anxious...

so my off again on again gemini bf has asked me to accompany him to trip to chicago and then michigan to visit his family. they're having this birthday bash for his dad at some lack house. At first i felt thrilled. then i felt this huge anxious "RUN detach" feeling. Im not comfortable meeting his family..but then again..im not? what is moving too fast for you guys— is this a big step for a gemini? or just a very typical one?

ugh. my heart ...runs*

lake*

Posted by UrsaMediocre

lmao! 🙂

baahh haaaa now that takes me way back

Candi, for me, it would be a typical one. i'm not from the best of backgrounds, so meeting my family would just be like meeting one of my friends. in fact, my friends are closer to me than my family. not by choice tho. lol!

Candi im a bit the same as misslissa. My friends are closer to me than my family. If your talking about instant family like brother, sister mum, dad then if I introduce you (and they live somewhere else), and im asking you to come on a trip with me to meet them etc then means Im serious about you and I want the rest of my family to be aware of this and to meet you.

I dont bring anyone home unless I think I will be with them for a while and unless i am taking them seriously.... In saying that, lets just say, my family has only met ONE person.

I dont think its moving too fast because havent you guys been together for at least like 3-4 months already?

Posted by candi3bb
so my off again on again gemini bf has asked me to accompany him to trip to chicago and then michigan to visit his family. they're having this birthday bash for his dad at some lack house. At first i felt thrilled. then i felt this huge anxious "RUN detach" feeling. Im not comfortable meeting his family..but then again..im not? what is moving too fast for you guys— is this a big step for a gemini? or just a very typical one?

ugh. my heart ...runs*

This is hard 2 tell because U guys have an on and off relationship But U will know for sure where he stands if U go with him 2 meet his family...We he does introduce U 2 his folks he will either say 2 things right? This is my Lady or This is
my Friend...I say just go with the flow Then U will know how 2 handle it from there.
🙂

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so my off again on again gemini bf has asked me to accompany him to trip to chicago and then michigan to visit his family. they're having this birthday bash for his dad at some lack house. At first i felt thrilled. then i felt this huge anxious "RUN detach" feeling. Im not comfortable meeting his family..but then again..im not? what is moving too fast for you guys— is this a big step for a gemini? or just a very typical one?

ugh. my heart ...runs*

This is hard 2 tell because U guys have an on and off relationship But U will know for sure where he stands if U go with him 2 meet his family...We he does introduce U 2 his folks he will either say 2 things right? This is my Lady or This is
my Friend...I say just go with the flow Then U will know how 2 handle it from there.
🙂

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Posted by nats
Candi im a bit the same as misslissa. My friends are closer to me than my family. If your talking about instant family like brother, sister mum, dad then if I introduce you (and they live somewhere else), and im asking you to come on a trip with me to meet them etc then means Im serious about you and I want the rest of my family to be aware of this and to meet you.

I dont bring anyone home unless I think I will be with them for a while and unless i am taking them seriously.... In saying that, lets just say, my family has only met ONE person.

I dont think its moving too fast because havent you guys been together for at least like 3-4 months already?

eh 9 monhts or so haha baahaaaaaa lol you were there from the beginning!!!! HAHA

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so my off again on again gemini bf has asked me to accompany him to trip to chicago and then michigan to visit his family. they're having this birthday bash for his dad at some lack house. At first i felt thrilled. then i felt this huge anxious "RUN detach" feeling. Im not comfortable meeting his family..but then again..im not? what is moving too fast for you guys— is this a big step for a gemini? or just a very typical one?

ugh. my heart ...runs*

This is hard 2 tell because U guys have an on and off relationship But U will know for sure where he stands if U go with him 2 meet his family...We he does introduce U 2 his folks he will either say 2 things right? This is my Lady or This is
my Friend...I say just go with the flow Then U will know how 2 handle it from there.
🙂

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oh your right...okay its pretty obvious based on the "obvious" observations..he already mentioned me to his parents couple months back..so they know im his girlfriend...lol sorry i i should've been more clear.....

i guess it just feels...like with a gem u just never know. hence me always questioning lol (annoyed? yeah i would be too if i wasn't a lovely aqua)

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oh your right...okay its pretty obvious based on the "obvious" observations..he already mentioned me to his parents couple months back..so they know im his girlfriend...lol sorry i i should've been more clear.....

i guess it just feels...like with a gem u just never know. hence me always questioning lol (annoyed? yeah i would be too if i wasn't a lovely aqua)

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hA hA oh ok im glad U cleared that up for me 🙂 He's already mentioned U 2 his parent's
that's really GooD...i think U should B ok i know some Gem's can B confusing
sometime's but believe me when a male Gem finds the right woman he will B
loyal it just takes a strong woman that's all. stay positive!!!

and what are your thoughts on someone seeking another in a relationship— but stops themselves when they realize what they are doing? would it bother you that a lover of yours proclaims romantic words and actions but feels another?

Posted by candi3bb
and what are your thoughts on someone seeking another in a relationship— but stops themselves when they realize what they are doing?

Well the person should not B seeking another relationship if he/she is
already in one...he/she stops themselves because they should not
have been doing it in the first place!
🙂

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would it bother you that a lover of yours proclaims romantic words and actions but feels another?

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Actually that would bother me because those words their proclaiming are not true
That's playing games U know what i mean...But everyone's different so it
may not bother most people!
🙂

hmm i guess i should start playing games with my bf. he states that he is so in love with me and only wants me. but couple months ago like janurary- contacts exs out of curiosity clicking on dating links just cause...then its like only now he is taking me serious. is this a common trait amongst geminis? asking one to be exclusive but still look around?

^^not for this gemini. but then again, i'm a woman... not sure about the men. 🙂

Posted by candi3bb
hmm i guess i should start playing games with my bf. he states that he is so in love with me and only wants me. but couple months ago like janurary- contacts exs out of curiosity clicking on dating links just cause.

Ahhh i see that's not kool what he's doing do U
believe him when he says he's in In/LuV with u?
and only want's U?

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then its like only now he is taking me serious. is this a common trait amongst geminis? asking one to be exclusive but still look around?

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Why didn't he take U serious before? Now this whole exclusive deal
and still wanting 2 look around don't apply 2 me...Reading
everything U wrote seems like he want's an open
relationship!

but when i suggest so he detests that idea...im really open to things and i don't mind being in that type as long as i don't have to you know...fake a smile...look dumb and act sweet when im really anxious inside...yet i love him. hahaa

i've been conditioned to think he says things to feel them...not necessarily feels them then says it..

Posted by candi3bb
but when i suggest so he detests that idea...im really open to things and i don't mind being in that type as long as i don't have to you know...fake a smile...look dumb and act sweet when im really anxious inside...yet i love him. hahaa

i've been conditioned to think he says things to feel them...not necessarily feels them then says it..

"CB" seems like U 2 R on one heck of a ride hA hA...But just do
what U have 2 do and what U feel! 🙂

i like that "do what you have 2 do and what you feel"

dance dance dance

Posted by candi3bb
i like that "do what you have 2 do and what you feel"

dance dance dance

U know what a friend of mind broke a toe sometime ago from Dancing so Make sure
U don't break any Bones while Dancing "CB" unless your Slow/Dancing then
U wont have 2 worry about breaking anything hA hA...But dont let that
stop U from getting your Dance Dance Dancing on U feel me!!!
😄 🙂

you know what is so funny? not sure if you know about hypnotizing people or suggestive thinking through text/emails. i was looking for your meaning. but they say its supposed to be unconscious.

you made a capital D on dancing (line 1) and B for bones (line 2) Slow/Dancing

the Dance (on the last line)

in the subliminal message it would be:

"dancing make bones, slow dancing. BUT Dance dance dance"

haha

if i were to write a email to you in concern on how you are doing

"hey how are you doing? I am just going around work getting art supplies. Love it! i haven't talked to You in forever. what have you been up to? what is new? When will you be coming back? Will you be bringing your friends along? I can try to Be calm and relaxed.YEE so excited your coming back. to Get a chance to hang out again like old times is so sweet. don't forget to give my Love and Kisses to your mom!"

LmAo U should do stand up!!!

i love your sarcasm. 😛 well did ya get did ya get it?

Did i get what? im j/k...well i'm gonna guess U
think i'm Unconscious 😛