Alright, Taurus men...

I'm dating a Taurus. But he baffles me! Quick story, we hooked up about a month ago and started a fling, no expectations. No complaints there. Then, he asked me to date him and we made it official. We're dating and for the first few weeks, he flirted and called and texted. Then, I felt like he started to pull away. No flirty texts, no calls, and honestly, I get the feeling like he doesn't even want to see me. He works in food and I can visit him at work and that's the only time I get with him, when I make the effort to go hang out with him at work. When I'm there, he introduces me as his girlfriend, interrupting work to meet his bosses, and gets jealous when other men hit on me. I have a daughter who now knows that I'm dating him and wants to meet him. He says that he wants to meet her too, but hasn't stepped up to make the time. I don't want to push the issue if he's having reservations, for the sake of my daughter.


I guess I'm just confused. Is this typical for Taurus's? I've dated Aries, Libras, Geminis, and Virgos. This behavior would usually mean that he's having reservations. But when we're together, it's like he's totally there. AHHHHHHHH!

Oh, and I we started with sex, and now, he doesn't seem to want to have sex with me. He told me that he's just used to not having it and it isn't that he doesn't enjoy it.

I really do like this guy, and in my gut, I trust him. It's my head and the past that has me questioning this.

I'm going to breathe now. That's my story. Anyone have any insight? Is this guy real? Am I reading too much into his silences?

next time tell us your sign,
it's neither in your profile or your name.
like we're supposed to guess what you are?

Gemini on Taurus cusp

Hi, I know you asked for advice from Taurus males, but I don't think we female bulls are any different from the male bulls 🙂 So here it goes. First of all the fact that he has made it official with you is a big deal for a Taurus, we don't just make it serious with just anyone we date/fling with- so that is good news for you. Now it seems to me that he was all excited about you at first, it happens the whole wooo yippe butterflies in the tummy and fireworks going off and how it feels so great, the newness, the rush rush adrenaline whatever the hell. That has now worn off and he has relaxed now and wants to analyse things on his own and take it slow with you in order to find that deeper connection, to be able to relate to you etc. Because you started off the other way round the sex has been put aside in order for him to be able to connect with you in other ways other than sex. So now is the time for you to sit back and relax, do your own thing and go out without him, just let him be and let him come to you. I hate what I can't have, but somehow it just happens that my mind is drawn to the ones that I know I could lose, the same has happened with the Taurus men I have been in relationships with and all my male bull friends when they have dated other girls I have noticed that same pattern that they seem be more interested when they know their partner has a life of their own and never shows they need them etc, you have to find a healthy balance between wanting him and having your own independence. You need to do your own thing and not give him the entire power over you in the relationship where he knows he has got you and you are not going nowhere, you have to keep him a tad bit on his toes because easy come means easy go- don't be like that. I am sorry I don't mean to sound harsh but I'm just being honest and I never sugar coat, take my advice or leave it it's as simple as that 🙂 Good luck, he does like you but it's down to your behaviour now!

Sup dabull

Yea, what's his chart? Dude has gotta have an impulsive venus/mars.

Sounds like doom though. I can't really imagine a scenario where I'd be so hot-cold. I either likes ya or I hates ya. No in-between.

I'd say don't put all your eggs in that basket...keep in mind you're a catch dammit and it's his freakin loss if he doesn't step it up 🙂...

Hey tubby 🙂

I'm still living my life. It's too hard not too. My daughter keeps me busy. I'm so used to the rushy rush relationships with air and fire signs that this is a strange new world. He's pretty closed off, thanks to past women, and not expressive about his feelings. It helps that we've been friends for four years. I just wasn't sure what to expect. He stopped by today and acted like he always does when we're together. I got a big kiss and hug. 🙂 I'm just going to keep going and see where it goes. He's worth the wait because he really is a great guy. And I NEVER say that.

Seems like he might have a lot on his plate at the moment and just needs that time to just get it all together, inside him there might be a lot going on, but remember taurus do not display their weaknesses that easily to anyone, we do not find it that easy to talk about things that bother us and would rather just sort it out alone in our own time without having to tell our loved ones because we know it will make them worry and not mention our strong machoness will not be on display i.e we don't want to look weak and would rather fight our own battles. Just give him some time and be patient with him and he'll come around eventually. It seems like he does care about you and like you, because it's not like he is ignoring you and shut out completely, that's when you should worry, but you guys seem fine, he's just a man that likes to sort it out alone and then bounce back up to rub his happy side off on you rather than his sadness 🙂

Mwahahahhaa.