How to keep a bull interested?

So I recently met a taurean guy and we've hung out twice. First time we had a few drinks, and played strip poker lol (lucky I won most games and he was down to his boxers) anyway, he was being very gentlemanly and decent, didnt try and jump me but rather took his sweet time and when id catch him looking at me he??d quickly look away, he seemed really shy and eventually kissed me and caressed and hugged me, sniffed my hair and said it smelt like apricots lol. It was just lets say.. romantic. I wasnt going to sleep over and he was like I think you should stay the night we dont have to do anything and I was like na I just met you im just not like that etc etc. So he walked me to catch a cab down the road from his and he was all like shy and did them sligh staring at me from the corner of his eye.. i caught him a few times though and he laughed it off. So he was like so would you like to see me again? etc etc and then he was like i hope i made a good impression etc etc when I got into the taxi he gave me a tight hug and we kissed a bit and then he was like text me when you get home so I know you got home safe. I got home, text him and then my msn was signed in so he opened a converastion and we stayed up chatting till like 5am (got home at 3). Anyway he was like so when are we going to see each other again, what are you doing tomorrow etc etc, we agreed to see each other two days after. So that day came and I had to attend to some family business so I couldnt make it to see him. I didnt text or ring him at all just left it as it was??_ later that night I got online and he was like what happened?? I explained what came up with the family and why I couldnt make it and he was like thats alright I understand I was waiting for you all day and didnt leave my house bla bla (I felt bad).

So anyway we agreed to see each other the following day after his work which finished at 9 and he was going to sleep over mine and leave early in the morning since I had to be out of my house by 7.30. So he ended up getting the night off from work, let me know and he was like do you still want to hang out etc etc, he came over about 11pm he said he had to do a few things before he came. Im on holidays at the moment from work so I didnt care staying up to wait for him. So I picked him up near the stop at mine and we walked back together. He had never been to my area and he caught 2 buses and had to ask people for directions etc, anyway.

We came back to mine it was all good, we watched a movie and at first we sat on different couches, he goes to me come sit with me, i go no you come and sit wtih me, so he came and sat with me and got all cuddly, I had my legs over his lap, we were really close to each other and he was hugging me and holding my hands etc, he would kiss my hand and hug me tighter etc etc, had his cheek touching mine. Anyway, after the movie he was kind of falling asleep so we went to bed. We got into my room and jumped in bed, lights went off and he didnt even try to have sex with me. He spooned me straight away and we had our legs interwined, he was hugging me tightly and holding my hands and kissing the back of my head etc etc and I thought once he fell asleep he??d roll over, WRONG, we slept like that ALL night, yea we tossed and turned but the wholeeeeeeeee time he was holding me and tightly, when id wriggle out of his hold, he??d find me and grab me again lol it was cute! there wasnt one time where we were on separate sides, we slept holding each other ALLLLLLLLL night and the odd kiss here and there. In the morning, we got up early, I made us breakfast in bed, we cuddled for a bit after breakfast and got up and left the house. He was asking all these questions and he was like hmm I should memorise the way here better etc etc. Anyway, we got on the bus and he was kind of been cuddly after a while. We got off the bus and had to go our separate ways, he said he had to run a few errands and to ring him when I was fnished doing my things.

So anyway I havent seen him since last Wednesday but we've been keeping in contact. He iniaties the texting although he doesnt say much in them but always ends them with an "x". He suggested we hang out Sunday. I told him I didnt know and for him to let me know. I didnt hear from him all day (I was bed ridden with food poisening anyway) and I didnt contact him. Sunday night I text him about 11.30pm as I was going to bed saying goodnight and that I hope he had a godd sleep he text me back straight away asking how my day was, telling me he had 4 days off work and that if i started work the next day (I had told him the first night we met I came back to work on the 10th so im assuming he remembered). I didnt text him back and text him Monday afternoon saying hi, and that yes I started work today and if he was going to let me see him since he had 4 days off work. He took his sweet time to reply but replied saying "you know it x".

He was also saying he wanted to cook for me (since his a chef) and he was going to make a dish from my country so he goggled all these native dishes and got back to me and his like do you like this and that, I could make it like this etc etc. Then another time he came out telling me all these facts about my country and I was like are you researching or something and he goes yeaaa doing a bit of research trying to better my knowledge and wanted to sus out your background a bit.

So how do I keep him interested? Does he seem genuinley interested so far? What are the do's and dont's regarding taurean man? They always seem to flock to me but I dont know. I was in a 1 year relationship with one many years ago so I dont remember what I was doing which seemed to work lol. The last two taureans who chased me were friends and one of them I had a "FWBs" situation with and i KNEW he liked me but didnt want to commit.

This one I like and I want to keep him around a bit.

His placements are:

Sun — Taurus
Moon — Sag
Merc — Aries
Venus — Taurus
Mars — Capricorn
Rising — Aries

Has his behaviour so far been an "interested" taurean type behaviour?

Seems like things are fine and he seems like what you've presented to him so far.

If you have to modify things you love about yourself just to keep someone interested then its truly not going go so well in the long run.

Posted by Amandus
Seems like things are fine and he seems like what you've presented to him so far.

If you have to modify things you love about yourself just to keep someone interested then its truly not going go so well in the long run.

Im not going to "modify" myself in any way. I just want to get insight into what they like, etc what will keep them around. Not necessarily saying I will change in order to keep him around, but i'll adjust my behaviour accordingly AT FIRST or refrain from doing things he might not like until were on a better level then I can completely be myself.

And lets face it... girls arent ALWAYS exactly who they are when they are first getting to know a guy. I think everyone is like that. You put your best foot forward first, then the rest follows.

Posted by nats
I think everyone is like that. You put your best foot forward first, then the rest follows.

🙂 Not me. I'll put the foot I have on now and it can only get better.

Nats, I'm seeing a Taurus too!!!

It sounds like he really likes you. His chart is grounded/earthy, so it is likely that he will want you to himself. Especially with that double whammy Taurus (sun & venus).

How to keep them? Well, I can tell you what seems to attract the Taurus men that I know...

- feminine girls
- strong women/personalities
- imagination
- FOOD!!! (this should be at the top of the list)
- sweet cuddles, affection
- back massages
- domestic living
- being pampered
- allowing them to pamper you
- loyalty
- brains (intelligence)
- arts
- style
- confidence
- someone that knows how to have fun
- communication
- pretty faces
- opinions (though theirs is usually right...unless you wanna refute them)
- being chased
- sex

oh, also... being yourself. they'll sniff you out otherwise.

Kleo thanks for the insight. How long have you been seeing your bull??

So this is the question i've been MOST curious about and have read lots of diff things but they all contradict each other. Since you have first hand experience, do they like to be chased? or do they like DOING the chasing— lol

this guy is pretty quiet too. He talks A LOT when he gets into it. The second time I saw him I asked him all these questions and then he spoke for ages and explained his life story to me and what he had been doing for the past 5 years.. but otherwise through texting or messenger, he is pretty vague.

Last night we were speaking on messenger and he was kind of vague because he said he was on his phone as his laptop died but he as asking me all these questions. Where do i work (ive alread told him previously), what time do i start? what time do i finish etc etc lol like inspector gadget!

i have been myself. completely. i mean yea ive held back from the crazy antics i sometimes do or act like but in general i've been myself and have been completely honest with him whenever he asks me something.

^^^ agree 100%

i was just sharing my observations. nats, i've been seeing him for about 3 weeks now. he chased me in person for a couple months & told me to call him, persistently. he never called me. i eventually did call him & still do. 🙂

Posted by nats
Kleo thanks for the insight. How long have you been seeing your bull??

So this is the question i've been MOST curious about and have read lots of diff things but they all contradict each other. Since you have first hand experience, do they like to be chased? or do they like DOING the chasing— lol

I like to do the chasing... well for the most part.. there should be some on your side too, don't be on a shelf out of reach.. Meh.. pretty much just have your own life, and feel free to turn him down a few times when your to busy with it... lol He should totally appreciate and respect when your busy... No beckon call.. lol

All the good things in life should take at least a little work to get there..

Makes having them that much sweeter.

Nats, is that you in the avatar? Not sure if you are a man or woman by that picture.