@Klhxo
10 Years
Boyfriends Taurus ex gf stalking me
Understanding Taurus Exes and Stalking Behaviors
Stalking by a Taurus ex can stem from possessiveness or unresolved feelings. Taurus individuals value stability and can become persistent if they feel betrayed or abandoned. The Libra moon may influence her social behavior and desire for harmony or control. Recognizing these traits can help you address the situation and protect your boundaries effectively.
She is also trying to get with him and break us two up which is really putting a strain on our relationship, she's gone next level crazy to the point where she is spreading rumours that me and him aren't together and that I'm his crazy ex who stalks her lol which anyone with a sense would know that's bull as we live together and have two children!
Posted by AriesLady8
This sounds weird. You've been together for 5 years and have 2 kids but she's still concerned about him and you're engaged to be married? Any sane person would have been let go and moved on. Taurses do hold on emotionally until they usually find another love. Are you giving is the whole story?
She IS weird and a psycho hose bleed (Quote from Wayne's World). She should get a restraining order. BTW, postee mentioned she has been w/her dude for five years and just realized ex psycho hose bleed has been stalking her. Yeah, postee has a life, but psycho hose bleed doesn't. I think her fiancée should be the one to talk to psycho hose bleed; if that doesn't help, get a restraining order, or threaten psycho hose bleed to "back off!" or you will file a restraining order. BTW, what's the harm in her knowing what's going on in your life? She's not in your bedroom is she? No, she isn't. If you're a strong woman, I would ignore her and her third party friends who "spy" on you. Psycho hose bleed is all BARK and no BITE; as she sends her trolls to do her spying for her. Your choice in whatever you choose to do as you asked for advice.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by Arielle83
You befriended her friebds?Mmmmmmkayyyy
You can't read or?
I said she made her friends befriend me.
Mmmmkay?
Posted by AriesLady8
This sounds weird. You've been together for 5 years and have 2 kids but she's still concerned about him and you're engaged to be married? Any sane person would have been let go and moved on. Taurses do hold on emotionally until they usually find another love. Are you giving is the whole story?
Well that's what I know, maybe the full story is pending?
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
OK I missed that second part. Your situation sounds fishy to me.How could this stalker of yours have the power to spread these types of rumors about you if your man was openly claiming you? Like someone else said, why is she still in the picture after five years?
It sounds like one of you was, or still is, the side chick and your man is possibly playing you both for a fool. Something doesn't smell right about what you're telling us.
Could be true. Maybe I'm a side chick and I didn't even know this whole time
Posted by AriesLady8
This sounds weird. You've been together for 5 years and have 2 kids but she's still concerned about him and you're engaged to be married? Any sane person would have been let go and moved on. Taurses do hold on emotionally until they usually find another love. Are you giving is the whole story?She IS weird and a psycho hose bleed (Quote from Wayne's World). She should get a restraining order. BTW, postee mentioned she has been w/her dude for five years and just realized ex psycho hose bleed has been stalking her. Yeah, postee has a life, but psycho hose bleed doesn't. I think her fiancée should be the one to talk to psycho hose bleed; if that doesn't help, get a restraining order, or threaten psycho hose bleed to "back off!" or you will file a restraining order. BTW, what's the harm in her knowing what's going on in your life? She's not in your bedroom is she? No, she isn't. If you're a strong woman, I would ignore her and her third party friends who "spy" on you. Psycho hose bleed is all BARK and no BITE; as she sends her trolls to do her spying for her. Your choice in whatever you choose to do as you asked for advice.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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Thanks! She rang my friend up telling her that she's been watching her Instagram page , so yes I think a restraining order is definitely in the works
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
OK I missed that second part. Your situation sounds fishy to me.How could this stalker of yours have the power to spread these types of rumors about you if your man was openly claiming you? Like someone else said, why is she still in the picture after five years?
It sounds like one of you was, or still is, the side chick and your man is possibly playing you both for a fool. Something doesn't smell right about what you're telling us.
Could be true. Maybe I'm a side chick and I didn't even know this whole time
That's odd BIG TIME. I would never stalk an ex of five years gf!!! Lol lol l wouldn't do that!!!
What is your sun sign and your partner's sun sign?
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I'm a Pisces and he's a Taurus
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
OK I missed that second part. Your situation sounds fishy to me.How could this stalker of yours have the power to spread these types of rumors about you if your man was openly claiming you? Like someone else said, why is she still in the picture after five years?
It sounds like one of you was, or still is, the side chick and your man is possibly playing you both for a fool. Something doesn't smell right about what you're telling us.
Could be true. Maybe I'm a side chick and I didn't even know this whole time
I would hope you would know after 5 years.. :/
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Lol. She said one of you is or was the side chick so basically insinuating that I might be one
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
OK I missed that second part. Your situation sounds fishy to me.How could this stalker of yours have the power to spread these types of rumors about you if your man was openly claiming you? Like someone else said, why is she still in the picture after five years?
It sounds like one of you was, or still is, the side chick and your man is possibly playing you both for a fool. Something doesn't smell right about what you're telling us.
Could be true. Maybe I'm a side chick and I didn't even know this whole time
I would hope you would know after 5 years.. :/
Lol. She said one of you is or was the side chick so basically insinuating that I might be one
Yeah, that's what she was getting at. I would just hope that after 5 years you wouldn't have to question it as you did. I'd think you'd know 😢
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Lol no I just was going along with her sarcasm, of course I know I'm not a side chick I think having two kids and getting married soon speaks for itself. But maybe there's more to the story, which I know I won't get out of him if there was so that's why I came on here.. Hmmm
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
OK I missed that second part. Your situation sounds fishy to me.How could this stalker of yours have the power to spread these types of rumors about you if your man was openly claiming you? Like someone else said, why is she still in the picture after five years?
It sounds like one of you was, or still is, the side chick and your man is possibly playing you both for a fool. Something doesn't smell right about what you're telling us.
Could be true. Maybe I'm a side chick and I didn't even know this whole time
That's odd BIG TIME. I would never stalk an ex of five years gf!!! Lol lol l wouldn't do that!!!
What is your sun sign and your partner's sun sign?
I'm a Pisces and he's a Taurus
BINGO! I'm just going to say this... You should get to the bottom of this if you plan on marrying him. I could be wrong but I don't feel like you have the full story. Pisces are known for being naive. And Taurus men are known for playing on a Pisces woman naivety.
Yes! I feel Pisces female and Taurus male are NOT a good pairing as it seems the Taurus male has a propensity to be sneaky Bastards who seem to "hide" behind "feminine" qualities ie too delicate to chase a female ; very sensitive etc and they seem to play up on this a lot with the water sign other than scorp (of course)...
These men need a woman who will give them a pair of size sevens right up their cracks!!!!
Find out the score OP as it could be that your Taurus has been playing you!!!
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I'm not usually naive I have a Scorpio moon and I feel like I relate more to being a Scorpio than a Pisces. But maybe I have been naive because I haven't felt there was anything wrong until after posting this
Posted by AriesLady8
This sounds weird. You've been together for 5 years and have 2 kids but she's still concerned about him and you're engaged to be married? Any sane person would have been let go and moved on. Taurses do hold on emotionally until they usually find another love. Are you giving is the whole story?She IS weird and a psycho hose bleed (Quote from Wayne's World). She should get a restraining order. BTW, postee mentioned she has been w/her dude for five years and just realized ex psycho hose bleed has been stalking her. Yeah, postee has a life, but psycho hose bleed doesn't. I think her fiancée should be the one to talk to psycho hose bleed; if that doesn't help, get a restraining order, or threaten psycho hose bleed to "back off!" or you will file a restraining order. BTW, what's the harm in her knowing what's going on in your life? She's not in your bedroom is she? No, she isn't. If you're a strong woman, I would ignore her and her third party friends who "spy" on you. Psycho hose bleed is all BARK and no BITE; as she sends her trolls to do her spying for her. Your choice in whatever you choose to do as you asked for advice.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Thanks! She rang my friend up telling her that she's been watching her Instagram page , so yes I think a restraining order is definitely in the works
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Please don't waste police resources by filing a restraining order because she's looking at your public social media accounts. That is not stalking.
Posted by Arielle83
You befriended her friebds?Mmmmmmkayyyy
You can't read or?
I said she made her friends befriend me.
Mmmmkay?
Oh I can read. You just don't understand the concept of the word "befriend".
If they "befriended" you, you are a part of the equation.
You gave them the attention. Or are you painting this picture like you're a victim if circumstance?
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Listen lady, I don't know why you're having a bad day or life but don't come on here with your attitude because it wasn't my fault. You either answer the question or ignore it, I don't know what made you so angry at my post that you felt like I am playing a victim? How do you know me to know I am playing a victim? I could be going through depression and be having a mental break down from a trauma that's happened completely nothing to do with this post and you want to tell me I'm playing a victim. Go away and stop using the Internet to troll speak to people the way you would speak to them if it wasn't a forum. Silly woman
And how can I be apart of the equation if this girl who befriended me I didn't know was her friend until after everything came out in the open? Run away now
Just sitting here typing on your keyboard looking for arguments lol
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
OK I missed that second part. Your situation sounds fishy to me.How could this stalker of yours have the power to spread these types of rumors about you if your man was openly claiming you? Like someone else said, why is she still in the picture after five years?
It sounds like one of you was, or still is, the side chick and your man is possibly playing you both for a fool. Something doesn't smell right about what you're telling us.
Could be true. Maybe I'm a side chick and I didn't even know this whole time
That's odd BIG TIME. I would never stalk an ex of five years gf!!! Lol lol l wouldn't do that!!!
What is your sun sign and your partner's sun sign?
I'm a Pisces and he's a Taurus
BINGO! I'm just going to say this... You should get to the bottom of this if you plan on marrying him. I could be wrong but I don't feel like you have the full story. Pisces are known for being naive. And Taurus men are known for playing on a Pisces woman naivety.
Yes! I feel Pisces female and Taurus male are NOT a good pairing as it seems the Taurus male has a propensity to be sneaky Bastards who seem to "hide" behind "feminine" qualities ie too delicate to chase a female ; very sensitive etc and they seem to play up on this a lot with the water sign other than scorp (of course)...
These men need a woman who will give them a pair of size sevens right up their cracks!!!!
Find out the score OP as it could be that your Taurus has been playing you!!!
I'm not usually naive I have a Scorpio moon and I feel like I relate more to being a Scorpio than a Pisces. But maybe I have been naive because I haven't felt there was anything wrong until after posting this
Oh okay. Yea Scorpio moons are so suspicious and non trusting. They smell bullshit even when sometimes there's no bullshit there to smell
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So true! My scorp moon saves me from so much lol
Posted by AriesLady8
This sounds weird. You've been together for 5 years and have 2 kids but she's still concerned about him and you're engaged to be married? Any sane person would have been let go and moved on. Taurses do hold on emotionally until they usually find another love. Are you giving is the whole story?She IS weird and a psycho hose bleed (Quote from Wayne's World). She should get a restraining order. BTW, postee mentioned she has been w/her dude for five years and just realized ex psycho hose bleed has been stalking her. Yeah, postee has a life, but psycho hose bleed doesn't. I think her fiancée should be the one to talk to psycho hose bleed; if that doesn't help, get a restraining order, or threaten psycho hose bleed to "back off!" or you will file a restraining order. BTW, what's the harm in her knowing what's going on in your life? She's not in your bedroom is she? No, she isn't. If you're a strong woman, I would ignore her and her third party friends who "spy" on you. Psycho hose bleed is all BARK and no BITE; as she sends her trolls to do her spying for her. Your choice in whatever you choose to do as you asked for advice.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Thanks! She rang my friend up telling her that she's been watching her Instagram page , so yes I think a restraining order is definitely in the works
Please don't waste police resources by filing a restraining order because she's looking at your public social media accounts. That is not stalking.
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I don't know where you're from but where I live that is stalking and police do get involved, especially because there's a lot of cases of cyber bullying and young teens commuting suicide over it. But I get your point any how.
She hasn't exactly done anything worth getting a restraining order for..BUT, the moment she is a threat to your children you better act fast. Make it clear to not mess with your babies.
Also get married ASAP. Because if she actually IS actively trying to come between you and your boyfriend, the moment he is your husband the law will actually take your case seriously. (If she engaged in extreme ways of getting his attention.) the law won't bat an eye to a cheating boyfriend whether you guys have children together or not.
Look up alienation of affection and criminal conversation in divorce court.
But 5 years...sheesh, that's extreme. I would bet she saw hope because he hasn't married you yet.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
OK I missed that second part. Your situation sounds fishy to me.How could this stalker of yours have the power to spread these types of rumors about you if your man was openly claiming you? Like someone else said, why is she still in the picture after five years?
It sounds like one of you was, or still is, the side chick and your man is possibly playing you both for a fool. Something doesn't smell right about what you're telling us.
Could be true. Maybe I'm a side chick and I didn't even know this whole time
That's odd BIG TIME. I would never stalk an ex of five years gf!!! Lol lol l wouldn't do that!!!
What is your sun sign and your partner's sun sign?
I'm a Pisces and he's a Taurus
BINGO! I'm just going to say this... You should get to the bottom of this if you plan on marrying him. I could be wrong but I don't feel like you have the full story. Pisces are known for being naive. And Taurus men are known for playing on a Pisces woman naivety.
Yes! I feel Pisces female and Taurus male are NOT a good pairing as it seems the Taurus male has a propensity to be sneaky Bastards who seem to "hide" behind "feminine" qualities ie too delicate to chase a female ; very sensitive etc and they seem to play up on this a lot with the water sign other than scorp (of course)...
These men need a woman who will give them a pair of size sevens right up their cracks!!!!
Find out the score OP as it could be that your Taurus has been playing you!!!
I'm not usually naive I have a Scorpio moon and I feel like I relate more to being a Scorpio than a Pisces. But maybe I have been naive because I haven't felt there was anything wrong until after posting this
Oh okay. Yea Scorpio moons are so suspicious and non trusting. They smell bullshit even when sometimes there's no bullshit there to smell
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I hate to say this but we're not all like that. We are either of 2 extremes - either incredibly trusting (to our detriment) or incredibly suspicious and non-trusting.
Ram416 when I was younger I was incredibly trusting but a few things happened and turned me in to a non trusting human being. I think what hurt me the most is when my best friend tried to sleep with my boyfriend and then went and befriended the girl who he was cheating on me with behind my back ever since then I don't trust a soul I even find it hard to believe everything my mum tells me
Posted by Arielle83
You befriended her friebds?Mmmmmmkayyyy
You can't read or?
I said she made her friends befriend me.
Mmmmkay?
Oh I can read. You just don't understand the concept of the word "befriend".
If they "befriended" you, you are a part of the equation.
You gave them the attention. Or are you painting this picture like you're a victim if circumstance?
Listen lady, I don't know why you're having a bad day or life but don't come on here with your attitude because it wasn't my fault. You either answer the question or ignore it, I don't know what made you so angry at my post that you felt like I am playing a victim? How do you know me to know I am playing a victim? I could be going through depression and be having a mental break down from a trauma that's happened completely nothing to do with this post and you want to tell me I'm playing a victim. Go away and stop using the Internet to troll speak to people the way you would speak to them if it wasn't a forum. Silly woman
You're defensive for no reason.
WHY WOULD YOU BEFRIEND YOUR TAURUS EXES FRIENDS IF YOU THINK YOURE BEING STALKED?!
It's a logical question.
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Do you know what I can't argue with you because you're literally stupid like there isn't any thing there and it's shocking for a woman your age to be so incapable of understanding something so harmless and easy.
Let me break it down simply
1. I never knew about his ex until recently
2. The girl who befriended me and I got partially close with was her friend who I found out just recently, she stopped speaking to me last year out of the blue after she found out all the info she needed about me.
3. My boyfriend told me not to be friends with this girl but I didn't understand why
4. Now his ex has approached me and told me who she is and all these facts about me it makes sense now she knows
If you still don't get it then I'm afraid I can't help you
Posted by libraqueeen
She hasn't exactly done anything worth getting a restraining order for..BUT, the moment she is a threat to your children you better act fast. Make it clear to not mess with your babies.Also get married ASAP. Because if she actually IS actively trying to come between you and your boyfriend, the moment he is your husband the law will actually take your case seriously. (If she engaged in extreme ways of getting his attention.) the law won't bat an eye to a cheating boyfriend whether you guys have children together or not.
Look up alienation of affection and criminal conversation in divorce court.
But 5 years...sheesh, that's extreme. I would bet she saw hope because he hasn't married you yet.
I'm starting to doubt she's been watching me for a full 5 years now but she knows things about me from years ago which makes me wonder? I think I'm over thinking it all but there's definitely more to it and maybe he's entertaining her behind my back or something for her to do so much
Posted by Klhxo
Ram416 when I was younger I was incredibly trusting but a few things happened and turned me in to a non trusting human being. I think what hurt me the most is when my best friend tried to sleep with my boyfriend and then went and befriended the girl who he was cheating on me with behind my back ever since then I don't trust a soul I even find it hard to believe everything my mum tells me
No, the fact that you aren't even aware of the exact position of your current relationship is showing that you are still at that incredibly trusting stage.
Seems like you're not learning from your past experiences, and projecting your feelings from those past experiences onto the current situation.
Posted by libraqueeen
She hasn't exactly done anything worth getting a restraining order for..BUT, the moment she is a threat to your children you better act fast. Make it clear to not mess with your babies.Also get married ASAP. Because if she actually IS actively trying to come between you and your boyfriend, the moment he is your husband the law will actually take your case seriously. (If she engaged in extreme ways of getting his attention.) the law won't bat an eye to a cheating boyfriend whether you guys have children together or not.
Look up alienation of affection and criminal conversation in divorce court.
But 5 years...sheesh, that's extreme. I would bet she saw hope because he hasn't married you yet.
I'm starting to doubt she's been watching me for a full 5 years now but she knows things about me from years ago which makes me wonder? I think I'm over thinking it all but there's definitely more to it and maybe he's entertaining her behind my back or something for her to do so much
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It DOES seem like you are overthinking (Scorpio moon No.1 problem) this. If there is definitely more, find out what that is before taking action.
I think you're over reacting if she is stalking you then trust me you would know
Posted by libraqueeen
She hasn't exactly done anything worth getting a restraining order for..BUT, the moment she is a threat to your children you better act fast. Make it clear to not mess with your babies.Also get married ASAP. Because if she actually IS actively trying to come between you and your boyfriend, the moment he is your husband the law will actually take your case seriously. (If she engaged in extreme ways of getting his attention.) the law won't bat an eye to a cheating boyfriend whether you guys have children together or not.
Look up alienation of affection and criminal conversation in divorce court.
But 5 years...sheesh, that's extreme. I would bet she saw hope because he hasn't married you yet.
I'm starting to doubt she's been watching me for a full 5 years now but she knows things about me from years ago which makes me wonder? I think I'm over thinking it all but there's definitely more to it and maybe he's entertaining her behind my back or something for her to do so much
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Maybe mutual friends you aren't aware between her and you or your boyfriend and her. Dont let her actions fuel insecurity about your relationship so get the "maybe he's entertaining her behind my back" thought out of your head. Kay? 🙂
Posted by AriesLady8
This sounds weird. You've been together for 5 years and have 2 kids but she's still concerned about him and you're engaged to be married? Any sane person would have been let go and moved on. Taurses do hold on emotionally until they usually find another love. Are you giving is the whole story?She IS weird and a psycho hose bleed (Quote from Wayne's World). She should get a restraining order. BTW, postee mentioned she has been w/her dude for five years and just realized ex psycho hose bleed has been stalking her. Yeah, postee has a life, but psycho hose bleed doesn't. I think her fiancée should be the one to talk to psycho hose bleed; if that doesn't help, get a restraining order, or threaten psycho hose bleed to "back off!" or you will file a restraining order. BTW, what's the harm in her knowing what's going on in your life? She's not in your bedroom is she? No, she isn't. If you're a strong woman, I would ignore her and her third party friends who "spy" on you. Psycho hose bleed is all BARK and no BITE; as she sends her trolls to do her spying for her. Your choice in whatever you choose to do as you asked for advice.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Thanks! She rang my friend up telling her that she's been watching her Instagram page , so yes I think a restraining order is definitely in the works
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😄 Smart girl! 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I've just realised last year that his ex Taurus girlfriend has been stalking me throughout our entire relationship!
At first I found it funny but it's getting out of hand she got her friends to befriend me and find out information about us and when we were getting married. Does this sound like a Taurus thing? Why is she doing it? She won't ever speak to me she will just watch me and get her friends to watch me too.. She also has a libra moon I don't know if that has anything to do with it though?