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Understanding Gemini Men’s Reactions to Sudden Breakups
Gemini men are often curious and communicative. If a woman ends things abruptly, they may feel confused or intrigued but tend to accept the situation if their interest wanes. They rarely dwell on past relationships and prefer clarity. Their response varies based on individual circumstances but generally involves moving on quickly.
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Posted by RealTalk
Hey Gemini guys...question, if you were dating a woman whom you really liked & she just abruptly all of a sudden told you to never contact her again & leave her the hell alone, would you? Would you wonder why she just ended it so suddenly or you just wouldn't care?
I personally would be glad that she did, because she obviously is a lunatic. So no, I wouldn't care in the least, and I abolish her from memory. But, that's me.
Oh, unless it's the OP, then I'd be like, "WTF?!" 🙂
A Gemini cheated on you, LoveBucket? I don't know a Gemini that cheats, but that's me. Every cheater that I do know is a Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn, and Pisces. But, those are people that I actually know. Furthermore, if you ask any woman what the sign of the married man that tried to pick them up, I'd bet a king's ransom that it was one of the above mentioned, not a Gemini. 🙂
Posted by everevolvingepithet
"would you?"
Yup
"you just wouldn't care?"
Yup. Anyone who can think would do that. 🙂
Oh! So you're a Gemini now? 😛
Posted by RealTalk
Hey Gemini guys...question, if you were dating a woman whom you really liked & she just abruptly all of a sudden told you to never contact her again & leave her the hell alone, would you? Would you wonder why she just ended it so suddenly or you just wouldn't care?I personally would be glad that she did, because she obviously is a lunatic. So no, I wouldn't care in the least, and I abolish her from memory. But, that's me.
That's what I'm saying -- I don't think a Gemini would care. Just one less person for him to cheat on is all, which is why so quickly, she'd get abolished from memory!! 🙂
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LOL!
Too quiet eh? I'm usually never 'round these parts. Just thought I'd check out what was going on around the town and here I am with my fellow Mercurians...and you...the Leeb/Scorp cusper/Scorp/Virgo/Pisces-now-I-am-a-Gemini dude. Ha!
Posted by everevolvingepithet
...and yada yada I know, "Imma get my belt out..."
HAHAHAHAA...you know me far too well, my friend.
Are you guys drinking this early? Not you Bling, cuz you are what, 6 hours ahead? 🙂
Posted by GeminiMind
Are you guys drinking this early? Not you Bling, cuz you are what, 6 hours ahead? 🙂
lol, no.
Just bored outta my damn mind sitting here at work. Thought I'd log on to DXP for some entertainment.
*twiddles thumbs*
I'm in a mischievious mood but hardly no one's on the playground today.
Ah well...off to lunch. 🙂
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Too quiet eh? I'm usually never 'round these parts. Just thought I'd check out what was going on around the town and here I am with my fellow Mercurians...and you...the Leeb/Scorp cusper/Scorp/Virgo/Pisces-now-I-am-a-Gemini dude. Ha!Quiet ?
Hmmm
What's the beef with my 'room for maneuvering?' approach to astrology *cough* ? 🙂
Gemini in Midheaven reads really well imo, but the sensual bubblebath of Air/Water I be 🙂
What's with the sass anyways VirgoVixxxen ? I thought the Vgals were prudish, bookish and the like ?
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The "sass" is a very real part of us. There's also the mischievious, fighter, "I wanna cuss somebody out" side too.
You obviously don't know us as well as you think.
*Sticks out tongue*
Anyhoo, we've derailed this thread long enough!
Posted by RealTalk
Hey Gemini guys...question, if you were dating a woman whom you really liked & she just abruptly all of a sudden told you to never contact her again & leave her the hell alone, would you?
what?! FUCK NO! i'd be like WTF whats wrong what i'd do why is this happening FMLLLL
who wouldnt wonder?
Posted by CrabbyTwins
who wouldnt wonder?
Me, because if a woman is going to vamoose with no reason behind it, I'm likely to think it's a mind fuck, and Homey don't play dat.
Posted by GeminiMind
Oh, unless it's the OP, then I'd be like, "WTF?!" 🙂
Hahaha!!! Oh yeah? When if they apologized & realized the error of their ways & admitted they were wrong, would you accept?
Posted by RealTalk
Hey Gemini guys...question, if you were dating a woman whom you really liked & she just abruptly all of a sudden told you to never contact her again & leave her the hell alone, would you?what?! FUCK NO! i'd be like WTF whats wrong what i'd do why is this happening FMLLLL
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Awwwww...do you have those cancer placements too Westside?
Posted by GeminiMind
Oh, unless it's the OP, then I'd be like, "WTF?!" 🙂Hahaha!!! Oh yeah? When if they apologized & realized the error of their ways & admitted they were wrong, would you accept?
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This is going to sound Geminian but, it depends on what the error and what was the way.
^^^Oh yeah you do! OMG! You're one of those emotional gems (that's a great thing!!!). I asked GM the same, would you accept if the person apologized & really meant it?
Posted by GeminiMind
Oh, unless it's the OP, then I'd be like, "WTF?!" 🙂Hahaha!!! Oh yeah? When if they apologized & realized the error of their ways & admitted they were wrong, would you accept?
This is going to sound Geminian but, it depends on what the error and what was the way.
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Dammit you Taurus moon!!!! Well the error was telling the person to leave them alone, and the way was abruptly doing it, after they were involved for about 10 months. 🙂
Hmmmmm..... All would be forgiven then. HOWEVER, not without a bit of punishment. Just being real.
Punishment aye? What kind of punishment? A spanking perhaps?
Nah, I would pull out all of the sexual stops tho. She'd never do it again, I promise you that. Also, you'd be giving me the upper hand, because now it's strategic. Something will be lost in the relationship though, trust, or at least some.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
"would you?"
Yup
"you just wouldn't care?"
Yup. Anyone who can think would do that. 🙂Oh! So you're a Gemini now? 😛
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LOL...he was just a Scorpio the other day...
Posted by GeminiMind
Nah, I would pull out all of the sexual stops tho. She'd never do it again, I promise you that. Also, you'd be giving me the upper hand, because now it's strategic. Something will be lost in the relationship though, trust, or at least some.
Trust? Guess they'd probably think the person would just flip on them & up & leave at any given moment...IDK. But don't most gems go through that? Ups, downs, hot, cold, in, out, coming, going, yes, no? Some of you are a bit looney too...#justsayin. It also leaves the other person wondering about trust too. Am I wrong?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
"would you?"
Yup
"you just wouldn't care?"
Yup. Anyone who can think would do that. 🙂Oh! So you're a Gemini now? 😛
LOL...he was just a Scorpio the other day...
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I know right? LOL, he's a riot.
Posted by RealTalk
Hey Gemini guys...question, if you were dating a woman whom you really liked & she just abruptly all of a sudden told you to never contact her again & leave her the hell alone, would you? Would you wonder why she just ended it so suddenly or you just wouldn't care?I personally would be glad that she did, because she obviously is a lunatic. So no, I wouldn't care in the least, and I abolish her from memory. But, that's me.
That's what I'm saying -- I don't think a Gemini would care. Just one less person for him to cheat on is all, which is why so quickly, she'd get abolished from memory!! 🙂
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Ooooh, bad experience with a gem huh? Maybe that's because you're a cancer & cancers are VERY sensitive & clingy. If your ex-gem would've had some cancer placements, maybe you would've been good...😉Hehehehehe.
Posted by CrabbyTwins
who wouldnt wonder?
Someone who didn't give a damn in the first place.
Posted by RealTalk
Hey Gemini guys...question, if you were dating a woman whom you really liked & she just abruptly all of a sudden told you to never contact her again & leave her the hell alone, would you? Would you wonder why she just ended it so suddenly or you just wouldn't care?
What up RTeezy ? Lol 2 answer you're question yes i would leave her alone because 2 me
if she says it in that way she means it...Would i wonder why she did it ?
nope because she didn't care about saying it in the first place.
RTeezy...LMAO! Awwww, not even if she was weally, weally, sowwy— *pokes lip out* 😢
If she grabbed me and apologized sincerely and gave me a passionate kiss
then may B i would Reconsider Lol
🙂 *naughty grin*
whoa, kinda surprised at these answers. Your dating the girl though? if she just flipped out like that, you wouldn't want to know why you'd just end it? wha?
Um, I am not a Gemini male, but my SO is. I can imagine that his reply will be that he will wonder for some time probably, but then it's done and he'll move on. He never is the type to linger on some stuff for too long. Point is the girl does not want to be with him, and that's that.
As for whether he'll take her back or not, not sure about that, my guess is it will depend on the situation. But he always said that when he moves on, he moves on. He's very direct and straightforward in the relationship, either the girl wants him or not. He doesn't seem to have the patience to play the push pull game. He'll just leave when it happens.
Posted by RealTalk
Hey Gemini guys...question, if you were dating a woman whom you really liked & she just abruptly all of a sudden told you to never contact her again & leave her the hell alone, would you? Would you wonder why she just ended it so suddenly or you just wouldn't care?I personally would be glad that she did, because she obviously is a lunatic. So no, I wouldn't care in the least, and I abolish her from memory. But, that's me.
That's what I'm saying -- I don't think a Gemini would care. Just one less person for him to cheat on is all, which is why so quickly, she'd get abolished from memory!! 🙂
Ooooh, bad experience with a gem huh? Maybe that's because you're a cancer & cancers are VERY sensitive & clingy. If your ex-gem would've had some cancer placements, maybe you would've been good...😉Hehehehehe.
You Virgos are cracking me up b/c your analysis is always off. Also, I am not a Cancer, I am a Leo -- July 23rd, on the Cusp of Cancer which means I have some Cancer traits but the meat and potatoes of myself is Leo.
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Whoopdy doo!!! You're a leo!!!! Who gives a shit, leo, cancer? And? It still applies boo-boo.
Uh I DO remember saying HEY GEMINI GUYS...So this doesn't really apply to you broads.
Psht, regardless..I agree with the guys 😛. Bitches ain't shit.
Thanks GUYS for commenting. 😉 I appreciate YOUR input.
Your welcome RT 🙂
Posted by GeminiMind
A Gemini cheated on you, LoveBucket? I don't know a Gemini that cheats, but that's me. Every cheater that I do know is a Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn, and Pisces. But, those are people that I actually know. Furthermore, if you ask any woman what the sign of the married man that tried to pick them up, I'd bet a king's ransom that it was one of the above mentioned, not a Gemini. 🙂Internet folks crack me up because they always think "it happened to you" when you say something about their sign they don't like. 🙂 It's like that's the ONLY possible reason someone could say something against your sign.
I've not had the pleasure of being entertained by a Gemini Mind, I mean Gemini Man, but I did grow up with a Gemini sister.
The cheating thing, I was joking because we always hear beware of the Gems and anyone who's Venus is in Gemini. So maybe ALL of those who say that have been cheated on by a Gemini?? 🙂
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Don't know and don't care, because I've been called a many a thing, but never a cheater. But, I stand by my observations about the men that I KNOW are cheaters, and it's usually the ones that I stated. *shrugs*
This is why I heart gems!!! OMG...
Posted by RealTalk
This is why I heart gems!!! OMG...
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Awww damn...must confess, it was me. Of course some of you knew that. Hehehehe. He forgave me. He didn't even mention it. I just called him & told him I wanted to see him. 😄 He came ASAP. We didn't discuss it whatsoever. We actually had a nice time. No hanky panky though! *naughty grin*
Posted by RealTalk
He forgave me. He didn't even mention it. I just called him & told him I wanted to see him. 😄 He came ASAP. We didn't discuss it whatsoever. We actually had a nice time.
😄 That's really good RT
Posted by RealTalk
No hanky panky though!
lol
Awwwww thanks Gem78!!!! 🙂 Where on earth have you been? Where has everyone been? All the Gems are MIA! Hehehehe, I guess you guys are all packed away in the jewelry box, & only come out on special occasions, lol.
Posted by RealTalk
Awwwww thanks Gem78!!!! 🙂 Where on earth have you been? Where has everyone been? All the Gems are MIA! Hehehehe, I guess you guys are all packed away in the jewelry box, & only come out on special occasions, lol.
ha ha you're welcome...Where have i been ? well i wasn't here 2 much last month because
i was out of town visiting my mother her b-day was september 30th
so i made sure i spent alot of time with her.
🙂
Posted by RealTalk
I guess you guys are all packed away in the jewelry box, & only come out on special occasions, lol.
lol and U the jewelry box is really EXPENSIVE that's why we only come out
on special occasions.
🙂
Posted by RealTalk
Awwwww thanks Gem78!!!! 🙂 Where on earth have you been? Where has everyone been? All the Gems are MIA! Hehehehe, I guess you guys are all packed away in the jewelry box, & only come out on special occasions, lol.ha ha you're welcome...Where have i been ? well i wasn't here 2 much last month because
i was out of town visiting my mother her b-day was september 30th
so i made sure i spent alot of time with her.🙂
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That is so sweet. You can tell alot about a man by how he treats his mother. That is soooooo important!
Posted by RealTalk
I guess you guys are all packed away in the jewelry box, & only come out on special occasions, lol.lol and U the jewelry box is really EXPENSIVE that's why we only come out
on special occasions.🙂
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Hahahaha, I can dig it...😉
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Hey Gemini guys...question, if you were dating a woman whom you really liked & she just abruptly all of a sudden told you to never contact her again & leave her the hell alone, would you? Would you wonder why she just ended it so suddenly or you just wouldn't care?