Is taurus man inlove with me?

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Taurus Males please help! i need your opinion. So this is my 2nd post here. My taurus man and I met about 7 months ago online, and yes i've been through the disappearing acts, ignoring texts, leaving me hanging and guessing. After 5 months i decided to tell him that i like him. I told him that i don't want to play games like other people. And that i am looking for something important and my intentions are genuine. I want to get to know him more and spend more quality time with him. I also told him that i respect him as a person and i respect his feelings and his time. No rush, no pressure and i just want him to know how i feel. I told him that i can wait til he figure what he really wants. After a few days he texted me with "Hey Sweetheart". I replied then he ignored me again. After a few days, i texted him again just to see how he is. We texted for a while and laughed at each other's jokes, he said that he wants to see me and asked me on the 4th date then there..he stood me up. I texted him what happened and if he is okay coz i thought something might have happened to him. Then he ghosted me for 6 weeks, i was really hurt and thought that he will never come back but after christmas day, he contacted me again. I was upset and explained to him what he did to me in a logical way and told him that i value myself and i strongly believe that the man i am going to be with should respect and value me as well. After that he started acting he's into me again..he wanted to see me but i refused but after a week, i decided to text him and give it a go. Since then, he is being consistent and didn't disappear yet. He is initiating contact now unlike before and it's increasing as well. He keep on asking me to go on dates with him. He also keep on asking me to have sex with him. Lastweek, I was surprised when he texted me that he is crazy about me, that he likes spending time with me and he is not in it for the short run. He said that he'd love to know everything about me and want to know me for a very long time. When we part, he also said that he cant wait til the next time to see me..He said that he cant compare his value of me to something coz it's unexplainable.

I am confused coz i feel like after he left me crying and guessing for a month then this happened all of a sudden. Is he really being sincere or just testing me? I just wanna make sure that i am not being blinded of my feelings for him. I'm a capricorn woman btw.



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I'm supposed to post my story with the question but i clicked the wrong button earlier lol


He is totally into you , but since he asked you to hang out and you rejected he stepped back again, we don't want to come off as clingy so we will keep our distance... it's a game but it's not. We don't like to be hurt either so we turn a bit cold. If he wants to be intimate with you that is a very good sign that he really is into you. I'm sorry that he ghosted you but he was probably terrified at that moment and had this build up in his head and didn't know if he coming or going so he stepped back again, I've done it to people... and I will continue to because that's how I process things, and I know I hurt people during that time but it's just how it is until I feel completely secure. Hope things go well and you guys and come to terms that you're both on the same page with feelings in the long run.

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I don’t know you but probably yes, but he won’t say it. Maybe in 10 years he’ll admit he did love you though.
I have a complete girl crush on you lmao

so true what you said


That’s the sweetest thing I’ve heard on here! ❤️❤️
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ignore this if i am wrong but are you chilean?! you look so much like my sis and thankssss 🙂

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I'm supposed to post my story with the question but i clicked the wrong button earlier lol


He is totally into you , but since he asked you to hang out and you rejected he stepped back again, we don't want to come off as clingy so we will keep our distance... it's a game but it's not. We don't like to be hurt either so we turn a bit cold. If he wants to be intimate with you that is a very good sign that he really is into you. I'm sorry that he ghosted you but he was probably terrified at that moment and had this build up in his head and didn't know if he coming or going so he stepped back again, I've done it to people... and I will continue to because that's how I process things, and I know I hurt people during that time but it's just how it is until I feel completely secure. Hope things go well and you guys and come to terms that you're both on the same page with feelings in the long run.


Honestly with a reply like that!— I’m in love with you! You are a goddess!
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After I rejected him, i asked him after a week if he wants to have breakfast with me in a restaurant on my birthday. He came and we had a great time. Since then, he still being consistent and always asks me out on his day offs. I'm just confused with his actions like one time he is going to be open and expresses his interest in me, we both feel the strong connection. After that ,he will ignore my message again for days, i'm starting to get scared now and think that he might just stringing me along. He knows that i like him alot and I've been open with my feelings for him but i don't pressure him or anything. I just let his feelings grow naturally. I asked him that i need to know where i stand with him coz i dont want to have sex with him if he doesnt feel the same way about me, the reason i did that is bec. it's true that i dont want to do it just for the pleasure..i've always been honest with my feelings for him..I told him i can wait til he figures what he really wants..I don't want to have sex just for the sake of it..and that's when he told me that he is crazy about me, that he likes spending time with me, sees me in his dreams and he is not in it for the short run, he said that he always cant wait to see me again and he wants to know me for a long time, a very long time..He said that i'm the smartest, most radiant woman there is and he love to know everything about me. I told him that i am always happy whenever i'm with him. and i also wants to see him as much as he does. I also said that i I told him that i want him to be part of everything i'll do in the future. He told me that my value to him is unexplainable. It's just sometimes i feel that he is into me and then the next, i feel like "what happened?"..drives me crazy..
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I'm supposed to post my story with the question but i clicked the wrong button earlier lol


He is totally into you , but since he asked you to hang out and you rejected he stepped back again, we don't want to come off as clingy so we will keep our distance... it's a game but it's not. We don't like to be hurt either so we turn a bit cold. If he wants to be intimate with you that is a very good sign that he really is into you. I'm sorry that he ghosted you but he was probably terrified at that moment and had this build up in his head and didn't know if he coming or going so he stepped back again, I've done it to people... and I will continue to because that's how I process things, and I know I hurt people during that time but it's just how it is until I feel completely secure. Hope things go well and you guys and come to terms that you're both on the same page with feelings in the long run.

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After I rejected him, i asked him after a week if he wants to have breakfast with me in a restaurant on my birthday. He came and we had a great time. Since then, he still being consistent and always asks me out on his day offs. I'm just confused with his actions like one time he is going to be open and expresses his interest in me, we both feel the strong connection. After that ,he will ignore my message again for days, i'm starting to get scared now and think that he might just stringing me along. He knows that i like him alot and I've been open with my feelings for him but i don't pressure him or anything. I just let his feelings grow naturally. I asked him that i need to know where i stand with him coz i dont want to have sex with him if he doesnt feel the same way about me, the reason i did that is bec. it's true that i dont want to do it just for the pleasure..i've always been honest with my feelings for him..I told him i can wait til he figures what he really wants..I don't want to have sex just for the sake of it..and that's when he told me that he is crazy about me, that he likes spending time with me, sees me in his dreams and he is not in it for the short run, he said that he always cant wait to see me again and he wants to know me for a long time, a very long time..He said that i'm the smartest, most radiant woman there is and he love to know everything about me. I told him that i am always happy whenever i'm with him. and i also wants to see him as much as he does. I also said that i I told him that i want him to be part of everything i'll do in the future. He told me that my value to him is unexplainable. It's just sometimes i feel that he is into me and then the next, i feel like "what happened?"..drives me crazy..
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Posted by Caramel_Princess
I’m not the best person to give Taurus advice since my relationship with one failed after 7 months, but I learned a lot about them and it could have worked out if I wasn’t a crazy Scorpio.

Bulls will test you over and over. They’ll assess you like a freaking car, risk vs reward and on very practical reasons, they live in the real world realistically. They’re romantic once they choose you but until then they’ll be one foot in, one foot out. They’ll be calculative.

Sometimes they’ll be entertaining a few options too... if you do keep noticing they’re testing you, and you’ve reached your limit make it known. Don’t get angry but get righteous, set the boundary and tell them hey, this is what I need, what do you need? Let’s meet in the middle.

Bulls will comply once you get strong like that and a bit sick and tired of their tricks/tests. If they feel like they’ll really lose you, they’ll fix it.

I don’t think that guy is at love stage though, he likes you but he still hasn’t decided if he’ll love you. He’ll hold back until he feels you’re safe. They say Taurus men always marry the boring wife so seem boring, as in hey I’m not hiding anything no tricks everything is stable, etc. don’t come off like an unsafe bet to them.

My Taurus ex said he loves me, but not enough. You see what I’m saying? They love in phases, not at once.
Yes i feel like he tests me alot, i also tend to do that to test people to make sure i'm not getting played but he really confuses me..I am very good at reading people but when it comes to him, i get really confuse..I agree that when he tests me, i try to do my best to be logical and get to the point without being angry..I do believe that he likes me but he doesnt love me yet..Should I let him be for now? I feel like i should back off a little to see what he's gonna do..
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don't have sex until he has earned it. Sounds like when you set your standard, he said what he needed to so he could have sex with you. They will say anything to get what they want.

Is it just me or is it weird when guys ask to have sex??

Don't ask me -___- let it happen naturally, IF IT DOES.

I would just be observant and see if his actions align with his words, if he loves you then he should have no trouble committing to you and being consistent.