In mid-summer of this year (2014) I started working at a local car rental company while being trained I observed a highly attractive gentleman nicely built, nice smile and eyes that I could not stop looking at. On several occasions he came in and my supervisor generated his contracts and I just watch how she did them as weeks past I was finally able to do contracts on my own with some closet supervision then I was place on my regular work schedule weeks came where I was alone, then one day while at the counter I decided to pay closet attention to my reservations because I did not have particular types of cars so I called him to advise of the situation he did not recognize who was speaking to him at the time until he hanged up. Being myself I asked him to bring me lunch and to my surprise he did when he came to pick up his car that same day. As the evening went on and I generated his contract I gave him my number and then called him once it slowed down. As days went by we spoke and then he invited me over to his house, when I got there he stated "I taught you were not going to come," was just asking to see what you're about. So I then stated that was the same thing I said to you about the food you got me and you were like "girl you better take this food" and he smiled for weeks we hanged out at his house then he asked "Do you believe in LOVE at first sight?" I stated NO, then I asked why, he said "from the first time he came to the facility and say me he thought that I was cute, attractive and his heart kept skipping beats," he did not know how to control his thoughts about me and do not know how to tell me what he thought either because he's shy and the type of guy the would see a female (woman) that's attractive and never say anything to them and then wonder what his life would have been with them in it. I did something I regret and I believe it has just recently cost me by job. What I did was ask my supervisor to speak to him because whenever he comes into the facility he flirts with me so hard that I took it as 'sexual harassment' (for which it was not) she spoke to him and he threw the book at me to her showing her all the texts I sent him and all the telephone calls I made but nothing showing he communicated with me. This happened on 10/25/14 now 12/7/14 I have not seen him, touched him or kissed him since. I did reach out to him via an app and a lady customer stated based on his voice he still wants me I just need to leave him be and he'll come back.
HOW TO APOLOGIZE AND GAIN TRUST FROM A TAURUS MAN
I did not know he was flirting until after I sat down and think. He has blocked me. Is the girl at his house his cousin or new girl? If it his new girl why email my boss and say its his cousin?

Wait, I dont get it. You told your boss that the shy guy at work that you like was sexually harassing you?
he probably thinks you're young and could be trouble.
he probably thinks you're young and could be trouble.

I actually think she got this guy's (clients) number, called him, went to his house etc.
then she turns around and tells her boss that she's being sexually harassed by him.
what sign are you?
then she turns around and tells her boss that she's being sexually harassed by him.
what sign are you?

Posted by sadden
showing her all the texts I sent him and all the telephone calls I made
This happened on 10/25/14 now 12/7/14 I have not seen him, touched him or kissed him since.
Posted by sadden
I did not know he was flirting until after I sat down and think.click to expand
you didn't know he was flirting?
Looks like you tried a game that backfired and now you're worrying about who he's doing now.
shellshocker - honestly, i asked him if he was doing other females a few times he did not answer so if this girl was always in the picture he did me wrong to begin with especially as he said "he's been single for 2 years after going through a super messy divorce and had not had sex in over ten months." as far as i figured i was the only person that was seeing because that was the first question i asked him from day one and he said yes. then again he asked me to trust him and called me several times while we were sleeping by his last name, i do not know how many guys would actually call a female(woman) by their last name and not have it mean something to them.
pvamdjellay - it was an honest mistake is like everyone saying to me i should have let it ride and then realize that he was doing himself. how am i suppose to know i only hanged out with him at his house not like if we ever went out to dinner, parks, art watching. like for real you'll never made mistakes—??

ya we all make mistakes, that's how we learn
i have accepted and acknowledge that with myself and former boss and this is why i was just trying to get answers on how to let him know i messed up, that is all. okay he blocked me but he is not giving me back my things i left at his house, why?
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