Give me the Taurus truth, I promise I won't cry!! lol

My Taurus boyfriend is currently going through hard times. His son went back to his mom's (in another state) since the holidays are over and the next day his uncle passed away. This is hard for my boyfriend because of the affect his uncle's death is having on his dad. All of this happened last Saturday/Sunday. We've text here and there but mostly he has detached from me and I am not only heartbroken but if Im being honest Im offended as well. I don't know if its wrong for me to be offended but I am because I thought we were closer and that he viewed me as a safe place. I just want to be whatever he needs right now but as the days go by its getting harder to do that and to be patient because I can't help but to take offense.

My main question is: Is this normal for a Taurus male to detach during hard times or is it in fact a sign that we are NOT where I thought we were?

Please help! Thanks!!

It's wrong for you to be offended. Stop making it about you.

riiiiiiiiight, I agree^

Posted by Davida


My main question is: Is this normal for a Taurus male to detach during hard times or is it in fact a sign that we are NOT where I thought we were?

The answer: It's normal for a Taurus to detach during hard times.

I support others instead.

However, I ,myself, don't care to be pitied.

Nor do I care to ever show vulnerability or have mental break down in front of the people I love.

He's being there for his dad, more than likely, as the 'rock.'

While concealing his own mixed emotions about his son being away.

Being the strong support system while going through your own inner turmoil is never easy for a Bull.

We just make it look easy

Give him some time.

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by Davida


My main question is: Is this normal for a Taurus male to detach during hard times or is it in fact a sign that we are NOT where I thought we were?

The answer: It's normal for a Taurus to detach during hard times.

I support others instead.

However, I ,myself, don't care to be pitied.

Nor do I care to ever show vulnerability or have mental break down in front of the people I love.

He's being there for his dad, more than likely, as the 'rock.'

While concealing his own mixed emotions about his son being away.

Being the strong support system while going through your own inner turmoil is never easy for a Bull.

We just make it look easy

Give him some time.

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tb, i would recommend you read a bit of op's history with her partner. i imagine she could benefit greatly from your advice.