How do you know when a taurus is done?

With all of this talk about the slow to grow Taurus and how dificult they can be to read, Im woendering how us girls and guys are supose to know you just arent feeling us anymore! lol When you call but less often, are you really just buisy or making a break for it? Do you stop taking calls? still see the person? or do you quit cold turkey?

Tell me: what are the signs you lost/ are loosing your bull for good? And when you ARE loosing interest what brings you back?

All of what Aphrodite Bull said. Some of us may be more or less materialistic, but we ALWAYS want to know we can take care of ourselves! Like AB said, of all the signs in th zodiac, Taurus males and females are very similar; moreso probably than any other signs, from my experience.

Wow! you totally hooked me up with some serious insight! I appreciate the time you took to respond🙂 I very much care for my Taurus guy...But Im so worried about getting hurt Im keeping up walls of my own. When he tries to break through I block him sometimes as a reflex...I was wondering if this had an impact on his sudden distance. I want to warm him up again if my inconsistancy has pushed him away...It is deffinatly genuine though. If anything I like him more than he knows...can you guys be "re heated?" Ans If so is it through backing off or being persued?

Ugg! GREAT! lol Like I said Its becouse Im scared Of not knowing what going on in his head! lol Not knowing drives me crazy...so I felt unsafe and pulled ot a bit....Any chance I can repare this or should I just cut my losses? Im not sure If I should keep call/txting him like I always do, or leave him alone?

Hmm, hard to say. You never really described what happened to make him start acting differently towards you.

Depending on what happened he might not be answering calls/texts because he's upset if not actually busy. If that's the case, you should give him a little time but do try to contact him still cause then it'll show that you do value whatever you have between the two of you and he might come around.

Even if he's busy, there's always time to talk on the phone for a little bit if you don't have the time to meet up in person.

Has he made any effort to contact you at all?

As far as myself, if I'm not interested I wouldn't bother to maintain contact at all and I'd be very brief with communicating and giving like one-word or short responses and not bother to keep a conversation on the phone or in person going at all.

Well...Thats the thing, I dont think I did anything wrong in particular...Im just concerned that I came across a little too harsh and he may have taken it badly. I know he has alot more on him plate now than when we started out, and when I txt him he usually replies or calls me, when I call he awnsers and always seems happy to talk to me but he hasent really initiated contact in the last little while, Isint making plans...but when I spoke to him last and asked him when we were gonna get together (havent seen him in almost 2 weeks now) he said we would do somthing this week. "hes said things like my "fire cracker attitude" scares him sometimes but its good or that It makes him laugh...Im just wondering if he changed his mind and is pulling back cuz I scared him off, or if Im just being paranoid becouse our routine has changed. Im just not bothing him about it becouse when we talk he tells me all hes been up too. like hes explaining his absance OR making excuses and im just not getting the point lol. Its amazing how liking someone can make you insecure! lol

lol Im telling you aphro! Your probably right, and the sooner I accept that the better off Ill be, Plus I can be a little more confident in not jumping on things that in the end are totally insignificant! Im not a yell, scream, un consolable im more just sentitive and tell you exactly what I think of what you did or said in an abrupt (sometimes dry humourish) kinda way... we both have have diffrent mother tounges and we do alot of txting wich dosent help. sometimes he takes my color comentairy too seriously. Hense the " you scare the crap out of me but your funny" or "its good"...I alway try to clarify though or appologize If I did actually get upset at him for something...but he usually just smiles teases and calls me a crazy trouble maker and tells me not to worry about it.

Im the kind of person who will call at the same time everyday no matter how buisy I get. I always make time just to say hi...I assumed everyone else is like that too! lol I messaged him yesterday during the day, got a 2 word reply, then messaged him back and still havent heard from him. So I fb him and I guess well see what happens! I always respond to people im interestred in so I find it hard to wrap my head around. BUT IM WORKING ON IT!

Posted by fish-scorp-libra
Im just concerned that I came across a little too harsh and he may have taken it badly.

Yea, that can be kinda bad if you're critical of him but it's not a dealbreaker so don't worry too much about that but you should try to reign it in if you can. I suppose now and then isn't too bad, kinda keeps him on his toes.

when I txt him he usually replies or calls me, when I call he awnsers and always seems happy to talk to me but he hasent really initiated contact in the last little while, Isint making plans... he said we would do somthing this week.

There you go then, he usually gets back to you and will call if you text him instead of just texting back which is a good sign. He probably doesn't wanna come across too strongly or feel like he's smothering you and giving you some space. That's how I am, I was always answering calls or returning them and being there for the last girl when she needed me. She actually had to make the majority of the suggestions for getting together and what to do. I'm sure it annoyed her though that I was so passive haha.

"hes said things like my "fire cracker attitude" scares him sometimes but its good or that It makes him laugh...

That's another plus too. I tend to be a work-a-holic, take myself too seriously most of the time, and conservative in social situations so it's nice to be with someone who's more lively and outgoing. Sort of the opposites attract or completing one another sorta thing; as long as you two aren't TOO different from one another as far as values and things like that.

Im just wondering if he changed his mind and is pulling back cuz I scared him off, or if Im just being paranoid becouse our routine has changed.

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You're probably just being paranoid. 😛 Supposedly Taurus like to take things slowly and are in it for the long run (I know that's how I am), so he's likely taking his time because he's in no rush and is taking care of things that relate to his financial stability and security. Just find things to do to keep yourself busy and your thoughts from running wild and wait it out. Of course there's always the chance of him ducking out on you too but what can you do besides wait and see if it works out instead of walking away and wondering.

I Love how you broke that down for me Taurus83!!! Its rare to get a guys point of view around here so thank you!

I guess Im just wondering if I waited too long to rane it in! but then again last time we actually spoke everything was great!

Its funny too becouse now that he has less time on his hands I have all the time in the world on mine!Im sure this dosent help (;S)

Your right about him ducking out on me too...If he is...I guess I can't really stop him!

By the way... Do things stay this way? Or is it just as he warms up to you?

Ive not seen mine for 4 months now was fine bfore xmas said hed b in touch in new yr so i msg him 2 wks into jan n he said leave me alone il let u know when i can c u then i asked him if he was ok n if he still wanted to c me as hed made us exclusive 2 months bfore n he didnt reply hes a chef so busy job but hes hardly on whatsapp either which is also odd hes not blocked me but im wonderin now if il c him again its a yr nxt month since we met we wasnt in a relationship as it was to soon but as i say hed made us exclusive please help i love him so much

Posted by Tauruslover18

Ive not seen mine for 4 months now was fine bfore xmas said hed b in touch in new yr so i msg him 2 wks into jan n he said leave me alone il let u know when i can c u then i asked him if he was ok n if he still wanted to c me as hed made us exclusive 2 months bfore n he didnt reply hes a chef so busy job but hes hardly on whatsapp either which is also odd hes not blocked me but im wonderin now if il c him again its a yr nxt month since we met we wasnt in a relationship as it was to soon but as i say hed made us exclusive please help i love him so much

He made you exclusive but isn't a thing like a boyfriend. Quit treating him like a boyfriend. Don't sit around waiting on him. Down grade his ass and date others. Obviously that's what he's doing. Get some self-respect, leave him alone and disengage with him. Date someone local.

Honestly sometimes I distance myself if I'm hurt or dealing with something, and it can be nothing to do with the person usually. If I'm over it/over someone, I'm simply cold, very brief, like I dont care basically. I will not remember things you say or act like I dont, thats a big one for me cause I remember everything my s/o or interests say or do lol. If I start talking about me without a we in future plans, another sign.

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Posted by Taurus83

Hmm, hard to say. You never really described what happened to make him start acting differently towards you.



Depending on what happened he might not be answering calls/texts because he's upset if not actually busy. If that's the case, you should give him a little time but do try to contact him still cause then it'll show that you do value whatever you have between the two of you and he might come around.



Even if he's busy, there's always time to talk on the phone for a little bit if you don't have the time to meet up in person.



Has he made any effort to contact you at all?



As far as myself, if I'm not interested I wouldn't bother to maintain contact at all and I'd be very brief with communicating and giving like one-word or short responses and not bother to keep a conversation on the phone or in person going at all.

Neither would I. It's a Taurean trait. We go silent.