How to pursue a taurus male?

Hi, I've been lurking around these forums and wanted to ask specifically how an aries (fem) should approach a taurus (male).

I understand the basics of a taurus, but would be more interested in your personal experiences in dealing with a taurus. Especially during the early stages of your relationship and how to flirt to get one interested.

As an aries of course I just make it as obvious as possible.

Thanks.

from my experience, it took some time. we became good friends first, before revealing that we each wanted to jump the other's bones. we had lots of harmless flirting along the way - mainly witty banter to entertain each other.

once we were friends, we were able to talk to each other openly about how we were feeling.

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from my experience, it took some time. we became good friends first, before revealing that we each wanted to jump the other's bones. we had lots of harmless flirting along the way - mainly witty banter to entertain each other.

once we were friends, we were able to talk to each other openly about how we were feeling.

I'm trying to enter into a friendship currently, so far I guess it's going pretty well. I'm finding that tauruses like to stay well away from their phones? I've been messaging him quite frequently and I'll only occasionally get a quick response and seems like he's inactive for hours at a time.

Did you find this to be a problem for you? @jeane

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Posted by jeane
from my experience, it took some time. we became good friends first, before revealing that we each wanted to jump the other's bones. we had lots of harmless flirting along the way - mainly witty banter to entertain each other.

once we were friends, we were able to talk to each other openly about how we were feeling.

I'm trying to enter into a friendship currently, so far I guess it's going pretty well. I'm finding that tauruses like to stay well away from their phones? I've been messaging him quite frequently and I'll only occasionally get a quick response and seems like he's inactive for hours at a time.

Did you find this to be a problem for you? @jeane

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i've heard that about bulls. ummm, when we first started becoming friends, i think we spoke maybe every two weeks? then that became more frequent.

we were each initiating conversation and having fairly decent conversations. he would on occasion give me a quick response but i knew he was busy and it was no big deal.

how often are you messaging him?

i think if he is not contacting you or not reciprocating then you might be earlier in this friendship building stage than you wish to be.

Posted by jeane

Posted by Siexu

Posted by jeane
from my experience, it took some time. we became good friends first, before revealing that we each wanted to jump the other's bones. we had lots of harmless flirting along the way - mainly witty banter to entertain each other.

once we were friends, we were able to talk to each other openly about how we were feeling.

I'm trying to enter into a friendship currently, so far I guess it's going pretty well. I'm finding that tauruses like to stay well away from their phones? I've been messaging him quite frequently and I'll only occasionally get a quick response and seems like he's inactive for hours at a time.

Did you find this to be a problem for you? @jeane

i've heard that about bulls. ummm, when we first started becoming friends, i think we spoke maybe every two weeks? then that became more frequent.

we were each initiating conversation and having fairly decent conversations. he would on occasion give me a quick response but i knew he was busy and it was no big deal.

how often are you messaging him?

i think if he is not contacting you or not reciprocating then you might be earlier in this friendship building stage than you wish to be.

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I cant help but message him at least once a day, and yes this is a very new "friendship", I've known him perhaps only 2 months? Only recently have we hung out a few times on our own and that reignited my interest for him.

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Posted by jeane
from my experience, it took some time. we became good friends first, before revealing that we each wanted to jump the other's bones. we had lots of harmless flirting along the way - mainly witty banter to entertain each other.

once we were friends, we were able to talk to each other openly about how we were feeling.

I'm trying to enter into a friendship currently, so far I guess it's going pretty well. I'm finding that tauruses like to stay well away from their phones? I've been messaging him quite frequently and I'll only occasionally get a quick response and seems like he's inactive for hours at a time.

Did you find this to be a problem for you? @jeane

i've heard that about bulls. ummm, when we first started becoming friends, i think we spoke maybe every two weeks? then that became more frequent.

we were each initiating conversation and having fairly decent conversations. he would on occasion give me a quick response but i knew he was busy and it was no big deal.

how often are you messaging him?

i think if he is not contacting you or not reciprocating then you might be earlier in this friendship building stage than you wish to be.

I cant help but message him at least once a day, and yes this is a very new "friendship", I've known him perhaps only 2 months? Only recently have we hung out a few times on our own and that reignited my interest for him.

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at least once a day—? so sometimes more than once a day? that's too much. cool your jets.

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Posted by jeane

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Posted by jeane
from my experience, it took some time. we became good friends first, before revealing that we each wanted to jump the other's bones. we had lots of harmless flirting along the way - mainly witty banter to entertain each other.

once we were friends, we were able to talk to each other openly about how we were feeling.

I'm trying to enter into a friendship currently, so far I guess it's going pretty well. I'm finding that tauruses like to stay well away from their phones? I've been messaging him quite frequently and I'll only occasionally get a quick response and seems like he's inactive for hours at a time.

Did you find this to be a problem for you? @jeane

i've heard that about bulls. ummm, when we first started becoming friends, i think we spoke maybe every two weeks? then that became more frequent.

we were each initiating conversation and having fairly decent conversations. he would on occasion give me a quick response but i knew he was busy and it was no big deal.

how often are you messaging him?

i think if he is not contacting you or not reciprocating then you might be earlier in this friendship building stage than you wish to be.

I cant help but message him at least once a day, and yes this is a very new "friendship", I've known him perhaps only 2 months? Only recently have we hung out a few times on our own and that reignited my interest for him.

at least once a day—? so sometimes more than once a day? that's too much. cool your jets.

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Haha I try to restrain myself...

Posted by Siexu
Hi, I've been lurking around these forums and wanted to ask specifically how an aries (fem) should approach a taurus (male).

I understand the basics of a taurus, but would be more interested in your personal experiences in dealing with a taurus. Especially during the early stages of your relationship and how to flirt to get one interested.

As an aries of course I just make it as obvious as possible.

Thanks.

Girl, go and download this app: Bitmoji (you will create your own girl w/hair, eyebrows, lips, cheekbones, clothes, etc). I am conversing VERY slowly with a Taurus man. He's the one that gave me the name (he misspelled it, LOL!)...told me "create it". I did. Mine is so cute! It's me with jet black straight hair, red lipstick, eye shadow, short/tank top, flip flops, and I have a flower on my hair (took me LESS than 10 minutes and I sent him a Bitmoji of me telling him, "Thanks!"). He liked that!

We text good morning and good night...these are soooooooooo cute! Mine has pancakes, coffee, etc as good morning and good night has me floating on a cloud saying so (his shows him wearing pajamas...again, so cute!). Today, it was raining like cats and dogs! I texted him I made it work okay, and told him to be careful driving (Bitmoji is of me driving). He texted back and said he was glad I made it to work okay and said, "yes, Ma'am, I will be careful".

Well, I've been texting him for about three weeks now! I ALMOST gave up on him, but like you, I read up on Taureans. Yeah, we did talk on the phone ONCE, but now it's texting. He just sent me (I was busy working) a pic of him at work...I texted, "Man, oh, man!"; then left the office to find a nice Bitmoji (me, girl, with caption, "HOT!"). I sent it to him and HE responded with a regular emoji (smiling w/tongue sticking out).

Don't give up in texting him. Download the app..he will LOVE it!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by Siexu
Hi, I've been lurking around these forums and wanted to ask specifically how an aries (fem) should approach a taurus (male).

I understand the basics of a taurus, but would be more interested in your personal experiences in dealing with a taurus. Especially during the early stages of your relationship and how to flirt to get one interested.

As an aries of course I just make it as obvious as possible.

Thanks.

Girl, go and download this app: Bitmoji (you will create your own girl w/hair, eyebrows, lips, cheekbones, clothes, etc). I am conversing VERY slowly with a Taurus man. He's the one that gave me the name (he misspelled it, LOL!)...told me "create it". I did. Mine is so cute! It's me with jet black straight hair, red lipstick, eye shadow, short/tank top, flip flops, and I have a flower on my hair (took me LESS than 10 minutes and I sent him a Bitmoji of me telling him, "Thanks!"). He liked that!

We text good morning and good night...these are soooooooooo cute! Mine has pancakes, coffee, etc as good morning and good night has me floating on a cloud saying so (his shows him wearing pajamas...again, so cute!). Today, it was raining like cats and dogs! I texted him I made it work okay, and told him to be careful driving (Bitmoji is of me driving). He texted back and said he was glad I made it to work okay and said, "yes, Ma'am, I will be careful".

Well, I've been texting him for about three weeks now! I ALMOST gave up on him, but like you, I read up on Taureans. Yeah, we did talk on the phone ONCE, but now it's texting. He just sent me (I was busy working) a pic of him at work...I texted, "Man, oh, man!"; then left the office to find a nice Bitmoji (me, girl, with caption, "HOT!"). I sent it to him and HE responded with a regular emoji (smiling w/tongue sticking out).

Don't give up in texting him. Download the app..he will LOVE it!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Lol sounds like someones getting sponsored by snapchat, Im not into bitmojis sorry, but seems like youre having a blast.

Does an emoji of pickle rick work? (I mean he hasnt replied to it yet though)

Posted by Siexu

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by Siexu
Hi, I've been lurking around these forums and wanted to ask specifically how an aries (fem) should approach a taurus (male).

I understand the basics of a taurus, but would be more interested in your personal experiences in dealing with a taurus. Especially during the early stages of your relationship and how to flirt to get one interested.

As an aries of course I just make it as obvious as possible.

Thanks.

Girl, go and download this app: Bitmoji (you will create your own girl w/hair, eyebrows, lips, cheekbones, clothes, etc). I am conversing VERY slowly with a Taurus man. He's the one that gave me the name (he misspelled it, LOL!)...told me "create it". I did. Mine is so cute! It's me with jet black straight hair, red lipstick, eye shadow, short/tank top, flip flops, and I have a flower on my hair (took me LESS than 10 minutes and I sent him a Bitmoji of me telling him, "Thanks!"). He liked that!

We text good morning and good night...these are soooooooooo cute! Mine has pancakes, coffee, etc as good morning and good night has me floating on a cloud saying so (his shows him wearing pajamas...again, so cute!). Today, it was raining like cats and dogs! I texted him I made it work okay, and told him to be careful driving (Bitmoji is of me driving). He texted back and said he was glad I made it to work okay and said, "yes, Ma'am, I will be careful".

Well, I've been texting him for about three weeks now! I ALMOST gave up on him, but like you, I read up on Taureans. Yeah, we did talk on the phone ONCE, but now it's texting. He just sent me (I was busy working) a pic of him at work...I texted, "Man, oh, man!"; then left the office to find a nice Bitmoji (me, girl, with caption, "HOT!"). I sent it to him and HE responded with a regular emoji (smiling w/tongue sticking out).

Don't give up in texting him. Download the app..he will LOVE it!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Lol sounds like someones getting sponsored by snapchat, Im not into bitmojis sorry, but seems like youre having a blast.

Does an emoji of pickle rick work? (I mean he hasnt replied to it yet though)

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Don't know if the pickle Rick will work....betcha since you DON'T like Bitmojis; it would work on him, it did for me! I'm Piscean. I text Taurus and LESS than a minute he responds! Why? We both have T-mobile and I don't CARE if you think I'm advertising, the computer voice comes in as, "Text message from Eva" (vice versa, it says, "Text message from John")....LOL! All the office staff hears this and I don't give a damn!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I am at LEAST three weeks ahead of you (WITH my Bitmoji that you DON'T like). 😉

Posted by Siexu
Hi, I've been lurking around these forums and wanted to ask specifically how an aries (fem) should approach a taurus (male).

I understand the basics of a taurus, but would be more interested in your personal experiences in dealing with a taurus. Especially during the early stages of your relationship and how to flirt to get one interested.

As an aries of course I just make it as obvious as possible.

Thanks.

Have history with Aries so I'll try to help. Ironically in my situation, it was me who moved fast and the Aries who moved slowly. With the other Aries however, she was very blunt with me from the beginning and I thoroughly appreciated that from her.

Firstly, just befriend them and be around them. If they have any interest, we'll be the ones to reach out. That can take sometime depending on how much we like you. You can sorta gauge how much a Taurus is into you by how quickly they respond to your text or messages. If it takes a couple of days, he really isn't that into you. If it's instant, he's interested. If it's within the day, he's curious and may be testing you.

Don't be too pushy on them or forceful. Just let them know you're interested without saying it blatantly like, "hey so I like you." Rather, imply it to them. Flirt, compliment them, or ask them what their situation is. Don't give it away too obviously. Just plant the seed first.

Aries can have a tendency to move quickly, y'all are quite impulsive (not in a bad way, but it can be intimidating at first) so try to slow your pace down a bit. Good luck!

Pump your brakes. You're doing too much. Get some chill about yourself.

I think he might already know you like him.

Posted by earlorg16

Posted by Siexu
Hi, I've been lurking around these forums and wanted to ask specifically how an aries (fem) should approach a taurus (male).

I understand the basics of a taurus, but would be more interested in your personal experiences in dealing with a taurus. Especially during the early stages of your relationship and how to flirt to get one interested.

As an aries of course I just make it as obvious as possible.

Thanks.

Have history with Aries so I'll try to help. Ironically in my situation, it was me who moved fast and the Aries who moved slowly. With the other Aries however, she was very blunt with me from the beginning and I thoroughly appreciated that from her.

Firstly, just befriend them and be around them. If they have any interest, we'll be the ones to reach out. That can take sometime depending on how much we like you. You can sorta gauge how much a Taurus is into you by how quickly they respond to your text or messages. If it takes a couple of days, he really isn't that into you. If it's instant, he's interested. If it's within the day, he's curious and may be testing you.

Don't be too pushy on them or forceful. Just let them know you're interested without saying it blatantly like, "hey so I like you." Rather, imply it to them. Flirt, compliment them, or ask them what their situation is. Don't give it away too obviously. Just plant the seed first.

Aries can have a tendency to move quickly, y'all are quite impulsive (not in a bad way, but it can be intimidating at first) so try to slow your pace down a bit. Good luck!

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Thanks for the insight, I've been trying to hold back for the past month until we could get to know eachother better. From the last time I saw him, I can at least say hes curious. I was actually pleasantly surprised when he came to see me. Ill be optimistic and hope his silence today was just due to him trying to rush his essay.

Posted by Aries_Luminary
Pump your brakes. You're doing too much. Get some chill about yourself.

I think he might already know you like him.

I mean, I hope he got the hint.

Posted by Siexu

Posted by earlorg16

Posted by Siexu
Hi, I've been lurking around these forums and wanted to ask specifically how an aries (fem) should approach a taurus (male).

I understand the basics of a taurus, but would be more interested in your personal experiences in dealing with a taurus. Especially during the early stages of your relationship and how to flirt to get one interested.

As an aries of course I just make it as obvious as possible.

Thanks.

Have history with Aries so I'll try to help. Ironically in my situation, it was me who moved fast and the Aries who moved slowly. With the other Aries however, she was very blunt with me from the beginning and I thoroughly appreciated that from her.

Firstly, just befriend them and be around them. If they have any interest, we'll be the ones to reach out. That can take sometime depending on how much we like you. You can sorta gauge how much a Taurus is into you by how quickly they respond to your text or messages. If it takes a couple of days, he really isn't that into you. If it's instant, he's interested. If it's within the day, he's curious and may be testing you.

Don't be too pushy on them or forceful. Just let them know you're interested without saying it blatantly like, "hey so I like you." Rather, imply it to them. Flirt, compliment them, or ask them what their situation is. Don't give it away too obviously. Just plant the seed first.

Aries can have a tendency to move quickly, y'all are quite impulsive (not in a bad way, but it can be intimidating at first) so try to slow your pace down a bit. Good luck!

Thanks for the insight, I've been trying to hold back for the past month until we could get to know eachother better. From the last time I saw him, I can at least say hes curious. I was actually pleasantly surprised when he came to see me. Ill be optimistic and hope his silence today was just due to him trying to rush his essay.

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He's probably busy getting his work done. We like independent women so try not to overthink it too much. Give it a day or two and if you still don't hear back, reach out.

I'm at the best point I've ever been with my Taurus we didn't go friends first straight into romantic attraction

The texting is most days but not every day and it's random who contacts who - it's not a huge conversation but just one or two paragraphs of words and it is just as good there are a lot of declarations of feelings from him. before it was a bit picturey if that makes sense like a lazy way to do it and now it feels really something sincere in words going on for 9 months but only last 3 have been "knowing how he feels without a doubt" he is really busy and I'm busy a lot also so I like not texting for the sake of if it all day and it has built the romance better so it's more exciting and built up every time we see each other.

Small chat chat is for in person and the odd phone conversation here and there and it's way better like that to be honest. I think it would kill it a bit if we both had the Taurus routine at this stage

Another taurus I had though was friends and romance and we texted all day every day and he called pretty much every day and for hours sometimes - the friendship bit felt great but the rip your clothes off didn't exist as he felt like my best friend which is good also but it wasn't omg stuff

I'm loving no 1 scenario best and to build further friendship on that and I think because I'm busier also it is better you need to be busy with a Taurus I think actually so you don't notice it much with the texting. They like to ask what you have done or doing and you have a good answer and maybe get a bit jealous !