I can't believe this......

I like this bull!

Shes Beautiful!

she so slow to open up though.....

any advice lady's?

I am Aries and this is so hard haha

I want to push so badly,but she wants to take it slow

Its tearing me apart haha

Unfortunately, there is nothing you could do about this except train yourself with patience. It is very hard to do, but if you really like her it will be worth it. 🙂

Posted by nxomd
Unfortunately, there is nothing you could do about this except train yourself with patience. It is very hard to do, but if you really like her it will be worth it. 🙂

haha thanks, I do really like her!

Unfortunately patience is not my strength

I want to jump into things with her

I feel myself giving 110% but to a slow progression... its not something I'm use too

so it makes me question if she likes me or not and what I need to do

Has she admitted she likes you? It will help if you give a little more info on the situation, and I will let you know if its worth waiting for it.

she did say she liked me,but wants to take things slow with us

not to rush into bf/gf

About a month.... Im been talking to her.

she been distance last 2 days

I understand that she has college classes and so do I but I'm the kind that jumps into things pretty quickly.


I've been trying to get her to open up and connect better, like I want things to move haha

If she has admitted that she likes you, it will be worth the wait. If you find it hard with the whole patience thing, then I suggest you try moving on...because it will take a while. However, I would encourage you to keep up what you are doing, since you say you really like her. But once you start the push it will eventually drive her away, especially since she has told you personally, that she would like to take it slow. So it is your choice to either stay in it or not. I'd say go for the stay, even if it drives you mad because you learn a lot from it. 🙂

Posted by nxomd
If she has admitted that she likes you, it will be worth the wait. If you find it hard with the whole patience thing, then I suggest you try moving on...because it will take a while. However, I would encourage you to keep up what you are doing, since you say you really like her. But once you start the push it will eventually drive her away, especially since she has told you personally, that she would like to take it slow. So it is your choice to either stay in it or not. I'd say go for the stay, even if it drives you mad because you learn a lot from it. 🙂

I SEE haha 🙂 how long must I torture myself? before shes ready and what must I do to show her I'm hers

It depends on her. Have you guys been on any dates yet?

Cause going the Aries(me way) probably wont work..... cause I want to go fast

I want to know cause she seems worth it 🙂

I'm willing to learn

Posted by nxomd
It depends on her. Have you guys been on any dates yet?

yes we have, 2 dates so far....

plus like hanging out twice a week

I want to push for more, but I know shes busy with school....So I'm playing it cool. I asked what she wanted to do since I picked the first 2 dates

Well, they definitely are worth it...but it is up to you if you can keep up with it, no matter how crazy it drives you.

Start pushing a little after you guys go more than four dates.

sounds good! thanks 🙂

I just don't want to mess things up with she girl.

this*

Ahh.... Just slow your roll Soap. 😉

You can do it! Best of luck to you 🙂

Posted by TaurGuy


Ahh.... Just slow your roll Soap. 😉

hahaha you know my twin brother 😉 whats up man?

yes one of your kind got me hooked!

Posted by nxomd
You can do it! Best of luck to you 🙂

thanks 🙂

Posted by nxomd
Also, this is coming from a person with aries in my venus. That makes it MORE intense for me to go fast and just keep pushing, and it drives me insane that I have to wait. I am actually in a situation like yours now, and sometimes the wait just makes me want to explode. but it is worth it in the end. So I understand how you feel.

She also is aries in venus haha

GOD I know!

Is it possible to post her chart on here if you don't mind? and also yours?

Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Taurus 23.01
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Taurus 20.13
Venus Aries 11.08
Mars Leo 7.49
Jupiter Libra 5.15 R
Saturn Aquarius 29.43
Uranus Capricorn 22.04 R
Neptune Capricorn 21.03 R
Pluto Scorpio 24.11 R
Lilith Pisces 23.21


hers

WOW I know a person with the same exact chart as hers...how crazy!!!

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Aries 20.46 Ascendant Scorpio 10.22
Moon Pisces 4.38 II Sagittarius 9.30
Mercury Aries 26.55 R III Capricorn 13.43
Venus Taurus 27.50 IV Aquarius 20.16
Mars Cancer 4.21 V Pisces 22.59
Jupiter Leo 3.45 VI Aries 19.21
Saturn Aquarius 5.48 VII Taurus 10.22
Uranus Capricorn 13.47 VIII Gemini 9.30
Neptune Capricorn 16.45 IX Cancer 13.43
Pluto Scorpio 19.46 R Midheaven Leo 20.16
Lilith Sagittarius 28.16 XI Virgo 22.59
Asc node Capricorn 24.05 XII Libra 19.21


me

Okay, since this girl admitted to you she likes you, she is into you. The person I know with this same exact chart would not admit to a person she likes them unless she really does. So if she wants to take it slow it means that she is trying to balance things out at the moment, such as her school as you've mentioned. If you go on more dates with her, it will help build trust and she will eventually start letting you in. It will be a little slow at first, like now, but once she lets you in you will love it.

Posted by MilkySoft
I'll just speak for myself because sometimes I think I'm weird and difficult when it comes to dating, but I think I'm a pretty typical Taurus in many other ways so maybe this will help...

But sometimes you fast types make me nervous. I think, he's moving so quickly, will he burn out just as fast? Does he take me seriously? SURELY I MUST BUILD A STRONG FOUNDATION FIRST BEFORE PROCEEDING FURTHER (BECAUSE THIS IS HOW WE THINK).

I also need to be pushed a bit. You'll need patience and confidence because at times I will do very little to encourage you, mostly just at the beginning. Perhaps it is ingrained in the Taurus psyche that one must WORK for what is valued and desired, because a lot of it is waiting to see how much you will work for me.

If she says she likes you...that's pretty huge. You really just have to be consistent, patient, and keep pursuing. She's just waiting to see if you mean what you say. We like proof.

Have any other questions?

NO that sounds about right 🙂

Posted by nxomd
Okay, since this girl admitted to you she likes you, she is into you. The person I know with this same exact chart would not admit to a person she likes them unless she really does. So if she wants to take it slow it means that she is trying to balance things out at the moment, such as her school as you've mentioned. If you go on more dates with her, it will help build trust and she will eventually start letting you in. It will be a little slow at first, like now, but once she lets you in you will love it.

I see

slow now but better with time

I just need to keep cool

Posted by MilkySoft
Wow Leo Mars and Aries Venus and she's still slow? *makes notes*

I know right? its weird

Posted by MilkySoft
Wow Leo Mars and Aries Venus and she's still slow? *makes notes*

Yeah, the person I know with that placement is pretty impulsive, but she is only slow if when trying to balance other things out first...like her job for example. So in this case for Kyle's girl, it might be her school.

Yes, keep cool and it will be okay. 🙂 You're on a nice track.

Posted by nxomd

Posted by MilkySoft
Wow Leo Mars and Aries Venus and she's still slow? *makes notes*

Yeah, the person I know with that placement is pretty impulsive, but she is only slow if when trying to balance other things out first...like her job for example. So in this case for Kyle's girl, it might be her school.

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your probably right, she's but so busy with school and midterm test.... that she has disappeared this week. I know she needs her time and space

ArianKyle--

I am a Taurus with a Venus in Aries, and I still prefer to take things slow. However, with the Aries/Venus placement, I'm still flirtatious, playful, and affectionate with the object of my affection.

Does she exude those qualities with you?

Posted by MilkySoft


But sometimes you fast types make me nervous. I think, he's moving so quickly, will he burn out just as fast? Does he take me seriously? SURELY I MUST BUILD A STRONG FOUNDATION FIRST BEFORE PROCEEDING FURTHER (BECAUSE THIS IS HOW WE THINK).

I also need to be pushed a bit. You'll need patience and confidence because at times I will do very little to encourage you, mostly just at the beginning. Perhaps it is ingrained in the Taurus psyche that one must WORK for what is valued and desired, because a lot of it is waiting to see how much you will work for me.

+1000

@ArianKyle-
Enjoy the chase....the rewards will be worth it. Bullettes are great women. 🙂

Down boy! If you care for her you really do need to ease up - get busy with other things, do whatever you need to do to give her space and time. Nothing turns me off more than a guy that comes on too strong. I will shy away and go the other direction real quick. Also, we Taurus girls can get pretty wrapped up in our lives when we have something that needs tending to (school, finances, etc) so don't take offense. Just tread lightly but be there for support....show her you are dedicated and not out to play games. This could take a while though...and I have to agree with nx...she will be worth it.