How to indicate to the Bull that I like him?

This Taurus man has indicated in a very subtle way that I interest him. He seems to like/adore me if I go by all the signs. I need to know how to let him know that I adore him too without being direct to him. Or More better, Is there a way I can get him to come out with his feelings somehow? I know hes taking his time, but I am low on patience!!!!!

Posted by soultalk
chase n ask him direct questions I think if u r interested.

Wont chasing him put him off? Plus being a cancerian I am really bad at chasing guys!! Isnt there a way to do it indirectly?/

Touch him.

u virgos just always seem to know taurus so well

@SoulTalk - I guess I will try doing that. But Is it going to be this way always? As in are they always that stubborn?

@Damnata - He has touched me in casual ways like putting his hand on my head, hugging me when he saw me the last time, taking my coffee and sipping it, walking arm in arm at some market we went with friends.Is that positive genuine interest or is he just flirting?

Posted by Damnata
Touch him.

Posted by Vainth
u virgos just always seem to know taurus so well

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*Cosign*

@Cancermermaid...

Flirt a little too. Subtle. Lady-like.

Posted by Cancermermaid

Wont chasing him put him off? Plus being a cancerian I am really bad at chasing guys!! Isnt there a way to do it indirectly?

Chasing can indicate a myriad of things. It doesn't always have to be an impulsive 'speedy' trial.

But a slow gradual courtship where two individuals are getting to know each other on a consistent basis.

For me, it's not about winning, but the 'act' of maintaining consistency. Initiating contact or touching base with me at least once a week can be a sign of chasing. Asking me out for coffee can indicate a sign of chasing. Slight touches and casual flirting for me can indicate chasing.

I hate being rushed. But, I also dislike it when my flirting, interest and mild form of affections go unnoticed.

With some Bulls, you have to find that balance.

@TaurusBull1977 - You are accurate I believe, But the balance is hard to find..lol .

@Cancermermaid...

The balance is not hard to find. Bulls are not that difficult to please.

I prefer simplicity and honesty. Someone who is real and down-to-earth. No liars or pretentious phonies.

If your intentions are genuine, then your actions will be consistent.

If your feelings for him are genuine, then the subtle flirting and casual touches will come naturally, it wouldn't feel too orchestrated or coerced.

Don't over-analyze this transition, unless you want to be friend-zoned. Just learn to be in the moment with him, and let everything flow naturally.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Cancermermaid...

The balance is not hard to find. Bulls are not that difficult to please.

I prefer simplicity and honesty. Someone who is real and down-to-earth. No liars or pretentious phonies.

If your intentions are genuine, then your actions will be consistent.

If your feelings for him are genuine, then the subtle flirting and casual touches will come naturally, it wouldn't feel too orchestrated or coerced.

Don't over-analyze this transition, unless you want to be friend-zoned. Just learn to be in the moment with him, and let everything flow naturally.

TaurusBull - you are great with your explanation! -

Offer me security / consistency/ sincerity/ real / affection is a way to win me over every time. The more you are into me...the more attractive you will be...if I like a guy but he's not consistent..most likely he will be put into a no zone regardless of how much I want him...We are logical people...feelings can come last...

My advice is to be direct with him- " hey, would you like to go out for a coffee with me sometime? " ..thats enough to show that you are interested .

....with a bull you DO have to MAKE THE FIRST MOVE...thats how we roll 😉

From what i gathered with taurus men recently.

We are touchy freely individuals... We also flirt... We have harem...We express our interests by touch...

I think he's interested. He likes you and he wants to get to know you physically but that doesn't mean he's serious about you just yet.

If a bull is invested and very keen on you - he will be happy to wait until the time is right and until you are ready.

The fact that he pulled away because you are not ready to be that intimate with him shows that maybe he was never that serious to begin with.

You have told him why you pulled away so if he genuinely want you for real he should have not canceled the plan with you .

He will put you first because it shouldn't matter whether he gets to be with you physically or not.

If he is invested he will spend time with you...with or without sex.

- However- if he's very very touchy freely... I have a feeling he's not that serious about you yet. I had two experiences with two...

they could be giving you tons of affections...but that doesn't mean they want you for good...They just like to express their interests that way.

Posted by SunTauVenGem
From what i gathered with taurus men recently.

We are touchy freely individuals... We also flirt...

This^^^^^
Affectionate men bring out the Venusian sensual side of me. Playful. All I want to do is inhale his cologne, and kiss his neck. Hold his hands and caress his back. Long deep sensual kisses.....

Being affectionate towards me allows my mind to wander....

If he's held his gaze....
It's a wrap for me...😛

*It looks like there is going to be trouble...LOL*

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by SunTauVenGem
From what i gathered with taurus men recently.

We are touchy freely individuals... We also flirt...

This^^^^^
Affectionate men bring out the Venusian sensual side of me. Playful. All I want to do is inhale his cologne, and kiss his neck. Hold his hands and caress his back. Long deep sensual kisses.....

Being affectionate towards me allows my mind to wander....

If he's held his gaze....
It's a wrap for me...😛

*It looks like there is going to be trouble...LOL*

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hehe I can feel it too 😉 The op can be affectionate and be playful with him.. She can hold the sex if she likes.... However the the bulls.. We really do need physical intimacy . It's how we express feelings and receive love .. it's like the need for Gemini to talk.. 😉

Posted by Cancermermaid
@SoulTalk - I guess I will try doing that. But Is it going to be this way always? As in are they always that stubborn?

@Damnata - He has touched me in casual ways like putting his hand on my head, hugging me when he saw me the last time, taking my coffee and sipping it, walking arm in arm at some market we went with friends.Is that positive genuine interest or is he just flirting?

Hmmm... you SHOULD have gotten it when he sipped off of YOUR coffee ! We don't do this with just ANYONE ! Don't you SEE ?!! You are on third base with him already ! Take it home !!! 😄

Thanks everyone for all the awesome comments. I hope things turn out to be positive soon 🙂. I am sure the wait is worth it.

Cancer, your story really seems nice and genuine. I read your other thread too.

Going by my experience, he's definitely into you. Just be a little less shy and the rest will fall into place. Take a more..proactive approach.

My 2 cancer female friends are both with taurus guys for the last 4 years..I really like this pairing.

Posted by David13

Hmmm... you SHOULD have gotten it when he sipped off of YOUR coffee ! We don't do this with just ANYONE ! Don't you SEE ?!! You are on third base with him already ! Take it home !!! 😄

Amen! ^^^^^^^^

I have referenced this repeatedly!

I've noticed my Taurus guy he is very physical whit his very very close friends (not female). When we were not in a relationship yet he was doing this with me, hugging, tickling, touching a lot basically. I could figure was he just being more and more friendly/comfortable with me or or was it something more.

When we started dating he admitted this was signs of affection/interest towards me. But you see, I made the first move. I asked myself well why then he didn't simply come out open to me. Guess the answer is simply cause bulls will give you all the signs in the world but you have to be the the first to answer his/her flirting with the loud or a subtle way of telling him/her yeah, I want you!
Try answering with simple things like biting your lips (this ALWAYS grabs his attention, I use it a lot 😉), touching him during conversation or there is one thing that I did when me and my guy were still friends, I stroke his back. I did it spontaneously, no big preparations, he was just sitting by my side, I was talking with a friend across the table and started to stroke his back. He was melting!I just winked at him continuing the conversation.

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by David13

Hmmm... you SHOULD have gotten it when he sipped off of YOUR coffee ! We don't do this with just ANYONE ! Don't you SEE ?!! You are on third base with him already ! Take it home !!! 😄

Amen! ^^^^^^^^
I have referenced this repeatedly!

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I know right ?! It is SO obvious ! Speaking of which... where IS that Cancermermaid chick anyway ?!! It's been 5 days now... time for her to check-in ! If she hasn't laid one on him yet, I'm going to be mad Mad MAD !!!

Posted by lucyL
I've noticed my Taurus guy he is very physical whit his very very close friends (not female). When we were not in a relationship yet he was doing this with me, hugging, tickling, touching a lot basically. I could figure was he just being more and more friendly/comfortable with me or or was it something more.

When we started dating he admitted this was signs of affection/interest towards me. But you see, I made the first move. I asked myself well why then he didn't simply come out open to me. Guess the answer is simply cause bulls will give you all the signs in the world but you have to be the the first to answer his/her flirting with the loud or a subtle way of telling him/her yeah, I want you!
Try answering with simple things like biting your lips (this ALWAYS grabs his attention, I use it a lot 😉), touching him during conversation or there is one thing that I did when me and my guy were still friends, I stroke his back. I did it spontaneously, no big preparations, he was just sitting by my side, I was talking with a friend across the table and started to stroke his back. He was melting!I just winked at him continuing the conversation.

Oh yeah... that last one... GOOD Stuff ! 😉

Hi People, I tried getting in touch with the Guy and he never replied. So I didn't pursue him. He sent me a joke yesterday after a week. I fail to understand his behavior. On one side he does stuff which is hard to ignore and then he ignores me completely.

I have moved to a new city and he didn't call or ask me if I moved my stuff. He doesn't care for me. I guess he was trying to flirt, that's it. I did and do adore him today too 🙂 . He brings a smile on my face without any reason. But I think the story ends here, at least until I return to his city....

All you guys have been really supportive with all the advice and suggestions 😄

If he is still making up his mind, then i hope he comes back. 🙂 I hope something happens on Valentines Day, its not that far 😄.