do Tauruses not reach out to their friends enough?

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do you feel that YOU are always the one who has to contact US? do you get offended when you go on vacation and we dont call or text you to see if you are having a good time? do you feel that you literally have to ask us to be there for you because we don't give you attention when you are not around?


I think my Aquarius friend is silently mad at me because before she left for a two month vacation I didnt make an effort to see her but its not really my fault because she is constantly with her other friend so what the f, youre clearly busy so you dont make time for me either... and the whole time she was on vacay she didnt message me either, idk if i was supposed to reach out to HER? idk.. and when i did finally message her she seems kinda distant rather than warm and fuzzy and like 'i miss you" and stuff like that.. are aquas the type to give u the silent treatment? also, do u think tauruses are not "there" enough??
let me know what you think tauruses need to work on as friends but in a gentle way please, no criticizing and judging, im openly asking for advice, this is not an open invitiation for anyone to attack tauruses.
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i think taureans be sometimes a little too single minded. you guys have a laser focus on one particular aspect of your life and sometimes other things will suffer for it.

i've learnt not to take it personally because it's never intended to be dismissive or negative.

when you lot get back on an even keel again, you're fine! then again, i'm an air sign with a sag moon, i don't need you all up in my business anyway. maybe your aqua needs to just get over herself.
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i think taureans be sometimes a little too single minded. you guys have a laser focus on one particular aspect of your life and sometimes other things will suffer for it.

i've learnt not to take it personally because it's never intended to be dismissive or negative.

when you lot get back on an even keel again, you're fine! then again, i'm an air sign with a sag moon, i don't need you all up in my business anyway. maybe your aqua needs to just get over herself.
do you have any long friendships with tauruses? if so, is that the only thing that bothers you about us?

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i think taureans be sometimes a little too single minded. you guys have a laser focus on one particular aspect of your life and sometimes other things will suffer for it.

i've learnt not to take it personally because it's never intended to be dismissive or negative.

when you lot get back on an even keel again, you're fine! then again, i'm an air sign with a sag moon, i don't need you all up in my business anyway. maybe your aqua needs to just get over herself.
do you have any long friendships with tauruses? if so, is that the only thing that bothers you about us?

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the only long friendship i have is with my bull. is that the only thing that bothers me? haha! how long have you got??!?! ๐Ÿ˜†
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I have said it so many times, the only reason I have friends is because they make an effort to stay in contact with me. I rarely contact my friends. I am not even that great at returning calls. I feel like a bad friend, and am in this respect. Contacting someone feels like a chore. I do, however, love spending time in person with my friends and will be there for them or do pretty much anything for them when they are in need. You better believe if I am actually calling or texting you on the regular that I am head over heels sick in love with you.
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@jeane thanks for the support and you're right she can go fuck herself, she's a child. It sounds like you two get along pretty smoothly, why don't you two date?
you're welcome. i was surprised to learn today that my lack of giving a right royal shit what anyone thinks of me is shared trait amongst certain libras on the board. especially when it comes to friends. perhaps it is the social libra in me but i have a lot of friends. if someone wants to drop off the radar for whatever reason it is ok with me. it won't slow me down. there are far too many people in the world to be hung up on a friend that doesn't appreciate you.

why don't who date? me and the bull? we have been! been together for a year and a half now. ๐Ÿค—
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Oh wow congrats. I didn't know u were dating a bull. Do you think libra and Taurus get along better as male and female rather than two females or two males.... My libra bff has been pissing me off for awhile now. But my other libra female friend is pretty cool. We don't fight. Idk, I'm just always friends with libra i don't freaking know why... Ugh they're everywhere
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jeane, can you explain libras a bit to me? i have a friend that's a libra. and there's a lot of differences between us. what would you say is the biggest differences between our two signs?

i love her though. but we're very different.

she's a taurus fangirl though. lol.
What do u want to know exactly, differences in a platonic or romantic relationship?
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@OP: i feel like that with my cap for friend, she has a taurus moon. I did confront her about it she just replied with "im lazy and awkward". We have been friend for 5 years now..... I got too pissed this one time and ended up giving her an ultimatum "you try or we are DONE". She is one of the very few ppl i have managed to trust. People say a relationship is a two way street but so is friendship.
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Oh wow congrats. I didn't know u were dating a bull. Do you think libra and Taurus get along better as male and female rather than two females or two males.... My libra bff has been pissing me off for awhile now. But my other libra female friend is pretty cool. We don't fight. Idk, I'm just always friends with libra i don't freaking know why... Ugh they're everywhere
honestly? i think age has a lot to do with it and i think i am lucky enough to be compatible with other placements with my bull. i think had this not been the case then i honestly, don't think we could be together. on paper we are so radically different it is laughable but somehow we share a like mind. our thoughts are the same, our reactions are the same, we are both highly ethical and somehow just 'get' the other.

i know another taurus but not as well. she is nice and all, we both have a common dislike of too many people, she is very honest and seems to be a decent person. i don't know if we could be anything more than friendly associates though. she is, by her own admission, quite domineering and i think that might put me off eventually. i think that is a bit of difference between the male taurus and the female taurus? don't know. could be making that up there.

2 men? no idea. from all accounts the male libra is a completely different species to the women. if i were to hazard a guess, i don't see it working. libras as so here, there and everywhere. minds are never truly made up without a concerted effort. i can see that driving a bull up the wall.
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Posted by faceroll
jeane, can you explain libras a bit to me? i have a friend that's a libra. and there's a lot of differences between us. what would you say is the biggest differences between our two signs?

i love her though. but we're very different.

she's a taurus fangirl though. lol.
biggest difference? i think it would have to be the lack of consistency that you get from a libra. taurus are slow to make up their mind. they won't commit until they are certain.

a libra will make their mind up a hundred times a day and still change it. they can be CONVINCED they are certain only to be CONVINCED in the complete opposite direction as fast as you can blink.

taurus goes away and expects things to be as they left it. you can't do that with a libra. you never know what you'll come back to. it's nutty.
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Oh wow congrats. I didn't know u were dating a bull. Do you think libra and Taurus get along better as male and female rather than two females or two males.... My libra bff has been pissing me off for awhile now. But my other libra female friend is pretty cool. We don't fight. Idk, I'm just always friends with libra i don't freaking know why... Ugh they're everywhere
honestly? i think age has a lot to do with it and i think i am lucky enough to be compatible with other placements with my bull. i think had this not been the case then i honestly, don't think we could be together. on paper we are so radically different it is laughable but somehow we share a like mind. our thoughts are the same, our reactions are the same, we are both highly ethical and somehow just 'get' the other.

i know another taurus but not as well. she is nice and all, we both have a common dislike of too many people, she is very honest and seems to be a decent person. i don't know if we could be anything more than friendly associates though. she is, by her own admission, quite domineering and i think that might put me off eventually. i think that is a bit of difference between the male taurus and the female taurus? don't know. could be making that up there.

2 men? no idea. from all accounts the male libra is a completely different species to the women. if i were to hazard a guess, i don't see it working. libras as so here, there and everywhere. minds are never truly made up without a concerted effort. i can see that driving a bull up the wall.
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Posted by faceroll
lately i've attracted a lot of leeb MOONS. which is not the same as sun. but i find them extremely sensitive and emo. the libra i'm friends with is a cancer moon so she's super emo too. i was surprised with how sensitive and shit libra placements are. i've always known back stabbing evil ones so i have never gotten close to one before. but the leeb placement people are all good people.

i don't hate libras or anything. i've just had bad experiences. like i've had bad experiences with gemini venus too. but i don't think they're all bad.

i mostly attract water signs in general. like by far. then some earth. lately i've been attracting fire. but really no air except aquas.
oh no fear, i can backstab with the best of them. i like politics and i like strategising and coming at you when you never expect it but only if someone starts with me. i never go looking for a fight. (i'm also a libra mars)

i don't find the suns very sensitive. no that's not true, i was very sensitive when i was younger. now i veer to the apathetic. very little gets my goat these days.

do you think that you are a domineering personality?
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jeane, inconsistency is a weird thing. i have a lot of issues. and i'm extremely emotionally volatile. but people always tell me how stable they think i am. despite me thinking i'm a hot mess. it's strange. i guess compared to OTHERS i am extremely stable. just to me i feel like i should be even more stable. and feel less than when i'm not. taurus problems. ๐Ÿ˜
sounds like you hide it well. i imagine you're dealing with a lot of stuff in your life. i think in comparison to what pushes most people over the edge you are keeping your shit together incredibly well. you can only do so much before things have an effect.
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this is me
sun taurus
rising libra
venus aries
moon virgo
mercury gemini
pluto scorpio
mars leo

this my libra friend who i get along with the best but sometimes we have poor communication like we dont understand each others feelings
sun libra
venus libra
rising libra
mer libra
mars scoprio
pluto scorpio
moon libra

this my bitchy libra friend
sun libra
moon taurus
rising libra
venus scorpio
merc libra
mars leo



what do u guys think, destined or doomed for libra 1 and libra 2
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this is me
sun taurus
rising libra
venus aries
moon virgo
mercury gemini
pluto scorpio
mars leo

this my libra friend who i get along with the best but sometimes we have poor communication like we dont understand each others feelings
sun libra
venus libra
rising libra
mer libra
mars scoprio
pluto scorpio
moon libra

this my bitchy libra friend
sun libra
moon taurus
rising libra
venus scorpio
merc libra
mars leo



what do u guys think, destined or doomed for libra 1 and libra 2
wow, are you and lib 2 really similar? do you feel at the best of times complementary?

maybe some of things that irk you about her are traits that you are sometimes guilty of? just throwing it out there....
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hey im here, faceroll, are you interested in her romantically or just as friends?

@jeane, what are his placements?
rising leo - 22
sun taurus - 23
moon sag - 2
merc gem - 2
venus taurus - 14
mars cancer - 28
nn scorp - 12

and like i was saying to scorched, both our plutos are in libra - 9 for him, 11 for me.

what do you see mt??!!! i'm a little scared to ask...๐Ÿคฎ

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youre asking the wrong taurus for advice on reading charts babe, im an expert at sun signs. no idea to read a chart. ask SpiceNsugar or Tiziani.

I was asking you to read my chart with my closest leeb friends lol! seems like were in the same boat and cant help each other ๐Ÿ˜ข
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this is me
sun taurus
rising libra
venus aries
moon virgo
mercury gemini
pluto scorpio
mars leo

this my libra friend who i get along with the best but sometimes we have poor communication like we dont understand each others feelings
sun libra
venus libra
rising libra
mer libra
mars scoprio
pluto scorpio
moon libra

this my bitchy libra friend
sun libra
moon taurus
rising libra
venus scorpio
merc libra
mars leo



what do u guys think, destined or doomed for libra 1 and libra 2
wow, are you and lib 2 really similar? do you feel at the best of times complementary?

maybe some of things that irk you about her are traits that you are sometimes guilty of? just throwing it out there....
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yup exactly, we are too similar. probably because of her taurus moon which conflicts with my taurus sun. basically, we conflict each other instead of complement one another. i get annoyed with her the most. she has attitude problems and so do i SOMETIMES, therefore i need someone who is consistently calm and exceptionally wonderful. like a care free and mature libra sun or aquarius sun. very easy going. patient, and kind. she is none of those.
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yup exactly, we are too similar. probably because of her taurus moon which conflicts with my taurus sun. basically, we conflict each other instead of complement one another. i get annoyed with her the most. she has attitude problems and so do i SOMETIMES, therefore i need someone who is consistently calm and exceptionally wonderful. like a care free and mature libra sun or aquarius sun. very easy going. patient, and kind. she is none of those.
are those traits that bug you about her the same traits that you dislike in yourself?
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yup exactly, we are too similar. probably because of her taurus moon which conflicts with my taurus sun. basically, we conflict each other instead of complement one another. i get annoyed with her the most. she has attitude problems and so do i SOMETIMES, therefore i need someone who is consistently calm and exceptionally wonderful. like a care free and mature libra sun or aquarius sun. very easy going. patient, and kind. she is none of those.
are those traits that bug you about her the same traits that you dislike in yourself?
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i dont dislike them about myself, im aware of my tendencies and how i am, and when my friend has the same tendencies as me, its irks me because then its in my face all day long, haunting me, i want something different, a change, a complement. something exciting, and unpredictable. a new view on life, a new reaction.
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Posted by faceroll
taurus moon is one of the best moons. and btw busy. virgo moon and taurus moon are trine. so they're one of the best matches for each other. really do you think before you say things?
totally see your point faceroll and i appreciate your insight but busy is right, our moons clash so much, i get along better with libra 1. we may just be too similar (libra 2 and i) not a good thing.
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sun/sun and moon/moon is not as strong as sun/moon aspects.

which is why i personally love taurus moons so much. i just connect with them. despite it being not good on paper for my aries moon.
wait im confused, how does this work? does it matter female or male or two females?...
do i take MY sun with a males moon? or HIS sun with my moon? or does gender not matter...
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you can have an out of sign conjunction with an aries or a gemini placement if your taurus placement is cupsing those signs. but our conjunct sign is our sun sign usually. so taurus is usually conjunct with taurus.

so for you if you want a pure conjunction you're looking for a taurus moon guy or a virgo sun guy. within the appropriate degrees.
i would not want that then haha, i dated a taurus before = pure disaster
virgo i find to be boring because we have too much in common. i prefer pisces, libras, and leos romantically and cancers, aquariuses, and virgo platonically *why is platonically not a word lol*
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hey im here, faceroll, are you interested in her romantically or just as friends?

@jeane, what are his placements?
rising leo - 22
sun taurus - 23
moon sag - 2
merc gem - 2
venus taurus - 14
mars cancer - 28
nn scorp - 12

and like i was saying to scorched, both our plutos are in libra - 9 for him, 11 for me.

what do you see mt??!!! i'm a little scared to ask...๐Ÿคฎ

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omg jeane, what i just realized, is that you and your boo's signs are semi-sextile like mine and I. our venuses are opposing, and our mars are square. do you feel like he is your magnet? i feel that way about libra 1.
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