Kikyy
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Materialistic taurus man attitude or normal thing?
Posted by KikyyPerhaps these threads would help
I know this taurus man for about 1,5 year. I know he likes me, but I am still wondering whether he sees me only as a good friend, or more - he never initiated sexual contact except hugging, touching my back or hand. He says he respects me and trusts me a lot, he texts, calls, asks me out, even asked on a trip for 4 days, we always spend one on one time, he gives me small trinkets, pays for lunch, goes extra mile to see me (we live in different cities), asks for my opinion, his mom knows me and etc.
I know that he is slow in everything and he said he doesn't see the point in rushing to get committed with somebody and that he is very cautious about letting people into his life.
I appreciate what he does for me and the way he treats me, I really value his trust, but yesterday I was a little surprised. I said that I bought a new bed and asked if he knew a company that could help me with delivery in my hometown. He said he didn't knew any and that he could help me himself, but I live so far from him (250km). I told him that I could pay for his trip as we both understand that everything costs (I know he is not in the best financial situation right now).
He said it's a bullshit, as he doesn't like when money pops out in the friendship and that he wouldn't like to take money from me. I made a joke and said I would give lots of food instead. We laughed and I said we'll see, cause maybe I'll find somebody to help me from my city. Then I changed a topic.
My question is why did he offer to help me (several times in that conversation), and that started talking about me living to far and giving a hint that distance would be a problem.
If I knew that I wouldn't be able to come and help somebody because of the distance, I wouldn't offer my help at all. We both do not like counting money in every step we take like buying coffee for each other or sth. He pays for me most of the time, but this time I didn't get the point - he offers to help but then says that I live so far away and gives a hint it is an obstacle.
Does he look at us so formally? Or am I really just a casual friend and nothing more? If he needed help I would never pop out a question about distance or any other obstacle.
Any opinions?
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Posted by yupvirgooI am a cancer, well overanalyzing is what I do often 😄 Maybe the key is that I expected his help when he said he could help, without any questions, cause I would help him no matter the distance.
You know he's really obviously into you but the distance maybe kinda bothers him but I think you're overanalyzing this.
What's your sun sign?
@Kikyy
Posted by KikyyPosted by yupvirgooI am a cancer, well overanalyzing is what I do often 😄 Maybe the key is that I expected his help when he said he could help, without any questions, cause I would help him no matter the distance.
You know he's really obviously into you but the distance maybe kinda bothers him but I think you're overanalyzing this.
What's your sun sign?
@Kikyyclick to expand
He does obviously care about you. I don't think you're over analyzing but maybe reacting too emotionally? Don't you enjoy that he is concerned about you like this? Taurus likes to provide for their loved ones. It's like what we're born to do. What is your Venus placement?
Yep he only sees you as a good friend nothing more. Isn't it obvious?
Posted by SeasonNo we don't like this bullshit; It's like being strung along by a carrot. I will cut it off, and teach that bull a lesson. The hate silence.Posted by KikyyPosted by yupvirgooI am a cancer, well overanalyzing is what I do often 😄 Maybe the key is that I expected his help when he said he could help, without any questions, cause I would help him no matter the distance.
You know he's really obviously into you but the distance maybe kinda bothers him but I think you're overanalyzing this.
What's your sun sign?
@Kikyy
He does obviously care about you. I don't think you're over analyzing but maybe reacting too emotionally? Don't you enjoy that he is concerned about you like this? Taurus likes to provide for their loved ones. It's like what we're born to do. What is your Venus placement?click to expand
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I appreciate what he does for me and the way he treats me, I really value his trust, but yesterday I was a little surprised. I said that I bought a new bed and asked if he knew a company that could help me with delivery in my hometown. He said he didn't knew any and that he could help me himself, but I live so far from him (250km). I told him that I could pay for his trip as we both understand that everything costs (I know he is not in the best financial situation right now).
He said it's a bullshit, as he doesn't like when money pops out in the friendship and that he wouldn't like to take money from me. I made a joke and said I would give lots of food instead. We laughed and I said we'll see, cause maybe I'll find somebody to help me from my city. Then I changed a topic.
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If I knew that I wouldn't be able to come and help somebody because of the distance, I wouldn't offer my help at all. We both do not like counting money in every step we take like buying coffee for each other or sth. He pays for me most of the time, but this time I didn't get the point - he offers to help but then says that I live so far away and gives a hint it is an obstacle.
Does he look at us so formally? Or am I really just a casual friend and nothing more? If he needed help I would never pop out a question about distance or any other obstacle.
Any opinions?