My Gemini Relationship has run its course

I've been with my Gemini guy for 3 years and while it's been a very challenging relationship, I also love him. We had a (another) falling out today. Out of the blue, he tells me that he thinks it's best if I move out. We rent a house together that alone neither one of us could afford without the other. I asked him how he's going to cover the cost of the rent and he said he'd make due.

A bit about us, we met 3 years ago, moved in together 2.5 years ago. For me, that was moving too fast. Not a month has gone by that we had a fight about something. He's very moody but I force myself to ignore him when he gets moody. He gets mad quicker than I do and it takes very little to get him upset, unlike me - it takes a lot to tick me off.

If you've read my "Office Dilemma" post, you know that I've been confused with an office mate's flirting. This break up has been a long time coming well before this office flirting, so I hope none of you think I brought on this break up.

Would someone "read" mine and my Gemini's charts and tell me if we were destined to fail or if I should be trying harder to stay together?

Me/Him
Sun: Taurus/Gemini
Moon: Leo/Libra
Mercury: Taurus/Taurus
Venus: Pisces/Cancer
Mars: Cancer/Cancer
Asc Node: Sagittarius/Capricorn

Appears your Gem may have found a new woman. Has there been any indication that a new woman may be in the foreground HP?

Air and Earth...Blah....I never get on too well with Earth signs, takes major adjustments on my part and I mean major.

Taurus Woman and Gemini Man

The match between a Taurus woman and a Gemini man was not made in heaven. His hyperactivity, impatience and recklessness will not go down well with her need for constancy. At the same time, the flirtatious nature of a Gemini man may compel her to be jealous and possessive in the extreme. He may find her too predictable and devoid of any sense of adventure. This isn't exactly a sign for a lovely, romantic liaison. Beyond the first date, there are little chances of success, unless and until both of them make great adjustments.

Nah, no other woman. He is attached to me to the hip when he's not working or I'm not traveling. We love each other but we just don't have enough in common. 😢

A little irony...the Capricorn at the officethat's been flirting with me is married to a Gemini. So I know that earth signs can be compatible with air signs...

Maybe Capricorn and Gemini are better suited than Taurus and Gemini?

I can understand the attachment but if he's the one breaking up with you then it's a sure sign that something or someone is lurking in the background...I'm just saying BE more OBSERVANT and also observe whose the instigator of these fights.

You may not be the only one flirting with the idea of having an office affair or having some kind of affair with a new person. I'm not saying he's a cheater especially if there are no clear indications that he's out there like that but Gem men (not all) are notorious flirts and they are known to cheat after being fiercely loyal for months or years, my dad is a Gem, let's just say his sense of commitment was not like other signs and the men can be super super sneaky, once bored he's looking for a way out. Gem men have 2 sides, google it and learn as much as you can b/c although he may not overtly appear to be womanizing there may be someone he's idealizing or actually pursuing.

I think you have made some adjustments and that's ONE of probably many reasons why the relationship has lasted as long as it has, not saying adjusting one self is a bad thing, it's just not something that's going to benefit a woman longterm once she begins to adjust herself to a mans moods, flirting and ego, there is a certain level of respect and power that's lost.

Oh and if your not mentally stimulating those 2 sides of the Gem he'll grow bored and want out. Huge job but Gemini IMO are great lovers and make for great partners, it just takes a certain level of stimulation to keep a Gem man happy or he'll grow really bored and that brings on the agitation and short tempered behavior. It's not that Gemini's are all cheaters, I'm not implying that but from what I do know is that if not happy he'll go to greener pastures mentally and sometimes physically no matter how attached he appears to be. Noticed I said flirting with the idea so he may very well not be out there actually cheating.

his venus in cancer...maybe you did something to make him go back into his shell..i am the same way and i hate it, because it can be over the smallest of things. and if anything, he should be clinging to you for dear life, but hes saying you guys need to seperate so i dont think hes going to come back