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Posted by krysrenee7
Taurus' can be really petty. Problem is, they don't see/perceive themselves as being petty. They literally see it as them fighting for a greater cause (justice) so of course calling them petty or overly dramatic about certain things goes in 1 ear & out the other.
I think it's b/c Taurus' have the ability to get really/overly-emotionally attached to situations, even if it doesn't involve them. They are quick to put themselves in other's shoes & literally exude anger as if they were the ones in the situation from the beginning. This about them can be a great strength in them, but then again it can also make them appear irrational, petty, overly aggressive and/or temperamental.
My ex was a Taurus. Every time I told him stories about my friends getting done wrong by guys, he'd get overly angry about it, almost as if he were them & as if he were the 1 with the broken heart. If he saw something he didn't like, he'd get overly dramatic about it & almost appear to have a temper about it. It was quite scary, especially to me, an Aquarius, whose normally cool, calm & collected even in the most tempting of situations.
Taurus' takes alot of things personal even when they shouldn't. But once again, telling them this will only add more fuel to their fire. Smh
Taurus' are good people but they can go from 1 extreme to the other. They're either extremely grumpy/overly-dramatic about something or the opposite, too relaxed & calm about a situation to the point that their calmness is almost suspicious/not normal.

Posted by cutiebullie
I personally don't believe in compatibility, similarities in personality, interests and all that.
To me what matters is the "values" of the person. Love is when you respect another person, once respect is lost everything else will follow.
I've learned not to just ignore red flag warnings I see along the way of getting to know someone/dating/being significant others before getting married/settling down. Once a guy is rude in his words and ways and how he treats other people - it only shows that he have a bad attitude to live with. His rude ways will definitely bring out the rude side of me, and this is not going to work for me long term.
We all mirror how people treats us - that's human nature.

Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius
Thank you so much for the advice everyone, it's really incredibly helpful. I am so appreciative.
Bella, I love your astrological knowledge! That's really interesting, but also sad, cause that means it won't work out with me and any Taurus men, which is a shame, cause I crush on them so much! My best friend is a female Taurus, so we work out well, but in all my years of work, I have only had one colleague that grated on me and he was a Taurus, but then there was another Taurus male at the same time who I got along with really well. It's really interesting to compare. You??re right that I did have a bad experience before, which is over, but my heart is still really bruised. It's a bit weird to be crushing on yet another Taurus, but we will see. His anger has made me think again. I actually love that you refer to actual astrology, that's why we are here!
Krysrenee, that's really interesting. I love how you know what I mean about them getting angry. What is your sun sign? My Taurus definitely does the swinging from one extreme to another too.
Cutiebullie — I love your take on things. I especially agree with the debating over small things, this guy does that. Exactly!! He creates conflict and then blames me. Yeah this Taurus is in his 40s??_ 😢 The second thing you said really resonated with me, cause this guy is really rude too. Excessively, yet I still like him for some reason. He knows he's rude too and sometimes apologises for it saying he can't change. I am a really soft person, but when this guys starts to argue with me, I get defensive and I don't recognise myself.
Thank you all!







Posted by Starfish225
"I bet with all that taurus he's super laid back,huh?"
Very much so, he also has a Cap rising, so thats even more laid backness..lol
But once that Aries in him wants to play or get angry look out!! :-)


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For example, we were talking about how a co-worker of mine had accused someone else we work with of sexual harassment and when I told the Taurus he got really angry with me, saying why did I let that happen, why didn't I tell her to just talk to the accused person first.
He was really scary and blaming me for this. I reminded him that I had nothing to do with it and only just found out about the claim two months after it happened, so I am not involved at all and in any case (I didn't say this) if the girl is really being harassed, maybe she doesn't feel comfortable confronting the harasser.
I found all of this really strange and there have been several other instances where he seems really vindictive for no reason. He usually seems so placid and unruffled the rest of the time.
Is this normal? Why would he act this way?