dayssunny
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Good Taurus Men: How to snag one and how did you?
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* They like to be financially secure before making future relationship plans and especially before committing to marriage.
* they take FOREVER (well it feels like forever to impatient folks like me) to commit. I noticed for every Taurus I know and others who tell their stories on the net, that they prefer to be your friend first and get to know you very well before they'll consider a relationship. They gotta trust you, and trust that you will be faithful, loyal, and genuinely interested in them before they will decide to commit. You gotta have integrity, strength, and morals because most of them do. They like to build relationships in stages and have a strong foundation, communication, honesty, trust, security and great sex before they get serious with someone.
*The men love a challenge!!! Don't be too available, easy in bed, or flirtatious with others. They are jealous, possessive, romantic and very sensitive (yet so strong that they will often hide that sensitivity). The men are very sexual/sensual just like Scorpios (drive-wise) but more sensual than sexual. They have VERY high sex drives so if you can keep up with that, GREAT. If you're trying to woo a Taurus guy as a boyfriend/husband, don't sleep with him--they will lose respect for you if they don't have to put forth much effort to get in your pants.
* They like to be financially secure before making future relationship plans and especially before committing to marriage.
* they take FOREVER (well it feels like forever to impatient folks like me) to commit. I noticed for every Taurus I know and others who tell their stories on the net, that they prefer to be your friend first and get to know you very well before they'll consider a relationship. They gotta trust you, and trust that you will be faithful, loyal, and genuinely interested in them before they will decide to commit. You gotta have integrity, strength, and morals because most of them do. They like to build relationships in stages and have a strong foundation, communication, honesty, trust, security and great sex before they get serious with someone.
*The men love a challenge!!! Don't be too available, easy in bed, or flirtatious with others. They are jealous, possessive, romantic and very sensitive (yet so strong that they will often hide that sensitivity). The men are very sexual/sensual just like Scorpios (drive-wise) but more sensual than sexual. They have VERY high sex drives so if you can keep up with that, GREAT. If you're trying to woo a Taurus guy as a boyfriend/husband, don't sleep with him--they will lose respect for you if they don't have to put forth much effort to get in your pants.
*They will try to see how far they can get sexually, but its best not to be their "friend with benefits" *IF* your goal is to be their girlfriend or wife. They must realize that the woman they are with doesn't give it up easily, otherwise that would fuel their insecurity and further delay their desire to commit to you. In a relationship, sexual compatibility is just as important as a secure foundation.
* They are persistent, sometimes shy, but if they really really want you, they will let you know. If you ask where you stand with them, they will tell you and not leave you guessing unless they are confused in how they feel for you, unsure of what they want with you, or afraid to hurt you (eventually they will kindly reject you, if not interested). They seem kinda shy sometimes and can be so passive that you just wanna light some fire under their a $ $ so sometimes they may need some clear obvious signs that you're interested. The men seem oblivious to most signs of interest, especially if you are just friends, so if you're ready to take it to the next level and you're patient with their slow decision-making then go for it--but don't pursue too much, too often, be SUBTLE yet direct enough to give them signs of your interest. Its best when they chase you because they like to feel like their partner is valuable and something they invested in. They won't easily throw away something or someone they invested lots of time chasing, built a foundation with, or someone who catches their heart. Never play games with them, it won't be forgiven. They usually don't play games, unless they are the immature, unevolved type or have a lot of natal chart afflictions.
** If you are also practical, humble and have good common sense, that's a bonus. Otherwise, they might get frustrated with you. They like their partners to be on the same level as them, both mentally and emotionally.
If their Venus is in Gemini and unafflicted- this doesn't mean they will be unfaithful. I know my friend is very faithful and resists temptations all the time. If they are the faithful type, this placement will show up in how they communicate. They will love to talk about relationships, ask you about your feelings and have lots of relationship talks. Or this placement will show up as variety in their friends, activities and social life. They definitely would want someone to be not just their partner but their best friend and twin (or someone that balances out their negative traits and possess th
* They are persistent, sometimes shy, but if they really really want you, they will let you know. If you ask where you stand with them, they will tell you and not leave you guessing unless they are confused in how they feel for you, unsure of what they want with you, or afraid to hurt you (eventually they will kindly reject you, if not interested). They seem kinda shy sometimes and can be so passive that you just wanna light some fire under their a $ $ so sometimes they may need some clear obvious signs that you're interested. The men seem oblivious to most signs of interest, especially if you are just friends, so if you're ready to take it to the next level and you're patient with their slow decision-making then go for it--but don't pursue too much, too often, be SUBTLE yet direct enough to give them signs of your interest. Its best when they chase you because they like to feel like their partner is valuable and something they invested in. They won't easily throw away something or someone they invested lots of time chasing, built a foundation with, or someone who catches their heart. Never play games with them, it won't be forgiven. They usually don't play games, unless they are the immature, unevolved type or have a lot of natal chart afflictions.
** If you are also practical, humble and have good common sense, that's a bonus. Otherwise, they might get frustrated with you. They like their partners to be on the same level as them, both mentally and emotionally.
If their Venus is in Gemini and unafflicted- this doesn't mean they will be unfaithful. I know my friend is very faithful and resists temptations all the time. If they are the faithful type, this placement will show up in how they communicate. They will love to talk about relationships, ask you about your feelings and have lots of relationship talks. Or this placement will show up as variety in their friends, activities and social life. They definitely would want someone to be not just their partner but their best friend and twin (or someone that balances out their negative traits and possess th
*They may forgive but they don't forget. They will drudge up old hurts and remind you of how you hurt them.
* They are like Libras because they love beauty and femininity (its a Venus thing). If he's popular with the ladies (they usually are and tend to have lots of females chasing them) you are prettier, smarter, and sexier than the competition, you will get noticed by a Taurus!
* Stubborn - as a positive, this means they are good at sticking to their convictions. They take a long time to make up their mind, don't like to be rushed, and once they make up their mind, that's it.. Don't even bother trying to change their mind unless you have lots of tangible evidence to sway them and loads of patience. I think that's the reason why they take a long time to make up their mind, because once a decision is made, they won't want to change it. Change is hard for many Taurus's. Remember, security is super important to them.
* They have an explosive temper but it usually doesn't come out easily. They have to be at their breaking point to get to that level of anger. Its not pretty..I usually stay away when they get mad and I don't make them mad so its never an issue for me. If they don't like you, they won't associate with you. If you wrong them, you will be ignored and given the ICE cold shoulder.
* They are private people. They don't like others to be nosey with their private life. If they don't want to tell you something, they'll tell you that you're being nosey or they'll lie or withhold some truths to protect their privacy.
* They are like Libras because they love beauty and femininity (its a Venus thing). If he's popular with the ladies (they usually are and tend to have lots of females chasing them) you are prettier, smarter, and sexier than the competition, you will get noticed by a Taurus!
* Stubborn - as a positive, this means they are good at sticking to their convictions. They take a long time to make up their mind, don't like to be rushed, and once they make up their mind, that's it.. Don't even bother trying to change their mind unless you have lots of tangible evidence to sway them and loads of patience. I think that's the reason why they take a long time to make up their mind, because once a decision is made, they won't want to change it. Change is hard for many Taurus's. Remember, security is super important to them.
* They have an explosive temper but it usually doesn't come out easily. They have to be at their breaking point to get to that level of anger. Its not pretty..I usually stay away when they get mad and I don't make them mad so its never an issue for me. If they don't like you, they won't associate with you. If you wrong them, you will be ignored and given the ICE cold shoulder.
* They are private people. They don't like others to be nosey with their private life. If they don't want to tell you something, they'll tell you that you're being nosey or they'll lie or withhold some truths to protect their privacy.
They will play a lot of games if they aren't mature and that maturity doesn't depend on their age. That's another thread topic. Lol
Hmmm.... Damn...!
So did we get it almost right? Add on please so we can stop trying to figure you out. Lol
LOL If he does that..well. I rather think they like the mystery, keeps you dangling on that hook you see.
haha yes, I am learning slowly about your brethren! Taking years, in fact. I told a joke yesterday. They say Bulls are patient. I think it's bulls (males) that teaches us patience. *runs out screaming in a straight jacket*
LOL !! I'll go get the nursey outfit and the basket weaving supplies. Padded room to your right.
Yes, mind made up, done deal. He saw a good woman, all it took. 🙂
Posted by dayssunny
So did we get it almost right? Add on please so we can stop trying to figure you out. Lol
Pretty damn good bull's eye... (hehe)
there was just one thing, But I think it might just be me and still apply to the bull masses.. So I'll leave it just the way you've got it..
Nice job!!
How about how to get one to get off your back.
One year later and he's still obsessed.
ugh, STUBBORN.
One year later and he's still obsessed.
ugh, STUBBORN.
Taurguy
Nope, I've decided it doesn't work this way. You don't snag Taurus, they snag you. But they don't mind letting you think it was your idea. lol
I'm with one now. This is what i did:
I said "No" to a FWB deal, said "No" to sex until it was coming with exclusivity and a relationship with it.
I didn't push, i didn't ask for anything more when he said he wasn't interested in being a relationship. I didn't disappear - but I didn't make a huge effort to contact him either.
i stuck to my usual routine, i still did my own thing and made it plain that's what i'd do.
When he stood me up for an evening plan with no word, i left it a week, emailed him, said i was curious about where he disappeared to - and added that I didn't tolerate such rudeness, thanked him for his previous company and wished him well in the future. THAT was huge with him because i wasn't nasty in any way, i took the gracious route, despite being quite pissed off.
Now we're together - after he asked for a relationship. t's exclusive, it has a future plan, it has love, laughter and lots of support.
I don't nag him - i ask him to explain why he does the things he does, and I listen.
I work on him feeling safe and secure.
I don't withhold affection or sex as a bargaining tool for any argument or issue.
I stand up for myself, which he loves.
i have made a huge effort with his children and made it clear I see my role in their lives as being of utmost importance.
We argue, sure. We also sort it out and move on from it.
All up - be kind, be warm-hearted, be supportive, be affectionate and listen to him.
NEVER make him feel unsafe by flirting (as this is incredibly immature anyway) and NEVER allow him to piss on your boundaries.
My Taurus man likes that i am strong-willed - because he also knows there is a HEAP of love, kindness, support and generosity to my nature and that me saying no to something doesn't mean i don't love him, respect him or care about what he needs. it simply means he knows that i will say no to unhappy or unhealthy things, which in turn maintains a balanced relationship. he does the same with me.
Use respect to snag a Taurus - respect for him and, more importantly, for yourself.
I said "No" to a FWB deal, said "No" to sex until it was coming with exclusivity and a relationship with it.
I didn't push, i didn't ask for anything more when he said he wasn't interested in being a relationship. I didn't disappear - but I didn't make a huge effort to contact him either.
i stuck to my usual routine, i still did my own thing and made it plain that's what i'd do.
When he stood me up for an evening plan with no word, i left it a week, emailed him, said i was curious about where he disappeared to - and added that I didn't tolerate such rudeness, thanked him for his previous company and wished him well in the future. THAT was huge with him because i wasn't nasty in any way, i took the gracious route, despite being quite pissed off.
Now we're together - after he asked for a relationship. t's exclusive, it has a future plan, it has love, laughter and lots of support.
I don't nag him - i ask him to explain why he does the things he does, and I listen.
I work on him feeling safe and secure.
I don't withhold affection or sex as a bargaining tool for any argument or issue.
I stand up for myself, which he loves.
i have made a huge effort with his children and made it clear I see my role in their lives as being of utmost importance.
We argue, sure. We also sort it out and move on from it.
All up - be kind, be warm-hearted, be supportive, be affectionate and listen to him.
NEVER make him feel unsafe by flirting (as this is incredibly immature anyway) and NEVER allow him to piss on your boundaries.
My Taurus man likes that i am strong-willed - because he also knows there is a HEAP of love, kindness, support and generosity to my nature and that me saying no to something doesn't mean i don't love him, respect him or care about what he needs. it simply means he knows that i will say no to unhappy or unhealthy things, which in turn maintains a balanced relationship. he does the same with me.
Use respect to snag a Taurus - respect for him and, more importantly, for yourself.
NZ Aqua that sounds exactly right, I agree with everything you've said. I think if you let them run over you, you are setting yourself up for failure. I just asked someone do they like girly girls because I am really asserting myself now and he seems to respect me a lot more. And it's contrary to what a person told me that I needed to be more quiet and more feminine. I told that person I will not change myself to keep a man. He is starting to do shit that is getting on my nerves and I think he has done it because he thought that he could
Posted by TaurGuyPosted by dayssunny
So did we get it almost right? Add on please so we can stop trying to figure you out. Lol
Pretty damn good bull's eye... (hehe)
there was just one thing, But I think it might just be me and still apply to the bull masses.. So I'll leave it just the way you've got it..
Nice job!!click to expand
Why thank you! Coming from you then we may have a formula. Will periodically post questions and hope that you donate your good word so that I wont lose my mind.
Posted by venusianbull
LOL !! I'll go get the nursey outfit and the basket weaving supplies. Padded room to your right.
Haha! I may be checking myself in Lol!
Posted by acattychattyscorpio
How about how to get one to get off your back.
One year later and he's still obsessed.
ugh, STUBBORN.
You need to be in here telling some of these girls what you are doing Lol They do get fixated on you if they want you
Posted by dayssunnyPosted by acattychattyscorpio
How about how to get one to get off your back.
One year later and he's still obsessed.
ugh, STUBBORN.
You need to be in here telling some of these girls what you are doing Lol They do get fixated on you if they want youclick to expand
I talked to him on a deep level about serious stuff a lot and I gave him physical and emotional affection all the time... when I liked him. But I'm Scorpio sun Cancer moon and he's Taurus sun Cancer moon so the harmony wasn't difficult.
Posted by Skykomish
Taurguy I have missed you! *tackle*
Damn... there goes the platter of champagne glass's I was bringing everyone... lol
Posted by dayssunnyPosted by TaurGuyPosted by dayssunny
So did we get it almost right? Add on please so we can stop trying to figure you out. Lol
Pretty damn good bull's eye... (hehe)
there was just one thing, But I think it might just be me and still apply to the bull masses.. So I'll leave it just the way you've got it..
Nice job!!
Why thank you! Coming from you then we may have a formula. Will periodically post questions and hope that you donate your good word so that I wont lose my mind.click to expand
haha no worries.. I'll be here for ya if you need...
Champagne? You better have brought strawberries too.
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Here are some that I found that I was sending my cousin
Be Honest. Taurus are usually blunt, direct and need security. This security usually comes from trust, if you are honest with them, they will eventually trust you.
* Show you have ambitions, goals, and that you understand their workaholic tendencies.
* Don't nag them, don't tell them what to do.
*They have a tendency to disappear for long periods when things are rough in their lives. They get wrapped up and forget to reach out to others. Its frustrating when you're trying to help them because they are so strong and independent that they rather take care of things on their own.