Ignored by a Taurus Man

I would really appreciate some advice on this as I am EXTREMELY confused and kinda upset/sad right now.

Okay, I met this guy a few years ago online. We kept in touch over the years but we never met in person. Well, last month on a whim, I decided to text him and asked him if he wanted to meet and he agreed. We met up and I felt an instant connection to him. Like no weirdness, no awkwardness, just completely comfortable like we had really actually known each other for years. We made out, smoked hookah and drank wine and everything was good.

We hung out two more times after that and we were texting pretty much all throughout the day everyday for a good two weeks. During that time, he would even call me and talk to me for a good amount of time. He told me on one of our last phone conversations that he liked the way things were going. We both agreed that we were on the same page as far as not rushing into a relationship and that we??d like to build our friendship, hang out and see where things would go. We talked about potential dates and another time when we were talking I mentioned my parents and he said he??d like to come hang out with them. (My dad??s kinda cool like that)

So, one day he asks me out after work. I agreed and we spent most of the day texting and he expressed that he was excited to see me. He had told me earlier on in one of our past conversations that his dad was sick in the hospital. So, as I'm getting ready to go out that night, he calls and tells me that his mom was on the way to the hospital. I ask him if he's sure that he still wants to go out and he says yes.

So I get to his house and he tells me that things are actually more serious and that he has to go to the hospital. I'm fine with that. But days later, as I reach out to see how things are going I get no response. Now a week later, all of my texts and calls have gone completely unanswered. I don't know if anything happened to his father or not but I think it's weird that he would just completely vanish with nothing to say and that he can't even respond to a simple text where I'm showing concern for him and his dad.

What is going on?? I'm really sad because I miss him and I was really enjoying spending time with him. I feel so uncertain and confused going over things in my mind wondering if it was something I did or said that made him lose interest so quickly. It's really hurting me wondering and not knowing if he??ll come back because I??ve

P.S. I haven't heard from him since late last Saturday night. Not this past Saturday but the week before. The last thing that he said was "there's just a lot going on but I promise I'm okay." I told him I was there if he needed me and he said okay and I haven't heard from him since.

Family comes first. He's probably just dealing with a lot. Im sure hes seen your texts but doesnt feel like responding or explaining right now. Maybe send a text about other things and not asking how hes doing. Say something that will make him smile or laugh. Or some inside joke only you teo would understsnd. I personally don't like to talk about my problems as I'm going through them. It's draining and I don't really need other people's pity, help, or advice.

He will come back around when he feels emotionally stable and grounded again. You've reached out, showed concern. That's all you can do.

I would be confused and hurt too. Be patient, though. He does have a reason. Maybe when he sees your text, it's just not good timing and he intends on getting in touch later, then something else comes up or he's so distracted, he forgets.

Doesn't sound like it's anything personal. But yeah, I would be feeling the same way.

Could be that although he is enjoying gettting to know you, he doesn't see you as his girlfriend (yet, anyway), so he doesn't feel obligated to keep you updated on what's going on. That's not to say anything negative, but just to say his other friends probably aren't being kept informed either.
I don't mean that in a hurtful way.

Just go about your business and see if he comes back around when things calm down. When he does, I wouldn't fuss at him about it.

I agree with sending something cute, funny or light hearted. He might need some cheering up.

I am experiencing almost the same thing here. Suddenly no responses. How did things turn out for you?

Hey ArtsyTaurusChick!

Taurus puts family ahead of everything. So don't worry, his mind is probably occupied by his father's condition. He texted you saying that he has a lot on his mind but he is okay, right? That's his way of letting you know that he has other things to focus on at the moment but he hasn't forgotten about you and will come around when everything is okay. I understand how you feel, and it's pretty natural to feel that way.

There is one piece of advice that I can give you and that is not to be angry or sound angry when he does return your texts or calls. That would piss him off and hurt his feelings which would eventually make things bad between the two of you.

Hope this helps 🙂

I focus on too many things and I also get lost in translation.. I am very independent and hard worker and will spend my time working hard rather than talk to my loved ones. But I always find time to talk one way or another..

I already have enough stress with everything I deal with by myself. So just be patient and understanding and when I want to see you I will. Taurus people never forget.. we like light hearted people cause we are too busy with life..we take everything seriously.. and need someone to help support that and that's being funny, nice, and light hearted..

Oh does he have Gemini in his chart? Please say no lol.

Ok family first right. My bad.