Scorpio and Taurus--Can it work?

I am a Scorpio and I had met this Taurus friend three months ago. Now we are inseperable and we never argue like probably most opposites do. I really think because we are so devoted to each other and determined to be together, that this polar opposite pairing can work. I am really happy now. It is so nice to find a sign (Taurus) who is as determined as us Scorpios (when it comes to making things and relationships work)! It is a very comforting feeling.

Any other Taurus/Scorpio experiences? Can it work?

As long as Taurus keeps their desire to own every material possession. They just want more and more stuff so they can show off to the neighbors. I don't care for that, and it's shallow. It makes me look at them as if they need all this flash and cash because they don't feel they have anything else to offer. Their insecure and selfish at the same time.

My husband and I have been married for 11 years. We have a strange thing going here-he is scop/sag cusp and I am tau/gem cusp and we get along great. His birthday is 11-22 and mine is 5-20 we are both considered cusps people....

hi,
im a scorpio and my boyfren(been together for 4 months) is a taurus. the connection we share is amazing. theres this highly sensory thing that goes on between us and we're very receptive to each other's needs and wants. Im thinking you've found your true soulmate!(i think i have)🙂

How do you know when you've met your soul mate?

210, 3 things: 1) You lose sleep at night because you can't stop thinking about them and much you love that person. 2) You have endless conversations on the phone about nothing, because you're just so glad to talk to that person. 3) You don't care that you never get gifts, because being with that person is always special enough.

i thought you'd feel a particular affinity with the person. i always thought a soulmate was a person you could 'know' without really 'knowing' them if you know what i mean...

I think this pairing can work if Taurus reigns in its posessiveness a bit, and if Scorpio reigns in its jealousy a bit. Now, I'm not saying that either should change, just compromise a little. A little jealousy and posessiveness can actually add sparks to the relationship, but it can also kill it in large amounts. I am speaking from personal experience that when a Scorpio & Taurus are in a relationship and things are good, they're EXCELLENT, but when things are bad, they're HORRIBLE. It all depends how much the two are willing to compromise. The sex is often the one constant, great thing in the relationship.

Sorry, that was by phoenix_rising Scorpio female)

Awww!! Scorpio and Taurus what a sexy couple you two make! Talking from experience here, I've been with my sexy Scorp for a year and yea it's true when it's good it's Good but when it's bad it's Worse! something *~*~LOVE~*~* can surface!! Just learn to compromise and TRUST me it'll work. *Good Luck*

((((((*~Taurus chick~*))))

~~~~~1 more thing for ya Taurus*Scorp relationships the reward of a devoted lover is worth it!! Compatability is a sure thang!

*Taurus chick*

Thanks everone and Taurus Chick, how is the sex with your Scorpio mate?!!!

wish me luck feelas with my taurean male! sounds all good

I am a taurus female and my daughters father is a scorpio. We have been together for four years and he is crazy. He is very possessive and jealous. He wants to change me to be the way that he desires. He is very vengeful and pursuasive, not to mention manipulative. If you are with a scorpian male run as fast as you can, because If i could do it all over again, I wouldn't.

I am a taurus female and my daughters father is a scorpio. We have been together for four years and he is crazy. He is very possessive and jealous. He wants to change me to be the way that he desires. He is very vengeful and pursuasive, not to mention manipulative. If you are with a scorpian male run as fast as you can, because If i could do it all over again, I wouldn't.

I've had the same experience with scorpio males, I am a taurus female and have known many scorios during my life, in fact pretty much every person I am close to is a scorpio. They are very possesive, and can be mean, although some times are good, some times are real bad also. They don't ever want to let go and seem very much into themselves.

There is nothing I admire about Taureans. Most I know are self-centered and stingy not to mention greedy.

Do all Taurus males cheat? Like I was'nt knowing about his cheating what really got me was/is his insane jealousy and possessiveness think he had a guilty conscience?

Taurus Male here:

Whoa, ya'll let us get off the Darth Vador Taurus male crap....Honey, if you say he is stingy, maybe you are just too exspensive, and if he cheats, than obvously he is not getting what he wants by playing fair....

Give us a little credit, will ya.

Taurus Male who strives to be a good guy, but who is allergic to bullsh*t

Taurus Male, I just mean that I want to be treated nicely to the person I am with. If you treat me nicely, I will bend over backwards to make you happy (in more ways than one). When I say stingy, I mean the Tauruses I knew, wouldn't even give me a kiss when our date was going well. I want and need affection and if you give it to me, I will give it back to you.

Sorry for generalizing, that is never a good idea, and I hope you can be the one to prove me wrong..that you will give as much as you receive. Stay in touch!

Taurus Male here:
Hun, I have never seen the reason in treating someone poorly who is treating me well. Now when it comes to kissing, don't see a problem there if it is with someone I would like to kiss, I am usually careful about the "first kiss", because there is nothing as morale busting as swooping in for a nice kiss, and being refused, so maybe that guy just did not get a clear message that you wanted a kiss that bad, or, if I may dare to say, not all women are kissing material in our books. (We love kissing). If I am out with a woman, and the mood and aura is right, and the woman sends out those sensual signals, then I feel better about going after it if all seems to be a "go".....but, if anything seems to be "not right" about it all....I may refrain from pucker time until the time is right....if at all. You know, in my experience, (and I am up in years), I have found some women to actually be more amorous, the more you ignore them, and less amorous the more attention you give to them....I know it sounds crazy, but some women are that way. (Look at all the women in love with men that treat them like sh*t)
So I don't know what "conditioning" you guy as been through.....But one thing is for sure, a good Taurus will recognize affection, and usually has no problem returning it, IF he feels true affection for the woman.....
You need to ask yourself if you are just in that not so good position of having affection for someone who does not have it for you. That happens to many people, and it is definitely not a good position to be in. Otherwise, I would have to say if he wants you, he is sure going about it in a bad way. if nothing else, ask him, and he just may clarify the situation...I have to admit, I am curious about what he would say. Tauruses usually will answer any direct question asked of us.....at least I know I do...

Kissing might come easy for some people (You for instance) but we hold ours for worthy and accepting lips.

Taurus Male who enjoys kissing the right lips.

Oh Taurus male, he told me how he wanted me before our date was over. Then why no kiss— I guess maybe I met a Taurus who wasn't that direct as you are. I will tell you that most women appreciate honesty above all else, so good to hear that you are direct. Thanks Taurus male.

My pleasure...
You proobably just have a shy one. I know you can handle that.
Luck to you.
Taurus Male

Oh yes, he is shy at times, but sooooooo cute. There are lots of sparks in our relationship because we are zodiak opposites (I'm a Scorpio). But I really want him to open up to me, because we have been together for awhile now. I understand taking things slowly for the sake of not getting hurt, because we have both been hurt before. So I am willing to go as slow as he wants as long as we keep enjoying each other.

Taurus male can I ask if you are single or involved? 🙂

Dear Taurus Male 64.12,

So much wisdom and insight you have. I am hoping that you will be able to help me understand something and I do know that we cannot truly understand each human. I do need help in this situation and I feel you are the one to help me. I was asked out by a Taurus. We are the same age (older)...I find him very attractive, sensual. He took me to a wonderful place for dinner and half way through dinner asked if he could come over and sit next to me. Sure, I said. He was very sexual during dinner and it was driving me nuts! We then went to another place where we sat outside drank wine and he kissed me...oh my, so very good. I could have gotten lost in his arms...he could have taken me to bed...I said no. I want to begin as friends and not have sex so soon. We met again, I still said no. He has not called since. Why? It is so important to me to have a relationship begin with knowing each other. I told him that I find him very interesting and would like to get to know him better. Funny, I miss him. What do I do now? It has been over a week since we have spoken. Ball in his court or mine?

Thank you in advance for your wisdom...I appreciate you.

Gosh Ladies,

I am indeed touched. I am "up in years", I guess, at 52, but still know how to love. I am not currently involved, but have been blessed with a number of wonderful loves in my life. (and I am, most certainly, still in the running). The ladies I share my time with are friends, and we love and care for each other alot. It is a little different from the younger days, but now I seem to be more casual and carefree about Love. Who knows, the perfect one to one may cross my path, and Love may become serious, and all I can say is that Real Love is something that anyone should cherish. Enough of tooting my own horn....

Indeed I think it is quite important to get to know who you intend to love. It is exciting to first come across someone that seems to draw to you like a magnet, and I can assure you that if your Taurus is serious about you, he will show patience, if it is required to win you.......BUT BUT BUT, I can't tell you if his intentions are noble. From what you have described, he sure seems horny to me...and not contacting you seems strange. Looks like the ball is in your court. Ask if he is OK, and tell him you find yourself missing his company, and see what he says about that. Hun, if he is a good Taurus male, he will respect you enough to allow you to try to understand him better, as well as you wanting him to understand where you are comming from.
If that can't be reached, then maybe he just wants sex, and as important as sex is to a relationship to a Taurus, it is only meaningful if it is the physical expression of sincere love for you. If it is not, then it is just scratching an itch, and that is not fair to you and the needs you seem to have. Love at first sight is risky, but has been know to happen. he seems to rush, and that is strange, maybe it has just been too long for him and he's a yearnin'.
Hope you can find out what you need to know. Just because he is a Taurus Male like me, does not guarantee that he holds my strangely noble views of Love.
It may not last long, maybe yes, but if ya'll truely enjoy each others company, that is pleasant in itself. Just don't complicate it too much with a bunch of expectations to meet. It will flow naturally if it is a good one.

Good God, you are trying to turn me into some kind of guru or something....
Please remember, it is only my opinion.

Hope it works out, and Ladies, my sincerest thanks that you value my opinion.

Grateful Taurus Male

Dear Grateful Taurus Male,

Thank you so much for your words of wisdom. You are not much older than myself. I would have to say that it is wonderful that you have had life to experience and then to share those experiences with us. Wisdom comes from learning and living life...thanks for going first! 🙂

I now have a better understanding of my situation especially from the male point of view. I won't look at you as some type of guru....just a human who has had more experience than I and who is kind enough to be open to share his feelings. A very nice gift.

Thank you so much.

A human becoming.......

I'm happy to know that we are all up there in age on this board -- 40's. And yes we do value your wonderful opinion Taurus male. Taurus men are the best.

Aries female 🙂

Ladies,

After I turned 50, and I found myself thinking of things I did 30 years ago (when I was a young adult already)...I kept on thinking where has the time gone? Now, I find myself a "senior", so now I just want to enjoy each day the best way I can. If you have been around the block....then things just don't scare you anymore.....as a matter of fact, they humor me.

Hoping ya'll live in happiness or at least contentment...

Friend Taurus Male

I totally relate to what your saying. I'm in my 40's -- and nothing seems to scare me. I cannot recall being scared much when I was younger either. But I do remember having a comeback for people who were rude to me -- or who irritated me. Now I mostly laugh it off. It's not worth my time and energy to give them the attention.

I wanted to tell you that you are one very sweet Taurus Male. But then again, aren't you all.

Aries female :o)

Taurus 64,

You have such a way with words...oh my. I am so looking forward to when I am 50!!! You make it look sooooooo good 🙂 I do however relish in each moment knowing this is it, all that I have. I am not afraid to get older...my dad has been a great influence on me. HE found the love of his life in his 60's!!!! He looks so young. Ah, age....it is all in the mind. HE is now 75 and still going strong.

I hope that you all are having a great day. 🙂

He really does have a way with words doesn't he? I'm sorry but my mind is starting to wander about him....lol. In a good way of course. How he chooses his words, his sense of humor and how passionate and sensual I believe he is.

I hope everyone is having a great day as well.

Aries female

Mr. Taurus....

You are messing up us Aries women here...in a very good way. We will soon all be putty in your hands. You have "cyber" touched us!

Hey Aries....I am one of you too. I know how you feel. I wrote earlier about going out with a Taurus...and how I am missing him and for some silly reason, I am having a hard time calling him. I suppose because I had left him a message after out last time together saying what a great time I had and I have not heard from him.....maybe that is my sign....it is so easy for us rams to just walk away and say, "next"!!!!! However, I am now ready to settle down...does an Aries ever really settle down? hope all is well where ever you are 🙂 sending good wishes to everyone.

Ramella

Hi,

Yes I believe I remember your situation. I too have a Taurus friend but we are not in touch at the moment; he's going through a lot in his life so I don't believe it's right to bother him.

I hear what your saying about Aries but I am not the typical "craves action" Aries. I'm more of a stay at home person and I don't like to have many men. I want one special man to commit myself too so I would say we do like to settle down. But I've always been the one man kind of woman so it depends on the individual -- and age. I'm in my 40's.

Yes, those Taurus men have a way of making me weak.

Aries female

Taurus Male here,

You firey Aries Ladies can boil water signs and create hot air with air signs, but earth stands up pretty well to fire. If we make you weak, it is not our intention to do so, and if we love you, we intend to lavish in your
stregnths.
Also, please allow me to maybe clarify why we won't reply to certain messages left us. If someone leaves me a message saying they enjoyed something that included us, I will enjoy that message, and carry on. However, if someone says, please call me back...then I will certainly put that on my "to do" list....so ladies, maybe, if you request a response we usually will, if we have respect for your wishes. (Do bare in mind that if we find ourselves troubled or perplexed, we will try not to spread those bad feelings to others...especially to our loved ones)
You will find that we will be the last to ask for help when it comes to dealing with problems that we consider our own...I have to admit that pride can really keep us from "reaching out to others" even though we know that they would be more than willing to help.
Maybe that is one of those weaknesses we have when we have convinced ourselves
that we must be strong and not to burden others.

Taurus Male

I'm sorry Taurus Male. Perhaps I should clarify what I meant by "making me weak". I realized it could have meant other things. I didn't mean weak as a person; I'm a very strong person. I meant weak as in Taurus men making me melt kinda weak. Hope that helps.

Aries female.

Taurus Male,

Your response was very helpful to me. I understand much better. I did call my Taurus friend today and left him a message since he was unavailable to answer his phone. If he calls back that will be wonderful as I would love to hear from him. I left him my home phone # since he did not have it. Hey, life is about creating my life,...this is what I did and I feel good about it!

Aries female, I agree with you as far as those sensual taurus men making us "weak"....we just melt and it feels so good to our soul...thanks "earthy" guys for igniting our fire!

Aries Female,
I stand corrected. (but I did know what you meant, actually)

Taurus Male

I thought you did but I just wanted to mention it. I hope you have a good evening Taurus Male.

Aries female

Taurus Male,

Thanks for explaining why a Taurus male will not respond, unless asked too. That could explain why my male friend hasen't responded to an email I sent -- or usually doesn't unless I specifically ask for his opinion on some things. I have not asked for a reply; it was basically an email to let him know he has been in my thoughts. Even though I would appreciate a reply I didn't think it was right to burden him with that request at the moment because he's going through a lot in his life. But I do hope he'll get in touch with me again when things are going good for him. I believe I am doing the right thing by giving him space.

Aries female

Aries Female:

I sincerely hope it works out for you.
I can't speak for him, but I know that it seems to me that he is missing out on some quality time with a quality lady. Hope what he is doing otherwise is worth that.

Taurus Male

Thank you for your kind words Taurus Male. But it's much more complicated than that. We don't live in the same state and we haven't been in each other's company in years. In the past year and a half, we got in touch again. But other than phone, emails, etc., that has been our source of communication at the moment so it's been difficult. At this time in his life -- going through personal issues, we only spoke of seeing each other briefly; but that was some time ago. I don't believe he is ready at this time and this is the reason for our losing touch. I do hope it works out but if it's not meant to be I cannot do anything about that.

Aries female

Aries Female:

Those Long Distance things are hard to do. True Love will conquer that if it is meant to be. But I know it is probably a "mother" of test for that sort of thing. Sincerely hoping you and he are up to that...I sense that you are. Getting together is the key I think, Love has to have that. There just ain't no way around it.

All my hopes...

Taurus Male

Good Morning Taurus Male,

Thank you. I do realize that long distance is very difficult and I constantly tell myself why does my heart want to be focused on someone who is long distance. I have expressed interest to him that if it were to work out, I would have no problem in relocating. So I am sure he has kept that in mind.

But your intuition was right -- I am up to it; I am not sure that he is
though -- especially at this difficult time in his life. But as you said, if it's meant to be it will happen. If not, I will know when it's time to move on.

Aries female

Taurus male,

Have you ever had a relationship with another Taurus before? If so, how did that work?

Curious Taurus Female

Taurus Male here:

Ya know, I have been very close with Taurus females as friends, and I do love them, but have not been intimate with those....however, I would think that being intimate with another Taurean would probably be a very sensual and sincere sort of thing. (But I wonder about that "stubborn streak" that both would have about some things)
Guess I just missed out on that...But who knows, I am not in the grave, yet.
If you have had that, I would like to know how it went for you.

Curious Taurus Male

Curious Taurus Male,

No, I have not experienced another Taurus romantically before. I've had this male taurus friend for quite some time now, we've always connected real well, but now he claims he has fallen in love with me. I have very deep feelings for him also, but I am curious to know if our common personality traits, such as stubborness, would conflict. I wouldn't want to ruin our friendship, so I am scared to go further at this point. But I also have a feeling that love with another Taurus would be wonderful becuz it seems like we would understand each other's needs and reasons for doing certain things more, you know? If anything ever results, I'll let you know how it works out, though. Thank you for your response, I definately agree with the other women on this board that you seem like a wonderful man.

Curious Taurus Female

Taurus Female I think if your already connected with him it seems like it will work out for you. Do what your heart tells you to. Oh Let's not forget that Aries can be a bit stubborn as well. :o)

Good luck to you.

Aries female

Thank you Aries female, I appreciate that 🙂

Taurus Female

You are very welcome.

Aries female