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when does a taurus give up?
When Does a Taurus Usually Give Up in Relationships
A Taurus tends to give up on a relationship when trust is broken or consistent effort is unmet. They value loyalty and stability, and once these are compromised, they may withdraw and move on. Patience is key, but if their needs are repeatedly ignored, they will prioritize their own well-being and walk away.
When you cut his hands and feet off with scissors.
Posted by ArticleL
When you cut his hands and feet off with scissors.
LOL..that aint gonna happen..
Posted by ArticleL
When you cut his hands and feet off with scissors.LOL..that aint gonna happen..
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Apparently.
When you cut all contact and stop caring if he's lying or telling the truth. You are still entertaining him. Its much too soon for the two of you to be friends.
Posted by lnana04
When you cut all contact and stop caring if he's lying or telling the truth. You are still entertaining him. Its much too soon for the two of you to be friends.
Thats what a friend told me re: trying to be friends. Because hes still too attracted to me.
He asked me if he could see me before I move and I said, "I don't know." He said, "what do you mean u don't know?" I didn't answer right away but then said, "a lot to do and a lot up in the air just yet that has to be taken care of."
jeeze..like he's a priority..must suck now cause when I wanted to be a priority, I wasn't 😛
Update..
taurus text me..wished me well with virgo and if it doesn't work out, to contact him.
I said..ty and one day you'll find what u are looking for when ready..
An hour later..he texts he was home for lunch and said..keep in touch and hed better treat u right.
I said... he always has.
He said..I was looking at your picture...wish I could see u..
I said..I can't, I'm busy...
He said,'ok, i'll stop thinking about u but im horny..
Me..(rolls my eyes)and texts..its time to let go..you know that right. I meant what I said once..I could have loved u with everything i had to give.but u didnt feel the same.and its ok.
His answer back...are you ready?!
"ok,sorry to bother you with my text."
WTF—
I text back.."u didnt bother me. My wish for you is that one day u r able to love with your heart and not your head."
Silence.
Strangest damn convo and answers I have ever had in my life.
he does not act Taurus..more like his aqua moon all the way..COLD. The only time I could ever get this man to open up even a little bit and FEEL was between the sheets.
I honesty believe and intuition tells me.. this is one taurus who has never truly loved..doesn't know how or something..but somehow something draws him to me and he cant let go of that as easily as i can, and I am the one who loves easily. Makes no sense does it? LOL
yes i am musing..
Um he will give up once you show zero tolerance for any kind of romantic reconciliation to exist. Isn't that what you want? Sounds to me that you are still on the fence. It appears he knows that too from your last post. He knows he isn't priority now so he is trying for a way in I guarantee it. Sounds like he enjoys the pursuit of the romantic fantasy instead of the reality.
Capbaby you are sooooo still entertaining him.
If you saw this convo in the phone of your Virgo with his most recent ex you'd be pissed right? Saying what he could have had from you is inappropriate and irrelevant to your friendship with him. It gives him something to think about and still go after, and if he's going to keep going there its up to you to put a stop to it, and not like this. Its just not something you should be saying to someone you are supposedly "over." Its both YOU and HIM at this point.
Isn't she telling him the truth— "Hey I loved you and you pissed it away"
Why can't you tell someone that?
maybe i have missed soemthing...
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Huh? You are 'seriously' involved in a LDR w/ a Virgo and moving to be with him but had a thing with this Taurus and are more concerned about his pervy ways than you are about the fact you seem to care more about the Taurus than you do the Virgo. Honey, you need an Aries to bitch slap you back to reality.
Posted by Friction
Sounds like he enjoys the pursuit of the romantic fantasy instead of the reality.
-Thats is what I have always thought too.
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Isn't she telling him the truth— "Hey I loved you and you pissed it away"Why can't you tell someone that?
maybe i have missed soemthing...
Yes that is all it was. I'm a CAP..people know where we stand..the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Virgo knows I had feelings for Taurus, and he knows where my heart and my life is now ..with him. Virgo and I due to our long history of friendship keep nothing from one another, we never have. He too had a woman friend too, who when fidning out he is 'off the market', is happy for him yet feels a sense of loss. She actually asked him if i mind that he helps her out and he said no, thats whats is so great about her. Trust is what makes the difference 🙂
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Isn't she telling him the truth— "Hey I loved you and you pissed it away"Why can't you tell someone that?
maybe i have missed soemthing...
That "truth" is still irrelevant to her current friendship with him. She once viewed him as worthy of giving her all to him, so continuing to say what he could have had from her is nothing more than a tease, and he has every right to play along cause she's entertaining him. If she wanted him to stop she would stop talking about the past with him, or she would completely cut contact. Its out of those two options, pick and choose, but don't be smack dab in the middle then wonder why he's still hanging on. Its because you are as well.
Its so interesting to continue to see this Cap/Taurus dynamic and the lack of boundaries lol. Just keep happening lol.
Leave him alone...ignore his texts/calls/emails. The only time they are willing to let go is when YOU let go. You have your Virgo, cherish that and let the Bully( for sex that is) ass BULL alone.
Posted by Mistery
Huh? You are 'seriously' involved in a LDR w/ a Virgo and moving to be with him but had a thing with this Taurus and are more concerned about his pervy ways than you are about the fact you seem to care more about the Taurus than you do the Virgo. Honey, you need an Aries to bitch slap you back to reality.
Thank you.
Ever notice sometimes not a single Taurus speaks on a thread?That's because our bullshit o'meter's are going crazy.
Until alas.one of us can't take it anymore....and has to call it. 😉
Posted by Cancergurl1
Leave him alone...ignore his texts/calls/emails. The only time they are willing to let go is when YOU let go. You have your Virgo, cherish that and let the Bully( for sex that is) ass BULL alone.
That was my next response.If someone really wants us gone,just say it or show it...and MEAN it.We will disappear so fast you'll be left wondering if we were ever really there in the first place.
Posted by Mistery
Huh? You are 'seriously' involved in a LDR w/ a Virgo and moving to be with him but had a thing with this Taurus and are more concerned about his pervy ways than you are about the fact you seem to care more about the Taurus than you do the Virgo. Honey, you need an Aries to bitch slap you back to reality.Thank you.
Ever notice sometimes not a single Taurus speaks on a thread?That's because our bullshit o'meter's are going crazy.
Until alas.one of us can't take it anymore....and has to call it. 😉click to expand
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Posted by Mistery
Huh? You are 'seriously' involved in a LDR w/ a Virgo and moving to be with him but had a thing with this Taurus and are more concerned about his pervy ways than you are about the fact you seem to care more about the Taurus than you do the Virgo. Honey, you need an Aries to bitch slap you back to reality.Thank you.
Ever notice sometimes not a single Taurus speaks on a thread?That's because our bullshit o'meter's are going crazy.
Until alas.one of us can't take it anymore....and has to call it. 😉click to expandTHANK YOU! IT TOOK 3 YRS OF MY OWN EXPERIENCES AND TRIAL/TRIBULATIONS BUT I FINALLY GET YOU BULLS>>>> 😉
Posted by Mistery
Huh? You are 'seriously' involved in a LDR w/ a Virgo and moving to be with him but had a thing with this Taurus and are more concerned about his pervy ways than you are about the fact you seem to care more about the Taurus than you do the Virgo. Honey, you need an Aries to bitch slap you back to reality.
Ok. Yep. I missed something. The 2 timing bit.
Posted by Mistery
Huh? You are 'seriously' involved in a LDR w/ a Virgo and moving to be with him but had a thing with this Taurus and are more concerned about his pervy ways than you are about the fact you seem to care more about the Taurus than you do the Virgo. Honey, you need an Aries to bitch slap you back to reality.poor aries always being called upon to slap bitches.
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horns can be a great motivational tool
Posted by Mistery
Huh? You are 'seriously' involved in a LDR w/ a Virgo and moving to be with him but had a thing with this Taurus and are more concerned about his pervy ways than you are about the fact you seem to care more about the Taurus than you do the Virgo. Honey, you need an Aries to bitch slap you back to reality.Thank you.
Ever notice sometimes not a single Taurus speaks on a thread?That's because our bullshit o'meter's are going crazy.
Until alas.one of us can't take it anymore....and has to call it. 😉—
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😉 ♥
Posted by Mistery
Huh? You are 'seriously' involved in a LDR w/ a Virgo and moving to be with him but had a thing with this Taurus and are more concerned about his pervy ways than you are about the fact you seem to care more about the Taurus than you do the Virgo. Honey, you need an Aries to bitch slap you back to reality.poor aries always being called upon to slap bitches.
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LOL..thats ok I'm Aries rising 🙂
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Ok..so you know my story how Taurus disappeared, then came clean as to why(got back with ex-g/f), and wanted to start up a 'relationship' with me again. For 2 weeks he was texting and seeing me behind her back(stopping at my house). I went to a Halloween party with a guy friend and they were there.(him and his g/f) I purposely sat out of his view. Not good enough..he stood up to watch me across the room for hours. And then came and sat with g/f in our general area. GF has no idea who I am.Okayyyyy..smh
So he texts me 2 days later wanting to see me. I said I was busy most of the week. He shows up 3 days later. Tells me he broke up with gf..but I still wonder. I saw he is back on dating site where we originally met. I no longer have an acc't though..deleted mine. But i wanted to check to see if he was lying when he said, "I haven't had time to get on there." LIE..it shows when he was on last! LOL
I know, most posts are how to keep one like mine originally was! LOL But I am seriously involved with a Virgo (LDR) but that is soon to change. He tells me..'don't move right now..stay, give it some time.." I see that as purley selfish on his part. He chose his ex over me, and when it didn't work out, he wants to come back? It's too late. And now i wouldn't even trust him. I can be friends with him, but that's it. Does he not get that I gave him my heart once and he chose to throw it away??
So anyhow..when does a Taurus give up??