I want to catch a taurus male..Help!

Hi Im a Libra female and have my eye on this Taurus man. Im wondering what makes the males tick and what makes them interested in a certain woman. I usually could figure this out for myself, but this man is very different. Have no idea where he is coming from. One minute hes hot...the next cool. What up with that? Any comments would be greatly appreiciated.

He will guard his heart until he knows he can trust you.

Hi, Thanks for the info, but how do i let him know he can trust me? And what type of traits do Taurus men like in their women? More importantly, What do they NOT like? I am in unfamiliar territory here, I've never dated a Taurus man but have been extremely close to Taurus women, we get along very well. Thanks for the advice, Is there any Taurus men out there that can help a girl out? 🙂

sunshine101562

I'm a Male Taurus, 35, I'm somewhat...wise...I think =).

I'm speaking for myself here, but if your Taurus is anything like me (and I'm a Taurus to the T) he would like:

1) Obvious flirting with him (bat your eyelashes alot, smile sexily to him, laugh at his jokes and sarcasm)

2) Physical contact...VERY important...touch him, tickle him, stay very near him when you walk beside eachother, whatever...as long as theres something tactile, there HAS to be something tactile.

3) Dress nice...demure and sexy, we like a woman with some fashion sense and someone who's not afraid to be a 'little' revealing in public, definately not slutty though...that's a total turnoff (wear a lowcut top, show some cleavage, nice skirt and heels). In the bedrooom however we like some really sexy stuff =), get on the stay up's / stockings / garter / and watch him devour you.

4) We like to be led around (you know...pulled around by our nose rings...think of a bull with a nose ring...tug it a little)...he will come up with idea's of things to do, but we like being led most of the time...know what I mean?

5) Be kind and appreciative when he does something nice for you...VERY important.

A Tip for dealing with Men:
Give him space if he seems a little distant, he's working on fixing a problem in his mind and needs a little time to sort things out. He will be back in your arms in full force once he's sorted everything out. This is true for most men. Give him some space if he seems bothered, you can ask if everything is ok...THAT'S IT. If he says yes then he wants to talk about it, if he says "no", leave it at that and know that he will be back to himself soon.

I could go on and on but I will let you take it from there. I wish you all the best and always remember that you will have a devoted, steadfast completely loyal partner if you two get together.

What not to do to your Taurus:
DO NOT be a flirt in front of him or cheat on him...ever...the trust he has in you will be destroyed and you can never win it back, if he's a "Taurus" Taurus like me then that's about the only thing you could do to really push him away...permanently.

All the best to you,
Spanish_Taurus

Oooh great tips!! I'm trying to win back my Taurus, so I'll keep trying with that.
If anyone else has tips, that would be great too!

ageofaqua xx.

Spanish Taurus,

Thanks so much, great info! It sounds quite a bit like him. Now i have a even more delicate problem to run by you. My Taurus and I have been friends for about 4yrs. We would hang out together as friends and I had no idea he was interested in me. I was married at the time. Now Im single, he was single when I decided to date him and then his old g/f came back in the picture. He says he doesnt want to hurt her feelings and she wants to fight all the time. I've told him that I will not be with him sexually if she is in the picture. The bad news is, that I did sleep with him one time in the beginning. It is not my style and he completely understands this, so we are back to being good friends but due to circumstances I am around him often and we are getting very close as friends. I can feel how he feels about me and for him to have a crush for 4yrs, Im just not sure what he is thinking. I go to his house, know his kids, and see all of our friends...he doesnt seem to worried about what people will think. And he doesnt seem to see her that often. So give me your thoughts please...🙂

Sunshine101562,

Hi, I feel for you with this. Have a look at my thread "brokenhearted aqua girl, by taurus guy...what to do?" There are some great answers to my similar problem.

I have been in love with my taurus guy for nearly 2 years, and as I used to work with him, we were around each other a lot. We slept together early on (like you, this is not my style ), but the problem is "the girlfiend". The advice I've been given is that, Taurus find it very hard letting the past go, and will hold onto it, even if the relationship is pretty much over.

I would say (others may disagree), that you should put your cards on the table. Tell this guy how you feel, although don't be pushy and give him ultimatums.... they don't like to be pushed! Let him know how good the two of you could have it. If he has the partner and not you, then the ball is really in his court with this. You are right not to want to be with him while he is attatched (they are hard to resist though 😉!)

If there are kids in the picture, this could be your main problem. He may want to be with you, but at the same time, could be keeping hold of his family, and staying in "the comfort zone".
They can be very stubborn, but I feel (with my situation too), that if it is meant to be, he will see this, and eventually come to you. If it is not, then (as hard as it may be), move on. Don't put your life on hold.

Although I agree with Spanish Taurus, if you are not together yet, then maybe try showing him that you are moving on. Do a little flirting with other guys (while letting him know you would never do it if you were together). I did this, just once, and he got very jealous....it's worth a try!

Good luck!

ageofaqua x.

Sunshine,

First let me correct something I wrote...

A tip for dealing with men:
"Give him some space if he seems bothered, you can ask if everything is ok...THAT'S IT. If he says yes then he DOESN'T want to talk about it, leave it at that and know that he will be back to himself soon. If he says "no" then he wants to talk about it and is ready for you to listen and offer your advice / input."

...ok that's better =), I was in a bit of a rush writing that yesterday, read it over and what I had in the original post was backwards.

As for your question...I think it's something that you should "go with the flow" on and trust your gut feeling(s). I definately agree with what ageofaqua posted. Be honest and upfront with him (and to you for that matter), if it's meant to be it will happen naturally. Don't forget that Taurus' are extremely patient...and I hate to say it, but slow movers...(in most cases anyway), so if you don't get an immediate response don't sweat over it. If he's like me he needs a little time to digest everything.

Let him know how you feel (all your cards on the table as ageofaqua stated), then back away and do some stuff for yourself, don't contact him...let HIM get back to you. If you talk with him and the subject doesn't come up do not raise it or seem pushy...ok?

I don't feel very comfortable lending advice on this, I hope I'm not being to direct or interfering...just my opinion from a non-biased guys point of view.

All the best sunshine
(and hello ageofaqua =))

Spanish_Taurus

Hi Spansh_Taurus... don't worry, your advice is really good 😉

Quick question then to any taureans on here that would like to answer, my Taurus guy has told me he doesn't want to be with his girlfriend, and that he wants to be with me. However, he is staying with her due to "ties". I've taken my own advice quite well, told him how I feel, and am now leaving him to it.

You say that taureans are "slow movers", but in your opinion, do they... not to put too finer point on it.... come to their senses eventually? Or are they the type to stick in a relationship they don't want to be in possibly forever?

I know everyone is different, and I'm not expecting anyone to tell me what he wants out of his life...hee hee, it's just that he seems to be doing a lot to make this woman happy, a very un-selfish thing to do, is that what taurus can be like?

I would just like him to do what would make HIM happy, rather than him trying to please everyone else.... including me if it came to it!

As a taurus, would you eventually think "forget this, what about me"...or not?

...sorry to highjack your thread sunshine!

ageofaqua xx.