How to pursue a Taurus guy?

Hiya guys, So I haven't been on this site in months but I always enjoy reading the posts on here because I genuinely feel like their so accurate when describing characters even though I know many times they can differ.

I haven't seen a guy in months after the last person I was seeing seriously and as a Scorpio woman, for some reason I never really fancy anyone! So when I do, it's because something about that guy has got to me, there's just something about them and there is just something about this Taurus guy that Im intrigued by and it's frustrating. Its like I need to get it out of my system but I can tell it's going to be a slow ride.

Were 20/21 (so probably young but still) I met him in the club 3 weeks+ ago now, as soon as I saw him I wanted his attention and this is so rare for me. Although we had lots of eye contact, he never came near me to dance or anything like most of his big group of boys did so because without being arrogant, I wasn't getting what I wanted I was like meh. But as soon as we left and went outside he came up to me and started goofing around and hesitantly said lets exchange numbers.. He wanted to put his number in MY phone I was like dude, if you want my number YOUR texting me first or you can stick it. We then chatted for a bit and he hugged me from behind for a moment before moving away alone from the group whilst having a cig. Before he got in his car he called me over but I wasn't going to kiss him just yet, but came him a peck on the cheek (to lip) and left. I surprisingly woke up to a text.. and we spoke everyday for a week or so and planned to see eachother again. Anyways Ive seen him breifly again since but after a while he wasnt texting anymore, and I started saying hi first etc which I don't mind to an extent. I dont want it to fizzle untill we can properly do something together like he keeps casually dropping in conversation but we had our first little tiff a few days ago and hes annoyed at me and we havent spoken since. Stubborn yes.. but so am I!! Do i say something? Im fine about putting myself out there to move on from it, but Im too proud and scared of rejection.

Sorry if this was a bit flustered and made no sense just wanted to give a little perspective first. I can give more specific conversation details etc if needed as a lot was said.

P.S so everyone says hes shy. and hes shy. Hes serious too, has morals.. but he is also very very sexual but hes already asked me what kind of girl I am and he likes

'P.S so everyone says hes shy. and hes shy. Hes serious too, has morals.. but he is also very very sexual but hes already asked me what kind of girl I am and he likes that im not another 'hoe' to add to his phone book full of them. He said it's time to start digging deeper'.

So what are you asking? Is there something you want to know? This pairing seems to be extremely difficult, and rarely successful. That's all I've learned from my own experience and that of others.

Oh - I guess that's the title of your thread - how to pursue? Well, be patient, maybe initiate a little more than you normally would in the beginning. Definitely is a shy factor there. Try to develop a friendship, don't play games because it turns into a bad power struggle with these two signs, be as real as you can, if you want more than sex, don't just put the sexual/seductive vibe out there, but be clear about that....

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Oh - I guess that's the title of your thread - how to pursue? Well, be patient, maybe initiate a little more than you normally would in the beginning. Definitely is a shy factor there. Try to develop a friendship, don't play games because it turns into a bad power struggle with these two signs, be as real as you can, if you want more than sex, don't just put the sexual/seductive vibe out there, but be clear about that....

haha I know, I write such jumble. So it isnt a turn off if I speak first? He would always speak first and if he hadnt heard from me in a couple days he would say where have you been? No nothing, not budging. We had a little argument because he very hastily asked to pick me up the other night to take me to a club he was dj'ing at and I was sitting there in a jumper and I was like, i cant go like this? asking questions etc and he got defensive and offended that he offered and I didnt want to, and by the time I could say yes he said, its fine found someone else. ( i know it wasnt a girl) but we havent spoken since after i said dont be annoyed. Shall I be like, hey grumps shall we be friends again? 😛

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haha I know, I write such jumble. So it isnt a turn off if I speak first? He would always speak first and if he hadnt heard from me in a couple days he would say where have you been? No nothing, not budging. We had a little argument because he very hastily asked to pick me up the other night to take me to a club he was dj'ing at and I was sitting there in a jumper and I was like, i cant go like this? asking questions etc and he got defensive and offended that he offered and I didnt want to, and by the time I could say yes he said, its fine found someone else. ( i know it wasnt a girl) but we havent spoken since after i said dont be annoyed. Shall I be like, hey grumps shall we be friends again? 😛

It is fine to speak first, or whenever you feel like. We can get moody when we don't get our way, and often expect an interest to just go along with our plans; he was probably just really excited to go out with you...but if the shoe was on the other foot, he would probably totally expect you to understand. So just call him out on that. And the "grumps" thing is cute and a good approach.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

Posted by scorpchi


haha I know, I write such jumble. So it isnt a turn off if I speak first? He would always speak first and if he hadnt heard from me in a couple days he would say where have you been? No nothing, not budging. We had a little argument because he very hastily asked to pick me up the other night to take me to a club he was dj'ing at and I was sitting there in a jumper and I was like, i cant go like this? asking questions etc and he got defensive and offended that he offered and I didnt want to, and by the time I could say yes he said, its fine found someone else. ( i know it wasnt a girl) but we havent spoken since after i said dont be annoyed. Shall I be like, hey grumps shall we be friends again? 😛

It is fine to speak first, or whenever you feel like. We can get moody when we don't get our way, and often expect an interest to just go along with our plans; he was probably just really excited to go out with you...but if the shoe was on the other foot, he would probably totally expect you to understand. So just call him out on that. And the "grumps" thing is cute and a good approach.

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Thanks for the advice. Needed that little push. Eeek we'll see how it goes. Two stone heads. no wonder this isnt the most easy match. hahaha

I'm a Cancer, so lots and lots of Cardinal energy (I also have libra and aries in my chart). I pretty much hunted down and pursued my taurus ex when we first met. I liked him, I wanted him and then I did everything I could to land in his path repeatedly. Mine was also an asshole, but that's not because he's a Taurus.

Here's what you might be up against in a Taurus man: they rarely initiate. They like things their way. They don't like change. If there's a disagreement and he's wrong you most likely (not impossible, though) won't get an apology and he won't admit he was wrong too often. He will most likely act as though nothing even happened once he's cooled off. They do like to cuddle, sometimes, but still not a huge instigator of it, but they will be more into it at the beginning. Very loyal to family (one of the biggest reasons I fell in love with my ex), usually have a good work ethic if they are motivated, not afraid to do what they have to to finish a project or job. Emotionally they are comfortable but not overly dramatic and they don't delve deep in it. Emotions are NOT their main drive and focus. Usually very punctual. Concerned about what others think of them. My maternal grandma was Taurus and she was very practical, very down to earth and comfy, not a drama queen or a glam gal. They're smarter and they think more than they let on. Usually very placid and calm seeming. Watch out for the temper: it's a sight to behold and a bit like watching a bull in full rage. think rockslide.

I can attest that Cancers definitely know how to rope us up. I personally apologize alot and admit to wrong alot in my relationships though. *If* I think I'm right, I will argue my point (to death), but my Cancer ex-wife said I gave the best apologies out of anyone she'd been with when I was in the wrong.

Posted by MoonArtist


Here's what you might be up against in a Taurus man: they rarely initiate. They like things their way. They don't like change. If there's a disagreement and he's wrong you most likely (not impossible, though) won't get an apology and he won't admit he was wrong too often. He will most likely act as though nothing even happened once he's cooled off. They do like to cuddle, sometimes, but still not a huge instigator of it, but they will be more into it at the beginning. Very loyal to family (one of the biggest reasons I fell in love with my ex), usually have a good work ethic if they are motivated, not afraid to do what they have to to finish a project or job. Emotionally they are comfortable but not overly dramatic and they don't delve deep in it. Emotions are NOT their main drive and focus. Usually very punctual. Concerned about what others think of them. My maternal grandma was Taurus and she was very practical, very down to earth and comfy, not a drama queen or a glam gal. They're smarter and they think more than they let on. Usually very placid and calm seeming. Watch out for the temper: it's a sight to behold and a bit like watching a bull in full rage. think rockslide.

Wow. Moonartist, you're good!