is he worth my time?

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Supnugga
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Hey guys I am a Virgo female confused by Taurus male.
We met when I was 15 and he was 17. I was a wild teenager so I walked by the skatepark spotted him, told him he was hot and asked him for his number. We went on a date a week later. Again I was wild at that age and he was still a good boy so we didn't hit it off and didn't see each other again except for at a few mutual social gatherings.
4 years later we start randomly talking again through Facebook. I am a good girl now and he said he was attracted to that so he asked me out on a date.
went on a date and it was actually a pretty good one. I liked what he had to say and he asked me questions. At the end of the date he smiled and said he had a really great time.
So we hang out a few more times over the next couple of months.
I straight up asked him if he was interested in me romantically because we weren't hanging out all that much and he said he just works a lot (56 hours a week) and wants to take things slow.
So I took his word.
He started doing this ignoring me thing and I was just wasn't into it so I said hey I'm trying here do you want to this or not. He said yes and we made plans to get coffee.
Date night comes around and he stands me up. I waited about 40 minutes and then just said I was done. I kinda flipped out.. Anyway I quit talking to him completely.
But then he posted this thing on Facebook saying how he's so used to being alone that he pushes people away when they become a constant. So I decided to give it another shot.
I showed up at his work and brought a peace offering (coffee) we talked about what happened and he explained why he stood me up and that he was embarrassed and didn't know what to say.
So we decided to give it another shot.
The next day goes on and we text that morning and I'm thinking things are good and might turn into something but then I check Facebook and it says he just got into a relationship.
I'm sure you can guess what I was thinking.
So I called him and asked and he was all "yeah I'm interested in someone blah blah"
So I just kindly said that I had to go and never called him after that. Apparently the relation lasted like 2 weeks.
A few months pass and my car breaks down. He's the only mechanic I know personally and I was stuck out in camping area so I called him for advice. He helps me get a towing thing and says to call him if anything else. He also said it was funny I called cause he thought he saw me earlier that day.
I got my car towed to my house but it's still broken down so i asked if he would fix it for a cheaper price. He said yes and was smiley about it. So he comes over and looks at my car. He asks me how I've been and tells me how he's doing. we have a good time talking and he fixes my car. Then I ask him how much he wants and then he tells me, how about you just need buy me dinner. He says I know you're mad at me but we could still be friends hang out and I can help you with stuff like this."
WHAT DOES HE
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Season
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If you're already asking if he's worth your time he isn't. Taureans are not perfect. He may be circumspect and not wanting to be nailed down too fast. Taureans will remain aloof sometimes, especially first decan Taureans. I read this and it is true because I'm one myself. So maybe this guy is too. But I think he likes you. He fixed your car and wants to be around in your life. To share experiences with you. And dinner which is a favorite Taurean date. It's your call. But, I'd give this lovely guy a chance.
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Posted by Supnugga
No he didn't I just stalked his Facebook and know the relationship didn't last. I don't know I guess I'm just not sure if he's serious or even into me at all or he wants to be friends. Or if this is just the way taureses are “
You just stalked his FB. Lol


And he got with someone else but you didn't bother to ask if was seeing or dating anyone that's like the first question you ask since you haven't seen him in awhile.
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Posted by Supnugga
Date night comes around and he stands me up. I waited about 40 minutes and then just said I was done. I kinda flipped out.. Anyway I quit talking to him completely.

Posted by Supnugga
But then he posted this thing on Facebook saying how he's so used to being alone that he pushes people away when they become a constant.
Posted by Supnugga
The next day goes on and we text that morning and I'm thinking things are good and might turn into something but then I check Facebook and it says he just got into a relationship.
I'm sure you can guess what I was thinking.
Posted by Supnugga
So I just kindly said that I had to go and never called him after that. Apparently the relation lasted like 2 weeks.

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Here it is.
He's NOT interested.
There was something about the courting process in the first few months that turned him off.
Because he's a natural introvert who probably internalizes everything, you may never know what caused it.
He's trying to let you down in subtle ways without looking like the 'bad' guy.

1. His FB post about pushing people away who are in constant pursuit = YOU!
2. He stood you up...and yet provided you with no real valid excuse.
3. He created a fake relationship status to keep you away, hoping you would get the hint.
4. He put an end to the facade and changed his relaionship status back to "Single", and then you reached out, still not geting the hint.

Look, save yourself some respect, dignity, and integrity, and just find another mechanic.
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Supnugga
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Posted by Supnugga
No he didn't I just stalked his Facebook and know the relationship didn't last. I don't know I guess I'm just not sure if he's serious or even into me at all or he wants to be friends. Or if this is just the way taureses are “
You just stalked his FB. Lol


And he got with someone else but you didn't bother to ask if was seeing or dating anyone that's like the first question you ask since you haven't seen him in awhile.
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lol that wasn't really on my mind I was just glad he was willing to fix my car and I wouldn't have to pay hundreds of dollars
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by Supnugga
No he didn't I just stalked his Facebook and know the relationship didn't last. I don't know I guess I'm just not sure if he's serious or even into me at all or he wants to be friends. Or if this is just the way taureses are “
You just stalked his FB. Lol


And he got with someone else but you didn't bother to ask if was seeing or dating anyone that's like the first question you ask since you haven't seen him in awhile.
lol that wasn't really on my mind I was just glad he was willing to fix my car and I wouldn't have to pay hundreds of dollars
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Yup. He fixed your car. You got some use out of him. As others have said, move on, he's not interested, next!!

Don't worry, we've all been there wasting our time with someone, it happens!

There's billions of people on this planet, you'll find another one!