Help me to understand what this Taurus man wants!

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Scalebitch on Thursday, January 11, 2018 and has 11 replies.

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@Scalebitch
8 Years

Im libra.met this guy a month ago.He is here for vacation probably staying till next month n then he will go back to his country.

He asked for my phone number but took awhile till he finally texted.i almost forgot who he was!

He said he wanted to hang out together n get to know me.So we hang out n it was good time,he was such a sweet,polite,smart,nice,charming guy.

Since that day we text everyday n he wanted to meet up n hang out with me everyday!He also always wanted to come in everything i did! Its kinda weird for me bcz i nver met a guy who wants to spend times this much with me,but its also cute

At the 3rd/4th time we hang out together,we kissed.Since that night we always kissed n he held my hands also when we walked together but thats all,untill now we havent had sex yet

We getting closer n closer everyday n he started to touch me more i meant in nice way like putting his hand on my thigh,around my waist etc .i got the feeling that someday later we will end up have sex

But im afraid bcz he is leaving soon n we never know if we gonna meet each other again.

So we talked about it yesterday n discussed if we shud continue this or stop.bcz i told him it wud be so painfull on the last day he is here.

He said "lets dont worry about future,lets live the moments we have now n be happy"

I dont know what to do now?i can feel he likes me but he never say it but he shows me with actions but he will leave!

Is his behavior typical taurus?im trying to understand him!

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@Baddy4040
9 Years

Seems like he is just having fun while on vacation, Taurus men are logical they normally don’t move this fast unless there is something they want in his case it might just be sex.

If I were you I would tuck my feelings away and enjoy the friendship he’s leaving soon, I would not be stuck longing for someone that I’m not sure I’m going to see again.

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@jeane
11 Years5,000+ Posts

this taurus man wants to sleep with you.

it depends if you want to have sex with you knowing this could fizzle out as quickly as it began. if you are too scared to have sex given you might never see him again, don't sleep with him.

...cut to 2 weeks from now when op has slept with him...

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Scalebitch
Im libra.met this guy a month ago.He is here for vacation probably staying till next month n then he will go back to his country.

He asked for my phone number but took awhile till he finally texted.i almost forgot who he was!

He said he wanted to hang out together n get to know me.So we hang out n it was good time,he was such a sweet,polite,smart,nice,charming guy.

Since that day we text everyday n he wanted to meet up n hang out with me everyday!He also always wanted to come in everything i did! Its kinda weird for me bcz i nver met a guy who wants to spend times this much with me,but its also cute

At the 3rd/4th time we hang out together,we kissed.Since that night we always kissed n he held my hands also when we walked together but thats all,untill now we havent had sex yet

We getting closer n closer everyday n he started to touch me more i meant in nice way like putting his hand on my thigh,around my waist etc .i got the feeling that someday later we will end up have sex

But im afraid bcz he is leaving soon n we never know if we gonna meet each other again.

So we talked about it yesterday n discussed if we shud continue this or stop.bcz i told him it wud be so painfull on the last day he is here.

He said "lets dont worry about future,lets live the moments we have now n be happy"

I dont know what to do now?i can feel he likes me but he never say it but he shows me with actions but he will leave!

Is his behavior typical taurus?im trying to understand him!

Your vacation bae.

Have a good time and forget the future.

Live in the now

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@Scalebitch
8 Years

We been knowing each other n spending times almost everyday for 3 weeka now n getting closer n closer to each other.we started to act like couple,he kisses me alots in public n holds my hand when we are walking together.he touch me more n more i like touching my bumps n thighs n kiss my neck.

We never have sex!

But he told me that he wants to spend a night with me on tuesday somewhere n i got feeling that we will have sex bcz we will stay in a hotel.we never sleep together before,never have sleep over.

Im a bit anxious about it..honestly of course i want to have sex with him bcz i like him n he ia the only guy who i spend most times with at the moment.but im afraid of broken hearted n sad feeling if i have sex with him.im afraid the feeling will be deeper n i will feel sad bcz then he will leave anyways.

Im thinking to stop seeing him..but im afraid to hurt him or make him sad.

I think he knows that i start to be needy on him bcz he always wants to be there for mw n neet me EVERY SINGLE DAY and i cant say no to see him.he said something is missing if he doesnt see me one day which is ME.

I dont know what to do now.

He said yes just live the moment n be happy,but how can i be happy now if i know that i will be sad n broken hearted when he leaves later soon?

He never say about his feeling to me.what does he want from me..

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@Scalebitch
8 Years

If he wanta to bang me why dont he do it ? We been spending times together everyday for 3 weeks n we actually had chance when he came to my place once,but we didnt do anything except kissed n cuddle.he didnt even sleep over even actually he cud.

I mean if he wanted to he cud but why didnt he did?

Why he has to wait till 3 weeks if he just want sex from me?is he playing with me?

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@Scalebitch
8 Years

I know i shud stop seeing him bcz i know myself n i will be hurt later.but its hard to ignore him bcz he is the only one who is always there for me n we have so much fun together,we laugh alots n we think we look cute together.but when he knows that im worried about future he said he is sad also but he has to go back home

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@Scalebitch
8 Years

@ledgelord : alright... So i guess better i stop seeing him n just cut him off?

Im libra im so indecisive n hard to say no..in this case its hard for me to say no to not seeing him.

And also wondering about what he wud think when he realize that i ignore him.

I did once tho,i didnt answer his texts all day n he got so worried n asked me if all good n i was ok.

I hate this situation n i hate myself to let myself to be in this situation..

Help me

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@Scalebitch
8 Years

Alright yes i think i have to tell him that will never be sex between me n him..thats best way lets see how he will say about that