freaky taurean male

hi people, i am the one who posted up in love...fast last week. thanks for everyone's opinion, indeed great and refreshing. now he is even doing crazier things such as not to fly off so that we can see each other(he was at the airport and cancelled last min with a $ 2000 ticket) and spend more time..and he is going to drive all the way down to where i am(5 hours) tommorrow to pick me up and be with him all week...he is doing such outrageous things for loving me that i am freaking out inside...i have never seen someone deeply in love with me before. guys tell me if what he is doing is a taurean male thing or is this freaky!!! he wants to do everything for me and tells me that all he wants from me is my love and care...??

Girl this is crazy! How long did you say you knew him? because Taurus individuals don't go that fast. I give you advise (jayla) on this situation about him "sweeping" you off your feet, but he's taking it to the gamut. Taurus people Male/Female are possessive when it comes down to the people we love. But he is TOO possessed for someone who JUST MET you. don't let this turn into fatal attraction or something. I have a question? 1) Are you able to express yourself the way you want to when around him or does he have all the control and you just sit back. 2) Have you spoke to him about how you feel regarding him being sooooooo forward. These issues you need to take into consideration. Now it's not just "oh I met this nice guy and he loves me because he does a lot for me" Now it's
"What's wrong with this guy for doing all of this at once." He may have some type of issues regarding relationships/dependency that needs to be looked at. But when it comes down to it, it is YOU who has been around him and can figure out what type of person he is. Just express your feelings to him and be careful. Some people may reply saying oh go for it, he seems nice, etc, yada, yada, yada. BUT YOU should look more into this and tell him to take one step at a time. because if love is there between the both of you. THEN THERE IS NO RUSH!!!!!! Jayla

coming from a taurus, a female, it is kind of crazy that he is moving fast becuz we do take it slow, but we can fall pretty fast, we usually just take more time before we show it. Maybe he just really feels comfortable with you for some reason.

I suggest you run FAR FAR AWAY from this guy. SOMETHING IS NOT RIGHT, that's for sure. Be careful with yourself in his company if you decide to continue to see him. And no this is not a Taurean trait. None of the earth signs behave this way. They're to logical to pull such stunts and take their sweet slow time. This one sounds like he has major mental problems?

I don't know about that. I give him some credit, coming from a taurus woman.Just do what feels right inside. If it feels weird, then maybe you should stop seeing him, but it feels right, it's okay.

hi people ok here goes my update! he was supposed to pick me up but he gotten himself hospitalised last min so i went all the way up to be with him and take care of him. spent 4 days with him, and he told me that he feels more each day for me..and slowly same here. now he flew back to his home country for two weeks and i am waiting if he does feel for me the same still...scary part is that when we were together, he read me like an open book, which no other guy ever did before...

As a Taurean Male who enjoys being with a woman who seems to be what he wants...I would have to say that if it seems right for him, he won't mess around with game playing....if the other person feels the same way....then the love will flow...maybe he is just glad that he has met someone he can vent his deep passions to (some people freak at passionate love and affection). I doubt that he is just saying and doing all of this stuff just to get in your pants. Love at first sight is rare and rarely accurate, but it has been known to happen, and if it has happened between you two...more power to you....

As a Taurean Male who enjoys being with a woman who seems to be what he wants...I would have to say that if it seems right for him, he won't mess around with game playing....if the other person feels the same way....then the love will flow...maybe he is just glad that he has met someone he can vent his deep passions to (some people freak at passionate love and affection). I doubt that he is just saying and doing all of this stuff just to get in your pants. Love at first sight is rare and rarely accurate, but it has been known to happen, and if it has happened between you two...more power to you....

That seems so romantic, but still take it slow. It's nice when someone knows you inside out, that means that they truly care enough to get inti your mind, but not in a bad way cause' I have this friend , well I distance myself from him from time to time. Don't get me wrong, he's a nice person, but you gave me flashbacks when you said he READ YOU LIKE AN OPEN BOOK! That's what my friend does, I MEAN REALLY DOES SPIRITUALLY. he can read your thoughts and feelings without you verbally saying anything. that's scary cause he likes me a lot and I just like him as a friend, so it has gotton to the point that he would read me without my permission and use it to get close to me to find out what I'm up to when he's not around. It's really crazy. I haven't heard from him though in a couple of months. GOOD

That must be a Taurus Male trait; My Taurus friend has very good intuition and can read me like a book as well. I don't have to say much and he knows exactly what I'm thinking.

Boy, sometimes we do read without permission..sounds like 1984..hun, if he has you "pegged" and this bothers you, maybe you would feel more comfortable around someone who is in the dark or something....Maybe people just don't like to be told something they thought was some kind of secret...I don't think that he is trying to be brutal... maybe a little too direct for your blood...don't really thinks he means to harm.

Taurus male who knows how to read at times without permission

Hi,

I hope your not responding to the June 25th post -- which is mine. It doesn't bother me if he knows what I'm thinking. That tells me we're connected. Maybe your responding to the post before me ?)

Sorry Taurus male. It was the other post you were referring too. I didn't have time to read her whole post and I just did. Forgive my ignorance but what she wrote doesn't make sense to me. That's kind of a silly statement -- "He's Reading her without her permission"?? I didn't know people had to get permission before having vibes and/or good intuition about someone. It's just natural.

Sorry...one more thing. I don't think it's being brutal at all. And being direct is much better. Who wants to be kept in the dark?

number one you should mind your business chick. When I said he READS ME WITHOUT PERMISSION, I knew what I was talking about!!!!!!! You are thinking of something totally different from what I'm trying to say. If you believe in the "craft" of reading people's subconsious or know someone who has the ability to do this, then you WOULD know what the F--K I was saying. I'm not crazy and I know how to express my thoughts thank you!! To give you a hint on what I mean, have you heard of JOHN EDWARDS who reads "spirits" on the show Crossing Over or SYLVIA BROWN who sometimes appears on the Montel Williams show and the Learning Annex to give seminars. THAT IS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT and it IS IN FACT an invasion of privacy, a form of stalking especially when it is done out of curiousity or to satisfy one's wish to control another. That is a lot of power to have over people being able to "READ" them. because my friend knows that I only like him as a friend but he thinks by him "READING ME" he can control my environment and people around me.

Look ; #1 it was my opinion -- and I could be wrong. #2 this is a message board with various opinions. And being that we are all reading through typing, things will be determine differently -- and taken out of context so it's something you might consider before going off on people. It's not lady like to use such language either. You could have voiced your opinion in a totally different manner that doesn't involve anger. And it's not chick....its woman.

I agree with #192. Lighten up or take a valium.

1)Yes, it's a message board (free might I add)
2)It's not a problem giving one's opinion but before you go rambling on of what sounds silly to you maybe YOU MIGHT CONSIDER comprehending what you read because the message was clear (CRYSTAL).
3) I went off for that reason cause I've been stalked before and it's not welcoming at all and to have some chick tell me or anyone else on this message board that there's no merit to my words can all kiss my ---. how lady like is that!

can we all just get along 🙂

I see good points for the both of you.

get back to the original message. did everybody forget the topic.

Now she is speaking of something totally different. What does voicing one's opinion on this board have to do with your personal life of someone stalking you? This board is not interested in hearing that, nor does it have anything to do with the topic here.

And what's not silly to you, could be to another. There is no reason to get upset about it. That's why we are all different.

That poster is right. Take a valium. You are very unlady like and a very angry person.

you know I guess she is really upset cause you made her feelings about what she went through seem not important or silly. she probably went through some crazy s***. you can tell by her writing. just like you have put your opinion in about your friend who you like. would you want somebody saying that what you said don't make sense or silly. or that no one wanted to hear that. just a thought. and i wouldn't mind hearing about what trials and tribulations people go through cause that's why we do this writing so someone can help us and give advice so speak for yourself. hey everyone has things going on with them they would like to share. that's why we are on this board in the first place.

Thanks but I feel you've missed the point. That wasn't the issue. The point was that she immediately went off on me about it. Now do you think that is the proper thing to do? All she had to do was ask me why I felt the way I did -- in a normal tone. That's all. But no she had to get angry about it.

It had absolutely nothing to do with what was silly -- or who took what seriously -- or what one's opinion was.

It was the attitude and the anger -- which is not acceptable.

what do you mean not acceptable?! who made you just and jury. Oh! are you goin' scold me.....stupid chick....I'm out!!!!!!!!!!!

also, get a life!! you spend too much time on this board. Go to school, get a job, go f*** a man. Do something!! Peace

I'll agree with 64! Why can't you just except the way she is? What ever way she is? Why does she have to get this boards approval before she makes a comment. I don't think anything she said was offensive. If you want to hear a really nasty- vulgar woman, I can show you that. She was perfectly right in her anger. I too agree that stalking people is frightening to say the least. Until you have experienced such horror you have no tell her how to feel!!!

You don't have a right too it anyways.

Thank you everyone for your support. I have various PC's to use so my numbers my be different. I'm the "angry one". and I'm not that way anyway i'm a taurus. I just don't like stupid CHICKS who don't know what they are talking about. Now she needs VALIUM. later guys

For the "angry one" (what to these people know anyway..right?)if you're the same woman who posted about your friend "reading your mind". It is very possible to do that BTW. I have this ability with one and one friend ONLY. I can not seem to be able to do this with any others? I know you spoke of it as an overall "craft" but not sure what you meant. I for one am just learning about the "mysteries of the universe" and how "anything seems to be possible".

If you know can you please tell me how it possible to be able to do this with just this one person? Is it him or is it me? Or is it something much more? To me it seems to go beyond a bond. I can and do finish his sentences and he seems shocked everytime "I repeat what he was thinking"!

I'm a Taurus female too but older, probably old enough
to be your mom. But you sound like your still in high school 64. I must say something to you
64, you do need to lighten up and take a valium.
And I don't think many Taurus guys like angry people. They
need someone patient who can speak to them without
screaming, without being angry. Do you go off on him when
he disagrees with you too, or thinks something is silly?

First your so angry about people expressing things, now
your bringing up a stalking subject that has nothing to do
with the topic that started. I think your looking for
attention. And your confusing everyone about it.

If you are being stalked you'd better take
a good look at yourself as to why. I think the reasons are
probably right in front of you.
And your probably on this board posting as much as anyone.

And whoever posted saying it wasn't right for you
to go off on them and use that language was right. It's a message board.
Just because she thought something was silly doesn't
make it stupid. Are you and your friends exactly alike? I don't
think so. And it is NO REASON to get so angry.
Don't you know how to speak to people normally?
And it doesn't say much for your character using dirty language. She is right
in saying you could have handled it differently. You could have
been a bit more mature. If you do not like what people's opinion's are
then you shouldn't post here.

Older Taurus Female

For 172.167. I have to comment on the following you posted...

"If you are being stalked you'd better take a good look at yourself as to why. I think the reasons are probably right in front of you. And your probably on this board posting as much as anyone."

I'd like to say that NO ONE AND I MEAN NO ONE INVITES STALKING!!! FOR ANY REASON! AND IT IS NOT BROUGHT UPON THE PERSON WHO IS BEING STALKED BECAUSE THERE IS NO REASON FOR IT! It is a sickness on the OTHER PERSON'S part doing the stalking and no one else. Been there done that and you can't imagine what a horrible feeling it is.

Nothing on this planet that ANYONE DOES merits stalking so please remember that. Unless one experiences such a thing I don't feel anyone should render a comment or opinion on the causes. There are no causes BTW. There can't be only because it's not a sane thing to do. Case in point. What reason is a good reason FOR YOU to want to stalk someone?

Yes I feel very strong on this subject because like I said I've experienced it and it was not because I had done anything. For you to make such a comment to an innocent person (message board or no message board) and yes those stalked ARE INDEED INNOCENT (think about it for a minute) was grossly unfair. Perhaps you need to choose YOUR words more carefully to those who post on these boards?

She was entitled to her opinion as well. Forget the strong language. Obviously "Duncan" did not find it offensive or else it would have been deleted. But show what there seems to be so little of these days in this world.... and that's RESPECT.

I wish people whould stop following the majority of others and do WHAT THEY REALLY WANT TO DO AND SAY WHAT THEY REALLY WANT TO SAY.

pls everypne stop abusing the message board and yes i agree with baby girl can we all get along? i posted the message and i got this...a lil funny but abusive to each other - pls dun!

NOTED!

Stalking is indeed NOT invited. Sorry to the one who posted this original message. It is not fair to you because you were seeking advice and people took my message to another level in which I wasn't even requesting their input. I was expressing my thoughts to you on the situation of your friend moving too quickly in the relationship. You seemed to have doubts as to why he was such in a rush to be with you. The reason why I went into my stalking incident was only because you mentioned that he knows you like an OPEN BOOK. So I added on my experience of my friend. People took it out of context as if he is deranged. He is my friend, but our feelings for one another are different simple. since he can't have me the way he wants. He sometimes chooses to "READ" me to see what I'm doing when I'm not in his presence.

As for the the post asking me on how you do this. I really don't know but I'll tell you what. I believe you have to be born with this ability. I believe in ol' southern ways and something like this is amazing to witness. As for you only being able to read one particular person, maybe you are so in toned to him that it comes natural. Because there is a difference when you are able to connect with someone because you care and just basically being able to "read someone's subconscious".

As for older female taurus I'm a college grad BA working on my Masters in the Fall . I'm 26 years old. no kids. Thank you!!

also, I forgot to mention for the post who wants to know about the ability to "read". I know what you are refering to when you say it goes beyond a bond between you and your friend. I'm like that with my mother and another male friend of mine. We can finish each other sentences and know what the other is thinking at times. It is amazing, but "reading the mind is a skill" Have you ever heard of someone being born with a veil on their face (old southern talk). well, you don't actually have a veil on your face when born it's just a figure of speech. But you are born with a mask on your face of your mother's sac that helped supply nutrients to you while is was carrying you. It is said that if the sac appears on your face while she's giving birth to you, then you will have this particular ability to "read" the SUBconscious of others. I suggest that you go to a bookstore if you want to know more on the subject. Hope I helped you a bit and didn't freak anyone out. 🙂

As for the older female taurus again. You of all people should know that we are not angry people in general I'm a taurus too (only when necessary). and for you to say that I need to take a look at myself for being stalked is obsurd. You are old enough to know better than to place blame on a victim of stalking. That's like placing blame on a rape victim?!

This is the older Taurus female. If you go back and read my post, I did NOT place blame now did I. You really don't read the posts well, and you simply read what you want to hear, and put words in people's mouths.

I was stating everything about your anger; and that if you ARE receiving threats, stalking, whatever in this lifetime, you need to look at yourself to see why this is happening to you!! You did not get that? I did NOT say you deserve it! No one does.

You really do misinterpret posts a lot. I've seen your posts before and you do this quite a bit. Perhaps that is why you make people angry on this board. You always have a come back stating that people are accusing when in fact they are not saying that at all! Everyone in this world with brains knows no one deserves stalking. That wasn't the point here! You seem to keep missing it. Once again, your off topic.

I know you didn't say I deserve it. YOU as well misinterpret because if you really READ my post I stated that he was my friend and he had the ability stated above. I didn't say I was running from someone or in trouble so mind your business woman. Plus by you saying that I need to look at myself is like I said before obsurd. Post 172 put it correctly to you.

LISTEN & COMPREHEND or mind your business.

Althought I'm a Taurus female, I cannot understand your personality. I've never met another Taurus female like yourself. You must have some strange stuff in your rising sign. That other woman who posted about you was absolutely right; but you not only need to lighten up and take a valium, you could also use an anger management class.

Have a good day now.

Older than 26 - Taurus female

To address the original post, I will tell you all I know and have observed about Taurus males and their behavior. I am a Scorpio female by the way.

I will start by saying that there are some Taureans who act very shy and "slow" (to pursue things/people), and then there are those (especially if they have Gemini rising) who seem to move along at an average pace. From what I have seen and experienced, at the point when the Taurus male *knows for sure* that he wants you, he will charge, at full speed. Not sloppily, but very VERY forcefully. If he thinks you feel the same way about him, he will go to the ends of the earth for you without thinking twice. He will doggedly persist until he feels he has won the honor of your partnership. He will protect you and try to fulfill all of your desires, both earthly and emotional ones.

To sum up, it sounds to me like this Taurus male knows beyond the shadow of a doubt that you are the one for him. You said you're a Scorpio (I think?). We have excellent intuitional feelings about who we're dealing with. Rely on that. Be gentle with your Taurus (they love ultra femininity)--BUT...do not let him walk all over you in a controlling, possessive or domineering sense. In my experience, they will (to a certain extent, and mainly just the males) if they think they can. Assert yourself with him, tell him when you need your space, and enjoy the guy if he's sincere and not shady. All of my advice comes from direct personal experience.

Love,
Heather : )

hey heather,
thanks for that! yes i am a scorpio female. i'm glad to hear advise. not sure if he is the one for me - vice versa but i'l give it a shot. anyway what ya mean by feminine? hmm..that's one department that i have no clue of tell me!

Hi,

I would think she meant very ladylike and womanly.

mystikal,

You're more than welcome. By femininity, the poster above is correct but I also meant that they like to feel that they are "in control" of certain things. They like to feel that you aren't challenging their masculinity in any way--although at the same time, they do appreciate a certain amount of feistyness...as long as it's tempered with softness as well. Basically, they don't like any "hard" or "rough" edges in the personality of their lady.

At least, from what I have observed.

Love,
Heather : )

C

How is 192.217.139.70 a Taurus on this topic, but an Aries on another topic? Hmmm...

That's simple. I have some very good Taurus friends in my life and one added her opinion to this board -- from my computer of course. But I would think some of us use different computers; I know I do between work/home computer. That's all.

Aries female.

Older Taurus Female:

This is an Older Taurus Male, and I am with your interpretation of this thing.
We do seem to take things a little calmer as we age, like fine wine, hopefully. I have to admit, this is the first time I have heard of "stalking" of this sort....I just think that if this guy makes the lady uncomfortable, that needs to change, because I cannot see a Taurus Male enjoying causing that for anyone, unless he is truely uncomfortable with himself or the "relationship HE is creating". Again, He may not even realise those actions may be self-defeating. Either way --- something has got to give....

Luck on this one

Taurus Male

Hello everyone,

If you look back on my messages, I never said the "stalker was a taurus". I'm the taurus, he is a Libra.

Sorry about that, but the same point still applies, regardless of his sign.

Taurus Male

You're right. I agree