First of all he cant be trusted and thats Very imortant in a relationship.I strongly think u should stop talking to him all togetther or just be friends if you can handle it.He has a WIFE-that hes most likely not going to get rid of if hasnt done so yet, hes NOT forcing her out the house so obviously he still wants her to stay. And man.. he lied to u in front of ur face.thats HORRIBLE. those r things u shouldnt lie about."but he sees me less now and jus the other day he told me to not call him he would call me"-Does his wife knoe he cheated w/you?if not thats the reason y he doesnt want u calling the house.I know you said hes like ur bestfriend.BUT Best friends dont lie & intentionally hurt you.I dont knoe if he used you.Do u feel Used???He did play w/ur mind by telling u hes single wen hes not.Baby Gurl you havent done or said anything wrong youve just falling for the wrong M@n.Dont blame it on urself, balme it on him. I suggest u try 2 move on w/ur life .Meet somebody else thats not married

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