Taurus & Scorpio!

Hey everyone...I am a female Scorpio, who has had weird and intense relationships & friendships with Taurus men. : ) There always seems to be an attraction between the Taurus man and myself; I would like to hear from the Taurus males on this...how do you feel about us Scorpio women? Are we too complicated for you? What kinds of experiences have you had with us...and what do you think of our infamous jealousy?

There is a particular Taurus man that I severed my ties with because of the fact that he was too possessive...but now, a couple years later, I'm starting to regret that because he *really* loved me, but I was always in a relationship and very cautious about getting involved with this particular Taurus. I'm wondering how easily a Taurus male "forgets". I know, it's my own fault, and now I'm sort of in an unhappy (sometimes) relationship with a Leo...I have this urge to talk to my Taurus again, but I don't know if he would forgive me or not. GRRR!

So please, share away, and any and all advice is appreciated! Thank you very much. : )

Jealousy is not a good thing. Jealousy is unresolved anger, that can be deadly. I run from angry people.

Most Taurians don't go back...when it's over it's over. I simply grow out of things. I learn my lesson and move on...I've had many old flings wanting to get back with me, but, when it's over it's generally over.

Be careful of jealous people, not healthy--and potentially dangerous.

Well it must be a rare thing when a Taurus closes his heart because I have a special Taurus friend in my life and I know that he is finding it hard to detach himself from a divorce.

We have made a great connection in the last year but in the last few months, he has been angry and it's taken a toll on our friendhsip.

We haven't spoken in months and I haven't contacted him -- he needs space until his heart heals. I guess it's a good think we haven't spoken too much about this subject at all. I don't want to be the transitional woman to help him get over this. There's a reason for everything that happens and I can see it now.

Thanks to both of you for your input.

Question to 209.214.3.128: I see what you're saying, but where do you get that jealousy is unresolved anger? I don't see that. I'm a very happy Scorpio about 90% of the time...and I am also slightly jealous in relationships (when I care deeply for the other person) about 90% of the time. Not angry; have nothing to be angry about on a long-term basis. And I don't see people running from me, they either accept that this is a part of who I am or they don't, which is rare because I'm not some jealous freak--and I am the one who moves on in the case of the latter. Also, I've never considered jealousy to be dangerous. What's dangerous is when jealousy takes over every other emotion a person might have and that person ACTS on their jealousy. It's all about self-control.

Comment to 64.61.104.234: I definitely think that you are being very clear-headed in your situation, and I think you are doing the right thing. He will come to you when he needs you, and he will respect that you allowed him to have his space while he works through this. Thank you for sharing, and good luck to you!

You are very smart not to be the transitional woman. This past year I was with a wonderful, dynamic Taurus man. He is ready for his space and has begun a life of his own, but now I must go on without him. I have never hurt like this before in my life. To love some one so much and have to let them go so that they can experience their freedom after a difficult divorce is killer.
A Libra short termer

A little bit off topic but I'll tell it anyway.

As a taurus male that just went through a recent divorce I can offer the following.

Most of the relationships I was in ended because of the other person killing it. I made a committment to the relationship and it stayed until I was ready for it to end. Once I made the decision it was over - it was over. I won't go back even though a few have expressed interest in the past.

The one time I looked to end a relationship a few years ago (my recently deceased marriage which I'm still working through) was because of the initial spark I felt for a scorpio woman. I felt something and didn't know what it was. My wife and I seperated and I gently pursued this spark. After awhile I realized there was a strong connection between the scorpio and I but it wasn't what I was looking for. The scorpio and I are still very good friends and that spark comes back but its not 'magical' (for lck of a better word).

Don't help much and people are different but maybe it offers some insight.

Actually, it does help, and thank you for sharing your perspective on this matter. Every little bit helps! Good luck in the future to you Mr. Taurus...

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