How on Earth to Get a Taurus Back (Page 2)

Im not here to make friends browsing and giving advice..Thanksyou!!

Oh you're quite welcome.

I was tough and it got the Taurus all balled up and hurt. I was soft and he stayed balled up and hurt. I am back to me. Taking crap and it did not fit me. Nevertheless, I will say in the future when someone is wrong, I will not snap out. I will simply leave them alone. Sometimes the attention is taken away from the original action and placed on my overreaction to the action. Nevertheless, I would not say what she is suggesting is being tough. It is just being formidable.

And as quiet as it is kept. I am not so much interested in having a real long term relationship with my Taurus. I was more interested in just seeing if I could get him to come back.

We understand luv. You've no time or patience for the Taurus. There is absolutely nothing wrong with standing your ground to make sure your voice is heard if you feel something isn't right for you. However, trash talking after the fact, coming in for advice you really didn't want or wasn't what you wanted to hear is in poor taste. If you didn't want him for your own, why bother at all? More games Crablette, more games. Good luck in future with all you do.

Posted by TaurusBadGirl

Posted by Striking
Good for you and in the mean time in between time work on your self-esteem..Scorp men are great for Cancer's but you gotta be tuff, say what you mean and mean what you say with them, cause they will try you..Hope it all works out well for you.

P.S A bit of advice going into the future. Men only respond to 3 things. Pain, Consequences and rewards!! Think about it..

Well i must say that not all men like tuff women....Some men like their women soft and femenine😉

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Yes they do, the softer the better

Posted by Fire-Water

Posted by TaurusBadGirl

Posted by Striking
Good for you and in the mean time in between time work on your self-esteem..Scorp men are great for Cancer's but you gotta be tuff, say what you mean and mean what you say with them, cause they will try you..Hope it all works out well for you.

P.S A bit of advice going into the future. Men only respond to 3 things. Pain, Consequences and rewards!! Think about it..

Well i must say that not all men like tuff women....Some men like their women soft and femenine😉

Yes they do, the softer the better

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oh nice a man's perspective...

Not everyone wants a testicle crushing harridan. Some men actually do respond too and deeply enjoy a feminine woman who celebrates simply being a woman. Pssssst, ladies..they've got the penis, we don't.

Nobody said for her not to be soft. You can be soft and still stand your ground on your expectations..AGAIN that was the point I was making. Anyhoo!! Cancerlovestaurus..Wishing you the best..Later!!

Posted by venusianbull
Not everyone wants a testicle crushing harridan. Some men actually do respond too and deeply enjoy a feminine woman who celebrates simply being a woman. Pssssst, ladies..they've got the penis, we don't.

Yes I agree...I think that with love and amours words you can get so much further as to what you want...It's like hypnotizing the men...lol..😉

What matter does it make how I use the advice? If I knew it came with a disclaimer I would have told you to keep it.
Let me be silent before I say something and you refuse to post and hide me for a year. I know you Taurus.

Gentle as dove, wise as serpent. The hallmark of a truly old-fashioned woman. Nothing to be sneezed at, nothing to jeer at in derision. She's a force; a blessing to everything and everyone she touches.

My bf is a Taurus. The most wonderful woman I have ever known. She is such as you described above. nevertheless, add a door matt too the list too. I see this to be a common trait among Taurus women. I am sure not all but def more than usual.

You'd be wrong in that regard. I put up with what is acceptable to me, the rest I will make it well known I'll not be standing for. We as women need to realize that there are awfully high ideals placed upon relationships in general that do not exist in reality. Nothing will ever go just as we want it too, nothing is ever 'easy' or 'falls into our lap'. There is MUCH we can do though..that is be honest, be kind, and utterly be ourself. Present that to another person with good heart and good intention. No other person should fall in line or be expected to dance like a marionette to our own little internal tune. Life does not work like that, and if it does, it's a temporary facade. Layers resentment upon hurt and anger. Loss of respect and bad feeling. Then one goes off half cocked loudly crying "What did I do?!" and "Why won't he/she do ..THIS..it's so simple what I wanted them to do.." ahhh but is it? Or is in completely unfair, more than a little deceptive and reeking of control and game playing?

Perhaps

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How can you at one moment say you love someone and in the next turn your back on them and become as cold as ice? Loving someone comes along with being so open, that it might hurt you. But it goes for both of the parties, right? If someone makes a mistake or messes up (which can happen very fast with the sensitive bulls) you immediately shut down and distance yourself. Is there no way to work it out?

Aries sometimes you have no choice..and I dont think this is from one moment to another..I think when Bulls decide to shut down is because they have been thinking about it for a while..Taurus men are somewhat careful with who they open up to..but If i see a man is trying to hurt me that only means he doesnt love me, so I mysef will retract and move on..I will still love them but why stay when you know he doesnt value your love? I myself am in a cusp with Gemini, so I do forgive, i will stay and talk it out..Bulls wil also till a certain extent..some Bulls will not forgive..depends on a lot of things.

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But you do all the thinking and deciding in your head while proceeding to treat the other person (almost) the same, so that they don't even know they mess up in your eyes. And then after a while you decide you had enough and disappear. I think this is at least just as hurtful if not even more to the person you once loved. I have the impression, that bulls always want to be in control of the situation and tend to get selfish, which is not the definition of love for me either.

I have tried to change and be patient for my bull, but I guess it wasn't enough so I am currently getting the silent treatment since 1,5 months. Maybe he has moved on already, Lorn knows. But this is what I mean - you guys are deep thinkers and you are very mysterious.. It's dangerous for a fire sign to fall for you 😢

And cancer, I'm happy for you that you made up your mind. It takes a certain kind of strength and knowledge about oneself. On the other hand things weren't probably that deep for you yet. Either way it seems to be the best way.

This part is from me and I didn't quote it lol

But you do all the thinking and deciding in your head while proceeding to treat the other person (almost) the same, so that they don't even know they mess up in your eyes. And then after a while you decide you had enough and disappear. I think this is at least just as hurtful if not even more to the person you once loved. I have the impression, that bulls always want to be in control of the situation and tend to get selfish, which is not the definition of love for me either.

I have tried to change and be patient for my bull, but I guess it wasn't enough so I am currently getting the silent treatment since 1,5 months. Maybe he has moved on already, Lorn knows. But this is what I mean - you guys are deep thinkers and you are very mysterious.. It's dangerous for a fire sign to fall for you

And cancer, I'm happy for you that you made up your mind. It takes a certain kind of strength and knowledge about oneself. On the other hand things weren't probably that deep for you yet. Either way it seems to be the best way.

If you have the patience to deal with the shut downs for various reasons that will have nothing to do with you AND the anger (for the unevolved specie of Taurus) AND the ability to communicate with out ever communicating (good luck with that one) AND you are willing to display one hundred percent self sacrifice (because you know they can be selfish as hell. Not financially.) then stick with it. If not, why keep lying to yourself? Nothing is really wrong or bad about Tauruses. They just need a person with those attributes and you may or may not be that. I had to be true to myself. I am not having it.

Posted by cancerlovestaurus
If you have the patience to deal with the shut downs for various reasons that will have nothing to do with you AND the anger (for the unevolved specie of Taurus) AND the ability to communicate with out ever communicating (good luck with that one) AND you are willing to display one hundred percent self sacrifice (because you know they can be selfish as hell. Not financially.) then stick with it. If not, why keep lying to yourself? Nothing is really wrong or bad about Tauruses. They just need a person with those attributes and you may or may not be that. I had to be true to myself. I am not having it.

Yeah all those things are horrible for passionate and impatient people (like me), but in the end it's all about how much you feel for that person. Im not saying you should change yourself completely or do anything just to please that person. Its just if both parties REALLY want this they will find a way. You can learn something from them and they can learn from you. But as soon as one person is not willing it doesn't make sense.

You hit it on the head. When you wrote, "BOTH". The thing with the Taurus is that they can in some situations require months or more to even begin to want to work at it. My friend, a Scorpio, dated a Taurus. She had one day off in three weeks and they had a minor argument over him not making time to be with her on that day. A month and a half went by neither contaced each other. Then he called her private. When she did not answer, he called from his friend's phone and tried all kinds of craziness to reach her. As much as she liked him, she was fed up with the shut downs and shut outs and he was dumped FOR GOOD. He was not going to change and she could not accommodate it. It just did not make sense to her like you said.

Okay. I left Taurus alone. Not in love with him anymore and told him so. He still owes me $ 2k. I let a week pass and ask him if he is still proceeding with a closing on business deal even though an investor pulled out. He was looking for another investor. I ask. "did you find another investor? are you still going ahead with the scheduled closing" He said was going to use this money to finally pay me. I texted him this. No response. What is his problem?

I am Having a Similar problem only I had a boyfriend when I Met my Taurus guy.. Then I got pregnant (by boyfriend) & then he (boyfriend) Started to cheat.. So I turned to My Taurus Guy For Comfort & Slowly Start Falling For him.. He was The Thru Most Of My Pregnancy giving Me money for the things I needed , even helped me with my baby shower & after I had my daughter her father felt like he wanted to be a family my boyfriend made me cut my Taurus guy off & when I did I felt horrible after that in 3 months my relationship with my daughters dad was over but the whole time I missed my Taurus guy tried to contact him did everything.. We had Sex too & it seem like it jus wasn't enough.. In the beginning my Taurus was soo sweet & I could talk to him about anything now I feel like he hates me.. He told me he has a girlfriend now (an ex that he got back) but I don't believe him I feel like it's pay back.. & now he's locked up but he told me "u don't know how If feels to have the girl ur in love with up & leave"

Can't say I don't love him Bcas I do.. Can't say it doesn't hurt Bcas it does.. but I'm in love with a guy that I've hurt & now I want him back Wat do I Do—? He's even said (before he got locked up) "stop Txn me I'm with my girl" (exact words I said to him) & an hour later Txd back "same thing u did now How Does it Feel?" 😢 then later Txd & said he didn't Have a girlfriend idk I'm soo confused I wrote him & apologized soo many times

Tell that to my heart.. I Try Believe Me.. It's Not Easy But not impossible.. It's easier said than done.. I'm goin to try like I've been doin we haven't spoken in a few months now tho u think I should write jus to check up ?

KY
Leave the poor man alone.

Everything that the cancer OP says about unevolved taurus men is absolutely true.
I know.

Ok Geez thank u

@ lucky libra I am human jus like u I made a mistake its not like I go around jus breaking ppls heart so please miss me with saying I don't need to be with anybody u don't even know me

That's some fucked up shit. You guys thought it was a great idea to bring a baby into the world. All could have been avoided with a condom.

i wonder if cancerlovetaurus ever got her money back?

i think hes over you. i do this alot, when i am truly done with someone, i will be mean, rude, cold, and distant. our purpose of this behavior is to make it completely obvious where we are at in our heads, we are d o n e with your bs and you dont deserve our manners or kindness. he definitely bottled some things up inside that you did that he didnt like for him to be treating you like shit. it doesnt seem like hes budging. you realized that you wanted to be with him too late.

yeah, its too late. very sorry my love.