn't spend all your time catering to his sensitive ego if it means you having to suppress things that truly bother you

It's not all about Taurus. It's not always I I I. When Taurus gets in a relationship, they don't necessarily have to change BUT certain things (like extreme stubborness mistaken for childishness) need to be toned down, for the sake of compromising so that both people in the relationship actually LIKE being in the relationship!

Everyone is different. What may bother 1 person may not bother another. So all that really matters is that if there is a problem, you should feel comfortable going to your partner about it

And hey, if after going to your partner they end up making you realize how insecure you're being, then fine. BUT atleast the convo was had, not swept under the rug