Why wont this taurus man have sex with me?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by anashin on Friday, June 3, 2016 and has 17 replies.

Reasons a Taurus Man May Not Have Sex

A Taurus man may avoid sex due to emotional boundaries, a desire for serious commitment, or feeling uncertain about the situation. He values stability and may withhold intimacy if he is unsure about the relationship's future or feels that acting impulsively conflicts with his values.

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@anashin
10 Years

Long story short, we are no longer dating but Im still physically attracted to him. Our last sex was on April and it was intense. After that i've told him that im still interested for another action but he kept refusing.

He tells me he still finds me attractive and sexy but im confused why wont he have sex. I know he prefers to be in a serious relationship but he is not involved with anyone now and so am I. I think theres no harm if we have sex.

Altho he did told me that its not a good idea because my feelings might get confused again which i told him i wont be confused.

Will i look desperate if I ask him again for sex? Tbh, its just the one thing i want from him now and since he is not giving it to me, i dont feel satisfied.

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@saweetz1988
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Coming from a Taurus girl like myself. it's all or nothing. Venus in Gemini allows me to have fwb but it would be different if I was dating someone seriously then decide to end the relationship. I will detach from everything including sex. I don't want to lead anyone on... so that's coming from a Taurus girl like me.

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@anashin
10 Years

Posted by saweetz1988
Coming from a Taurus girl like myself. it's all or nothing. Venus in Gemini allows me to have fwb but it would be different if I was dating someone seriously then decide to end the relationship. I will detach from everything including sex. I don't want to lead anyone on... so that's coming from a Taurus girl like me.

After we ended our relationship, we still met a few times with sex. Its true i got pushy and clingy so that must be the reason why he got turned off. I dated someone else after him and he knows about it. He actually kept asking about him.

Its been months since we stopped dating but we still chat. One time, we were talking from 00:00-4:00am. I know i still have lingering feelings and im sure he can feel that thats why he is hesitan to meet me.

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@anashin
10 Years

Posted by tiziani
You may or may not look needy but I don't think it matters how you look. Just take no for an answer.

I know. Im a sagittarius and its in my personality to get what i want. I just dont easily give up …

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@anashin
10 Years

Posted by OceanBoy88
Ahhh reminds me of my Taurus friend. Hes like a brother of mines and wow he does this alot. Girls just want to bang him but he declines. For him, once he says no, he means no. The triggers are; she's too easy, she's too needy, she's to boring, she's too crazy, she's too out there, she's too quiet, she's to unresponsive, she's talks too much, and etc. Hes pretty dam picky. He wants the one. Guy only slept with 2 or 3 girls but he easily could've had 19 or 20. Hell, more.

True. no means no but im still hoping to win this battle. If i get to say him yes, its a huge win and satisfaction for me.

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by saweetz1988
Coming from a Taurus girl like myself. it's all or nothing. Venus in Gemini allows me to have fwb but it would be different if I was dating someone seriously then decide to end the relationship. I will detach from everything including sex. I don't want to lead anyone on... so that's coming from a Taurus girl like me.

Damn I been through that I don't like to settle for less and I don't care if your compatible with me in other areas. If I can't trust you I will detach and don't have to worry about leading anyone on.

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by anashin
Altho he did told me that its not a good idea because my feelings might get confused again which i told him i wont be confused.

The answer was in your introduction to your history with this Bull.

The Bull wants it ALL, in an orthodox way. He will tailor to the conventional methods of holding out for the right woman without any messy or silly misunderstandings from exes.
Bulls detest drama.

I hope this answers your question.

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by anashin

Posted by tiziani
You may or may not look needy but I don't think it matters how you look. Just take no for an answer.

I know. Im a sagittarius and its in my personality to get what i want. I just dont easily give up …

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It's not in your personality to get what you want...it's in your ego to go after what you can't have.
Although you're extremely confident, however, according to the Bull who clearly isn't impressed....he finds you highly under-qualified.

Move on.

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@Season
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by OceanBoy88
Ahhh reminds me of my Taurus friend. Hes like a brother of mines and wow he does this alot. Girls just want to bang him but he declines. For him, once he says no, he means no. The triggers are; she's too easy, she's too needy, she's to boring, she's too crazy, she's too out there, she's too quiet, she's to unresponsive, she's talks too much, and etc. Hes pretty dam picky. He wants the one. Guy only slept with 2 or 3 girls but he easily could've had 19 or 20. Hell, more.

Here's you answer. And, yes, you would appear desperate and easy and Taurean men HATE that in a woman.

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@enfant_terrible
17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by tiziani

Posted by OceanBoy88
Ahhh reminds me of my Taurus friend. Hes like a brother of mines and wow he does this alot. Girls just want to bang him but he declines. For him, once he says no, he means no. The triggers are; she's too easy, she's too needy, she's to boring, she's too crazy, she's too out there, she's too quiet, she's to unresponsive, she's talks too much, and etc. Hes pretty dam picky. He wants the one. Guy only slept with 2 or 3 girls but he easily could've had 19 or 20. Hell, more.

Mostly this could be under the main reason: he just doesn't want to lol

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Sounds like he needs his testosterone levels checked. Guys just don't "don't want to" ,lol

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@BadGrlCapi
10 Years

You're creepy and sound extremely desperate. He doesn't want you like that or he would've already hooked up with you. He probably doesn't even like you tbh.

And the whole "I get what I want" thing doesn't apply to sex. You sound like a rapist.

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@BadGrlCapi
10 Years

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by tiziani

Posted by OceanBoy88
Ahhh reminds me of my Taurus friend. Hes like a brother of mines and wow he does this alot. Girls just want to bang him but he declines. For him, once he says no, he means no. The triggers are; she's too easy, she's too needy, she's to boring, she's too crazy, she's too out there, she's too quiet, she's to unresponsive, she's talks too much, and etc. Hes pretty dam picky. He wants the one. Guy only slept with 2 or 3 girls but he easily could've had 19 or 20. Hell, more.

Mostly this could be under the main reason: he just doesn't want to lol

Sounds like he needs his testosterone levels checked. Guys just don't "don't want to" ,lol

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I know many men to save themselves for marriage, or they're extremely picky because they want to give it to the right person and not just anyone.

And studies have shown that girls are more sexually active than guys.

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@RumiL
10 Years5,000+ Posts

He's such a nice guy ..not using you.

He's sincere and serious about his intentions.

Such people are RARE. 😢

Most people go to great lengths in manipulating just to get to sleep with someone.

You don't realize how lucky you are. Haven't you heard of nasty nasty stories of how people use others?? This guy is such a nice responsible person!