How mu ch longer?

How long do you give tauraus space before moving on? He has spoken to me since Saturday. Ive reached out to him twice since then.

Give it a week. You've already reached out twice. If he doesn't respond, just move on.

Harsh but to the point.

Excuse me RedOctober2003!

Dont be a punk to me. I can make as many threads as I want! Im not desperate just heartbroken. Youve obviously have never been in love or hurt. I did nothing to push him away. This is all a medical issue that has come between us. Im trying my best and if that means I have to vent on this thing then to him I will! I am not use to him being gone out of my life. A hobby? Sweetie my life is full of hobbies, i paint, write, sculpt, dance and I have a son.. but its all things me and him did together so its hard. If you have nothing nice to say to me please back off. Besides what other hobbies do you have other then criticizing me and my threads huh?

It is going to take how long it is supposed to take. I am going though it with my libra ex bf of 4 days as well and I stopped looking into astrology too much. Yes, a person can be understood through his birth signs but it's not all. A human being is much more complex than that. You have other factors and traits that makes him or her who she or he is.

As of now, I'd say you engaged in a contact twice and he did not respond so stop. Delete him from snap and Facebook, whatsapp.. If he is out of sight, he won't be out of mind but it'll be harder for you to reach out to him. He might wonder why you stopped calling or texting and he'll be intrigued. In the meantime, while you are waiting for him to come back, work on yourself. I feel like you got lost into him and you forgot that you are an individual with a life on your own. Reclaim your life back, lose some weight, change your hair style , go out & have fun, focus on a purpose!

If he comes back, he comes back, otherwise, you will be prepared for the next one to come along . Don't pursue him. Let him know you are okay with it but you wish he can change his mind. But you are deserving of love as well...

Hope it works

I dont mean to come off as desperate I was put on this wrong medication that made me psycho. These last few months have been hard for the us both. I contacted him about court on sunday no answer then about our bird yesterday no answer. Im not trying to talk to him about us. But yes I am scared that he will just dissappear. I do see how i did come off as dependent while on the meds. Im generally very independent. Im afraid that who i was on tge pills scared him away and he has forgotten my true identity. So after a week Im suppose to just give up and move on and not fight for our love?

Thank you..

Posted by aqualove2011
Excuse me RedOctober2003!

Dont be a punk to me. I can make as many threads as I want! Im not desperate just heartbroken. Youve obviously have never been in love or hurt. I did nothing to push him away. This is all a medical issue that has come between us. Im trying my best and if that means I have to vent on this thing then to him I will! I am not use to him being gone out of my life. A hobby? Sweetie my life is full of hobbies, i paint, write, sculpt, dance and I have a son.. but its all things me and him did together so its hard. If you have nothing nice to say to me please back off. Besides what other hobbies do you have other then criticizing me and my threads huh?

Can you shed some light on the medical issue coming between you two? Or is that too private?

Nobody is asking you to give up on your love with him. People are ADVISING you to better yourself so that you can be a better partner. I feel like you are making him the center of your life when you should be the center of your life. If you have nothing going on and he is your life, then he is going to be afraid, he is going to think you are loca! It's not a Taurus thing, I guess it's a man thing! Let him cool off for 30 days and then see if he comes back. Afterwards let him cool of for another few days and contact him.

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Posted by aqualove2011
Excuse me RedOctober2003!

Dont be a punk to me. I can make as many threads as I want! Im not desperate just heartbroken. Youve obviously have never been in love or hurt. I did nothing to push him away. This is all a medical issue that has come between us. Im trying my best and if that means I have to vent on this thing then to him I will! I am not use to him being gone out of my life. A hobby? Sweetie my life is full of hobbies, i paint, write, sculpt, dance and I have a son.. but its all things me and him did together so its hard. If you have nothing nice to say to me please back off. Besides what other hobbies do you have other then criticizing me and my threads huh?

Can you shed some light on the medical issue coming between you two? Or is that too private?

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I have been dealing with postpartum depression since late March as well as the lost of my daughter. They say its like controling a mean monster within in. I punched a mirror when the feeling was overwhelming. I had to get several stitches. I was put on narcos and slept for 3days. I woke up realized my rent was 3days late when i went to turn it in i guess i freaked out screaming at the poor land lady when my boyfriend tried to pull me away i became aggressive and hit him. I dont remember this at all i blacked out i also tried to overdose. My body has adverese responses to narcos. So I was put on an anti deppressiant to help me cope with my postpartum depression and grieving. We were feeling hopeful that this will help but it didnt it made me worse, angry and violent and unfortunately it was all directed at myself and my boyfriend in such a sad way. Im a sweet and gentle person, hippie love if you will. Turns out my body has an opposite effect to anti depresdiants.

I am exhausted and I know he is too. I mean dealing with this instability sice late march 😢 I am now on a mood satbilizer and it is working without any crazy side effects. A week ago my boyfriend was telling me he would like for us to do couple counceling and get things back on track. Hes really wants us to work. Then last Saturday he was full of idks and i need space but hes still loyal to me. I told him I understand its been a rough 4months and to take as long as he needed. I believe hes confused and exhausted. But we have talked everyday for 8 months consistently. Hes my lover and bestfriend. I didn't realize that he was going to be completely silent towards me. It breaks my heart that he suffered through this me.

If you love him, let him go.

Posted by Redoctober2000
OP, as I previously said, you need to concentrate on getting you 100% better. He is not your crutch! No one in the world regardless of sympathising with your ailments, would what to put up with the amount of stress that will be brought into a relationship with you.

You need to get back your normality then pursue a relationship. Until that time, the Taurus will stay away...

Do what you need to do whether it be changing your medication ; therapy whatever. Concentrate on you.

It's not fair on the Taurus for him to have to deal with your abuse....

I get your point. It wasnt purposeful abuse towards him to hold me accountable of my actions while i wasnt put on those wrong meds. would be like holding someone who was on acid acountable for seeing purple dragons.. Btw i was answering soneone elses question.

he was with you during your rough times...but now he is confused about something...give him some time...till then do whatever keeps you happy,try not to think about him,work on yourself

He will come back on his own,putting too much of effort into him wont really help...