I date a Taurus. PERFECT in the begining. He did everything you could imagine. He went into distant phases and was mean sometimes. I broke it off and gave him a list of reasons why. he refused to talk to me. I felt bad. I did everything to get him to come back and he did a month later. He did something kind of mean. I went off on him in the worst way possible for about a week. He would not talk to me for a month no matter what I did and then after 3 months of trying he would. Things were real shaky and uneasy, I could tell he still had resentment. he wouldn't commit again and I refused to try things on his terms. Fast forward of off and on with us trying and then we stop talking for a month and a half. I go to his house and let him know i've found someone but want to see him one last time. He tries to have sex, kiss me(which he had not done since when i 1st messed up) and tells me he loves me when I am tying to leave. I think he is trying to manipulate me to get sex. I leave. Go a few blocks. Turn around and go back. I ask him. If you love me why are you letting me leave and why won't he try with us. He won't talk. I was in tears and distaught. I go ahead with the relationship. He tells me it won't work. He was right. 6 weeks later I levae the guy and i told him. weeks after that i tell him i love him and he is shady. i write 2x saying I understand him more, i will be as patient, as understanding and I will wait on what ever decision he makes but I know I want him and will do anything to learn how to love him. He is open to sex but will not discuss "us" or "emotional/personal stuff" about us. I text him, i am done chasing him and then call and he picks up and says, talk about anything but us. I say i am going to never contact him again because i am tired of chasing him. after a week i contact him and he says "i thought you were never going to contact me again". i say you know after 2 years that is not the truth and i will love you on end unless you come out and tell me to go away. He says how many times do you need to be told. (he's never said it) and I say you never have, so do it right not and i will go away. 5 mintues pass then i text "crickets" 5 more minutes pass and he text "play by yourself". I text see this is what i mean. My question, I love him to death (he knows this). what should I do? keep trying or walk away? is he done or just thinking?
