Do taurus get really angry over strange things?

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I think I have a lifelong love affair with taurus men. I just find them so delicious, I don't know why. I met a taurus guy at the start of the year and he seems lovely and we are just in the stages of talking and getting to know each other, not dating yet, but I have seen his anger a few times and it was a bit scary.

For example, we were talking about how a co-worker of mine had accused someone else we work with of sexual harassment and when I told the Taurus he got really angry with me, saying why did I let that happen, why didn't I tell her to just talk to the accused person first.

He was really scary and blaming me for this. I reminded him that I had nothing to do with it and only just found out about the claim two months after it happened, so I am not involved at all and in any case (I didn't say this) if the girl is really being harassed, maybe she doesn't feel comfortable confronting the harasser.

I found all of this really strange and there have been several other instances where he seems really vindictive for no reason. He usually seems so placid and unruffled the rest of the time.

Is this normal? Why would he act this way?
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Yeah it was a big scary/strange for him to turn so quickly. It's as though he thought it was somehow my fault I didn't stop this from happening, even though I didn't even know about it!!

I was thinking maybe he doesn't like women who claim sexual harassment or something and it's a sore spot for him. He kept saying - people should go to talk to the person they think is harassing them first before going to a supervisor.
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That's very interesting. I thought perhaps he had been in that situation, because his reaction was really irrational and aggressive. I felt like I had to defend myself for something I wasn't even involved in. I ended up not saying anything, because I don't like conflict. Now I don't know what to think. I have seen this anger before. One time we were at a party recently and he was taking photos of everyone and I kept walking away from the camera, because I had felt sick all day and didn't want a photo, then he got angry and slammed the door and said: "I don't need you in my photos, get out of the way," and then took photos of everyone else ignored me for the rest of the night.

It makes him seem like he's always like this, but these are just moments, but still worrying.
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Your moon and rising are square his sun,so there are always going to be problems.

The square between the Sun and the Moon in synastry is challenging, and is compounded by the fact that attraction between the two is quite possible. The Moon person eventually finds the Sun person overbearing, too rational, self-involved, and insensitive--even if the Sun person is not generally thought to possess these traits. The Sun person eventually finds the Moon person too dependent, temperamental, emotional, and sensitive. The Moon person, in his or her attempts to support the Sun person, can feel resentful. Disagreements on how to spend shared finances, how to raise children if there are any offspring, and how to spend leisure time are all strong possibilities. Even if both individuals work towards the same goals in their partnership, the method by which they go about getting there clashes with their partner's " style ". Bickering, nagging, and general discontent can plague this relationship. Both parties must consciously work on avoiding putting each other in the position where they feel the need to defend their habits, opinions, and individual identities. Much energy can be wasted in little battles that are generally a reflection of each person's inner battles. Competitiveness may be stimulating for awhile, but it can also be very draining, especially if the individuals share a lot of time and space with each other.

as far as the sun square asc,I'm sure you are both attracted...but the way you come across rubs him the wrong way.
no one's fault....just maybe not a great match.
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how do I know?
well if your screen name is reflecting your sun/moon/rising...which is what I am assuming,Taurus is square to Aqua and Leo.
the square occurs with planets on 90 degree angles of one another.
it's really the hardest aspect of them all.sometimes,but not a lot,a square can be beneficial...but there is always some kind of friction or discord involved.
the only square I find to be stimulating in a "good" way is between venus and mars,and maybe some minor ones elsewhere.
you'd have to have some REALLY good aspects in other places to overcome and balance out the squares you have.and they will always be activated from time to time anyway,depending on circumstances and transits if you believe that far into astrology.
for the record,most if not all people have squares somewhere with other people...and you can usually pinpoint a lot of your problems right there.
but I noticed yours right away,because they are in rough places.every relationship needs a few hard aspects,or it would be boring and to perfect.but sometimes......:/ when there are to many,or to hard....it's just bad all around.
you may have some nice aspects elsewhere,maybe between moon's/venus/mars/mercury's...that even things out some...so I'm not trying to poop on your parade,just pointing out where I see the problems you mention.

*This has been a public service announcement from bella the bull.
we now return to regularly scheduled programming.*


btw,you ask if this is normal behavior for a Taurus...that can't really be answered without knowing his whole chart.
it might be normal for THAT Taurus.
but I'm willing to bet you bring out in him things he and other people don't see.and he probably brings out certain things in you that aren't the norm.
that is why you can have 3 people that are together alot for work or friendship....2 always get along great...but 2 fight all the time.the one see's no problem,with either of the other's...but the 2 with bad synastry are always going at it.
some people fit together,some don't.
I don't personally think it makes either person "bad"....just not compatible,and sometimes people bring things out in each other that is not their norm.

the reason I go in to detail with you,is I know you have a bad experience behind you (I hope),and I hate to see you get in to another one.
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Taurus' can be really petty. Problem is, they don't see/perceive themselves as being petty. They literally see it as them fighting for a greater cause (justice) so of course calling them petty or overly dramatic about certain things goes in 1 ear & out the other.

I think it's b/c Taurus' have the ability to get really/overly-emotionally attached to situations, even if it doesn't involve them. They are quick to put themselves in other's shoes & literally exude anger as if they were the ones in the situation from the beginning. This about them can be a great strength in them, but then again it can also make them appear irrational, petty, overly aggressive and/or temperamental.

My ex was a Taurus. Every time I told him stories about my friends getting done wrong by guys, he'd get overly angry about it, almost as if he were them & as if he were the 1 with the broken heart. If he saw something he didn't like, he'd get overly dramatic about it & almost appear to have a temper about it. It was quite scary, especially to me, an Aquarius, whose normally cool, calm & collected even in the most tempting of situations.

Taurus' takes alot of things personal even when they shouldn't. But once again, telling them this will only add more fuel to their fire. Smh

Taurus' are good people but they can go from 1 extreme to the other. They're either extremely grumpy/overly-dramatic about something or the opposite, too relaxed & calm about a situation to the point that their calmness is almost suspicious/not normal.
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Posted by krysrenee7
Taurus' can be really petty. Problem is, they don't see/perceive themselves as being petty. They literally see it as them fighting for a greater cause (justice) so of course calling them petty or overly dramatic about certain things goes in 1 ear & out the other.

I think it's b/c Taurus' have the ability to get really/overly-emotionally attached to situations, even if it doesn't involve them. They are quick to put themselves in other's shoes & literally exude anger as if they were the ones in the situation from the beginning. This about them can be a great strength in them, but then again it can also make them appear irrational, petty, overly aggressive and/or temperamental.

My ex was a Taurus. Every time I told him stories about my friends getting done wrong by guys, he'd get overly angry about it, almost as if he were them & as if he were the 1 with the broken heart. If he saw something he didn't like, he'd get overly dramatic about it & almost appear to have a temper about it. It was quite scary, especially to me, an Aquarius, whose normally cool, calm & collected even in the most tempting of situations.

Taurus' takes alot of things personal even when they shouldn't. But once again, telling them this will only add more fuel to their fire. Smh

Taurus' are good people but they can go from 1 extreme to the other. They're either extremely grumpy/overly-dramatic about something or the opposite, too relaxed & calm about a situation to the point that their calmness is almost suspicious/not normal.



perfect example of taurus/aqua square.

on the other hand,I don't know why I bother with actual astrology on this board.
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Thank you so much for the advice everyone, it's really incredibly helpful. I am so appreciative.

Bella, I love your astrological knowledge! That's really interesting, but also sad, cause that means it won't work out with me and any Taurus men, which is a shame, cause I crush on them so much! My best friend is a female Taurus, so we work out well, but in all my years of work, I have only had one colleague that grated on me and he was a Taurus, but then there was another Taurus male at the same time who I got along with really well. It's really interesting to compare. You??re right that I did have a bad experience before, which is over, but my heart is still really bruised. It's a bit weird to be crushing on yet another Taurus, but we will see. His anger has made me think again. I actually love that you refer to actual astrology, that's why we are here!

Krysrenee, that's really interesting. I love how you know what I mean about them getting angry. What is your sun sign? My Taurus definitely does the swinging from one extreme to another too.

Cutiebullie — I love your take on things. I especially agree with the debating over small things, this guy does that. Exactly!! He creates conflict and then blames me. Yeah this Taurus is in his 40s??_ 😢 The second thing you said really resonated with me, cause this guy is really rude too. Excessively, yet I still like him for some reason. He knows he's rude too and sometimes apologises for it saying he can't change. I am a really soft person, but when this guys starts to argue with me, I get defensive and I don't recognise myself.

Thank you all!
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Posted by cutiebullie
I personally don't believe in compatibility, similarities in personality, interests and all that.

To me what matters is the "values" of the person. Love is when you respect another person, once respect is lost everything else will follow.

I've learned not to just ignore red flag warnings I see along the way of getting to know someone/dating/being significant others before getting married/settling down. Once a guy is rude in his words and ways and how he treats other people - it only shows that he have a bad attitude to live with. His rude ways will definitely bring out the rude side of me, and this is not going to work for me long term.

We all mirror how people treats us - that's human nature.



Well,I'm one to go deeper in all things.I need to know WHY people are what they are,and have an understanding...rather than just skimming the surface and bitching and whining.that never fixes anything,and imo the blame game just makes it worse.
people don't change,so we have to be with people we can love and accept as they are.if love could fix everything,there would be no divorce or break ups.
I believe very much in astrology and all it's parts,because it's proven it's self to me for several years.
I'm not saying you are not right in how you look at things cutie,I just take it to a deeper level to find the reason's behind it.
that old cliche about snowflakes is very true...we are each unique,and psychology doesn't really take that to far in to consideration.but if you look at a chart,you can see the snowflake under a microscope.
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Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius
Thank you so much for the advice everyone, it's really incredibly helpful. I am so appreciative.

Bella, I love your astrological knowledge! That's really interesting, but also sad, cause that means it won't work out with me and any Taurus men, which is a shame, cause I crush on them so much! My best friend is a female Taurus, so we work out well, but in all my years of work, I have only had one colleague that grated on me and he was a Taurus, but then there was another Taurus male at the same time who I got along with really well. It's really interesting to compare. You??re right that I did have a bad experience before, which is over, but my heart is still really bruised. It's a bit weird to be crushing on yet another Taurus, but we will see. His anger has made me think again. I actually love that you refer to actual astrology, that's why we are here!

Krysrenee, that's really interesting. I love how you know what I mean about them getting angry. What is your sun sign? My Taurus definitely does the swinging from one extreme to another too.

Cutiebullie — I love your take on things. I especially agree with the debating over small things, this guy does that. Exactly!! He creates conflict and then blames me. Yeah this Taurus is in his 40s??_ 😢 The second thing you said really resonated with me, cause this guy is really rude too. Excessively, yet I still like him for some reason. He knows he's rude too and sometimes apologises for it saying he can't change. I am a really soft person, but when this guys starts to argue with me, I get defensive and I don't recognise myself.

Thank you all!



Sweetie,it does not mean you can never be with a Taurus...you just need one without so many bad aspects. 😉
one with strong Pisces,Leo or Aqua would help.
just because we are attracted to something or someone,does not mean it's good for us.you are already questioning his behavior...it's concerning you and you are not even dating.that is something you should take seriously,because it won't change with love.

and about taurus/aqua....I love aqua's.I have a very good aqua friend,but would never want to be with one romantically.
they are just meant as friends for me.
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hmmm,no you can't change nor control someone's behavior...that's really my whole point.
I'm curious,if you don't believe in astrology what led you here to this site if you don't mind my asking?
see what I mean about this blanket statement "human nature"?
we are both bulls,I assume....but our natures are somewhat different,although we are both bulls...and both human. 😉
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ha ha,are we fighting? :p

"If you know that can't control someone's behavior then why do you waste your time analyzing their behavior based on their charts?? What's the point??"

well,basically just to gain a better understanding of ourselves and the other person....to me,it's easier to understand someone's behavior if I get what's causing it.but that's just me....

and,I analyze charts more for people at the beginning or even before they get together...to help them understand what they may be dealing with.so,they can make the choice and decide if it's worth it instead of 10 years later wondering wtf did I get myself in to—

if they are already that far in...we can look and see what the problem is,for example opposing mercury's causing communication problems which if known about and understood,can be modified by trying to communicate in a different way. 😉

you can't take the asshole out of a chart...but you can decide whether you want to be with that asshole,ya know?
sometimes knowing what causes it makes it more tolerable,sometimes not.
but bitching about it just don't fix it,we have to adjust or move on.

and your advice is not a problem to me....there are more than one way to see things.🙂

did you used to be here before with another name? you remind me of someone. 🙂
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That conjunction is great isn't it? 😉
and pretty hot too 🙂

I have a lot of aries in me...and my venus in aries helps me get along great with guys with aqua venus and mars,whereas I read around here all the time how a lot of women have problems with them...they are so detached or hard to understand...but I don't see it that way thanks to good old aries. 🙂

I bet with all that taurus he's super laid back,huh?

and that sounds nice starfish,I'm happy for you. 🙂
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hi peeps... my 1st post as a taurean 🙂 I reached this site late last night and have been hooked till today just reading all the pots here! Great community btw...

My 2 cents - most taureans (hv a few bull m8s as well) are a little insecure when they are younger, and a lot of the negative thoughts translate to frustration and irritation, as we generally dont like sudden surprises very well. This is an irritating temper as he tends to be unpredictable at times, but thats not REAL taurean anger.

Alot of the bull character makeup comes from that individual's 'Inner-game', which we consider as our personal guarded secret - ie, we know what our problems, and most probably would already be working on it. But when they lie about something on the first couple of meetings, this is sign that the guy has not gotten complete control of his life and inner game yet, as well as being young (immature).

But as the bull grows older, wiser and more experienced, he learns to raise the level of his inner game (yes, while they are lazy at the same time, they are highly intuitive people and learn mainly from experience.. however the rate of this improvement may be slow. A mature, solid Taurean who has a tight inner-game and feels solid about himself should not door display any of the above... unless on rare occasions. He will solve problems and confront his enemies when needed to, but will rarely put him or his girl in danger by actually using his fists - and he will very very rarely be verbally abusive, as they like to think of themselves as refined.

Like myself, I have not exploded or blown up in years (d last time i recalled was about 4-5 yrs ago) - but when this matured bull gets ticked off real bad... just hide. He will be beyond control and restraint and will even get extremely violent and reckless. However a mature thinking Taurean with tight inner-game and relatively hgh self-esteem levels, WHOM ha already found his 'true love'... will rarely rarely ever hurt her intentionally.

Find a stable Taurean... young or immature ones will lie about themselves inorder to make them more appealing - as they generally would have done loads of homework about the girl they have set their eyes on. their lies are very hard to detect and they sure know how to make their way around your heart.

Their d most loyal partner you can find in this world, but yeah I do agree with some of the bad attitudes some bulls may possess, but it can definitely be worked on as we are calm an
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This is not astrologically based advice, but since I'm a bull and this is how I interpret his behavior it could be helpful. You two work together and there is an attraction between you, however, you're just getting to know each other. Why do you think this sexual harassment case bothered him so badly? Maybe because he's crushing on you and now he's worried that if he pursues you then you'll file sexual harassment charges against him. He was also telling you in a subtle way that if he's interest in you was offending to please tell him before turning him in for sexual harassment.

About the pictures, you not wanting to be in the pictures he was taking felt like a personal rejection of him. Is it logical? No, but that's totally how I would have felt too if I'd been the one holding the camera.

I am a female Taurus, but I totally understood each of his reactions and why for some reason.