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Posted by Infinite8
Don't worry and just let him make the next move.

Posted by beautifuldiaster
I'd take sex off the table. Make him chase you. No excuses like my aunt flo is in town - try, "I want to get to know you better before making such a huge commitment..." Do not let it be ALL ABOUT SEX. That is a red flag. And yeah. They are slow for a long time.

Stay busy and stay happy in your own little world cause he will come in and out on his own will.


that's my advice but hopefully someone has something more substantial to offer.

Posted by Jes8744
Oh yea and he kept staring at me! Even when I looked like crap the next day. I've read that's a Taurus characteristic lol!

Posted by estellajones
Hey fellow Pisces!

I am currently married to a Taurus, he sounds a bit like mine when we first got together at 17, he used to always initiate that he wanted to have sex with me and was very sensual as an immature teenage girl at the time I was sure he was using me but didn't mind it.. The first date we had we got drunk and went to a hotel to have sex and watch movies basically, but we ended up getting kicked out because we was making so much noise that it didn't end up happening, then the next day we ended up meeting again and getting absolutely wasted we had sex and I remembered feeling like my whole life had ended and that was it he got what he wanted.

Luckily for me we are still together, married at a young age, one child and another on the way and he sounds just like your Taurus you was talking about 🙂


My advice to you is that you try not to jump in to bed with him yet if you can, I know it's very tempting but it's always best when you make a man chase 😉 I don't know about Taurus' like to take things slow because my hubby didn't, but as a Pisces we are so sensitive we don't want to be used and it's a big risk to take. I genuinely thought my hubby was using me when we first met it was always just sex sex sex all the time, and we are nothing like that now lol.

Have you tried to look at his full chart so you can have a better insight on him? Either way he sounds like a nice guy, I would make him chase you a little more not for too long though but seeing as he seems very interested in you he's not going to leave you alone a Taurus loves his woman and they are possessive over them, so you're basically his now and when you have sex for the first time with him you'll probably end up seeing a different him, he'll almost develop more feelings for you

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Posted by Jes8744

Posted by Infinite8
Don't worry and just let him make the next move.

Thank you. I know I probably seem crazy since its been a couple days, but like I said I don't want to be let down 😢

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For the moment... Take it for what it is. You had a wonderful weekend with him. Be grateful for that and if you can, just keep that positive energy flowing.

As BD said... STAY AWAY FROM HAVING SEX. Have some title established first before you even dare to have sex. He will think highly of you for that and gain respect for you. Respect is ultimate for Taurus.

Pisces and Taurus are VERY compatible. So trust that he is having some feelings for you too! I'm sure he really appreciated your soft and affectionate nature.

Just stay away from the physical stuff and focus more on getting to know one another. If he pushes for physical, put your foot down. You will be TESTED, but if you pass... He will

Thank you!! I completely agree. I get soooo intense so fast like I just jump to let's be together! But I always do that and it ends as fast as it starts so I'm going to try this whole slowed down approach haha

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Posted by Jes8744
I'm not going to have sex with him when I see him. I definitely want to show him that's not what I'm here for and I kind of need to show him my sober self since I was such a mess before. I appreciate all of your guys' responses. I asked all my friends what does it mean to take things slow and no one knew haha.

Taking things slow, means getting to know that person. Making sure he is a good person first of all, then that you are safe around him, next that he is not a criminal, sex offender, married, etc. Would you trust him with your heart to trust him enough to give your body to this man.

Having sex with a man who you barely know or met is not a good thing, many things can happen. He can lose respect for you, he may have an std, you may get pregnant and then you are stuck with a child from a stranger who may stick with you or walk away the moment he fears his freedom is taken away and responsibility is now on his shoulder.

When you take your time and get to know a man, he begins to have dreams of you, thoughts of you and I assure you, he would be thinking you are the one. Take it slow, let him get to know you and you will know if he is for the long haul or just the hit and run.

You are a Pisces you know how it feels when you like someone and you have your dreams, you start growing closer to someone even if apart. If you make this man feel this for you, you will score, and he will feel like he scored a nice, respectful lady. Not a woman, not a girl, but a lady he wishes to spend his time with and maybe the rest of his life.

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Posted by Jes8744
I'm not going to have sex with him when I see him. I definitely want to show him that's not what I'm here for and I kind of need to show him my sober self since I was such a mess before. I appreciate all of your guys' responses. I asked all my friends what does it mean to take things slow and no one knew haha.

Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. YeS, good idea to keep alcohol to a minimum. Taurus watches and notes the behavior patterns of a prospective interest. He will be noting this side of your behave too. Taurus is a gent and he is looking for a lady the manners of one!

I'm taurus and my motto is: 'a lady in the streets. A slut between the sheets'!!! Lol lol

And as stated by some of the others build a friendship first before going anywhere near sex.... Taurus will respect your wishes and will pursue you even more!

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Posted by Jes8744
Okay guys. After reading a bunch of forums I decided to ask a question for myself..

So I met this Taurus man on a dating site. I met him in person and some of his friends and we all went out. From the moment I met him it was like we had such a connection. I felt really comfortable with him. We were basically in our own little world laughing and just having a great time. Unfortunately.. I got pretty drunk (amateur move I know) so I don't remember much after that but the next day I woke up at his house. We didn't hook up though which I'm happy about. The next day we just laid together and watched TV. He kept giving me kisses, stroking my arms, holding my hand. We had to go get my car and every chance he got he would kiss me and had his hand on my leg. It was amazing. We kind of mentioned going to the movies that evening but then I went home and we just never talked about it. We have been texting since Sunday. Personally i would have liked to hang out again by now but by reading the forums I've learned Taurus' like to take things slow and want to learn more about a person before they jump in which I am all for. He talked about hanging out this weekend so that makes me happy but I almost feel like he just wants to have sex because I couldn't before cause I was on my period.. Maybe I'm just being paranoid? He has made tiny comments that make me think he's on the same page as I am but he just takes things slower but at the same time I just don't want to get my hopes up because I could really see a future with him. Any advice would be soooo appreciated. Btw I'm a Pisces woman. Thanks guys!

Mars conjunct Sun right? amirite?

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Posted by smokeeater
I'm a Taurus and I like the thrill of the hunt. And for some reason I to stare, especially when I like a lady. Good luck. Taurus by nature are very persistent........he will come after you and you will think you got him and then all of a sudden you will realize he had you from the start. We are very smooth.

Posted by smokeeater
I'm a Taurus and I like the thrill of the hunt. And for some reason I to stare, especially when I like a lady. Good luck. Taurus by nature are very persistent........he will come after you and you will think you got him and then all of a sudden you will realize he had you from the start. We are very smooth.

Posted by AnomalousBull
I typically avoid Drinkers if I can, I don't find anything particularly sexy about such behavior. Life sucks, it's part of being an adult so get over it and move on.As for establishing contact, let him come to you. One of my pet peeves is when someone constantly initiates contact with me, especially when I'm not ready to reciprocate. It's one thing when you been together for a few years, but when it's all brand new it's annoying, and often works against you.

Posted by jeane
ugh god. calm down. if you want to be with a taurus you need to master the art of patience.

don't worry about where you stand. don't worry about him disappearing. he'll certain take to the hills if you start pressuring him with "what are we" questions so early on. it reeks of desperation and clingy-ness.

you see a future with him? good. start building the foundation of a solid friendship now. learn more about each other in a nice slow fashion. if there is a future, you won't need to rush into it.

Posted by tiziani
That wouldn't be much to do with having sex then.


It's just the fact you said you wanted one thing, and then did another.


At that point obviously he's going to take his time to see the real you.

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Posted by Jes8744
Well......... We did once so I'm thinking as busy said maybe I'm just part of his harem now cause we haven't hung out since then. The next day he told me he was sorry if I felt pressured to do it cause I had told him before that that I wanted to wait but we agreed we were caught up in the moment so if that's the end of that because I couldn't control myself I think I made my own bed on that
One.

hmm. tiz is right (as usual). give it time.

must.learn.to.control.yourself.

it's a pain that we as women can't act on our impulses without some retribution (at times) but sadly, waiting it out pays dividends in the end.

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Posted by busyeyes88

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Well......... We did once so I'm thinking as busy said maybe I'm just part of his harem now cause we haven't hung out since then. The next day he told me he was sorry if I felt pressured to do it cause I had told him before that that I wanted to wait but we agreed we were caught up in the moment so if that's the end of that because I couldn't control myself I think I made my own bed on that
One.

hmm. tiz is right (as usual). give it time.

must.learn.to.control.yourself.

it's a pain that we as women can't act on our impulses without some retribution (at times) but sadly, waiting it out pays dividends in the end.

Would it be too late to control myself now? Haha like once we hang out just pump the brakes if it gets too hot and heavy or am I SOL at this point?

Oh dear!! I did warn you! Am I the only woman that can 'hold out' for what I want?! I've had this taurus hunting me for 6 months and I'm still dangling the cherry!! Jeane is correct that even in the 21st century we have to 'hold off' having sex with a man until we know the situation. The problem is that some taurus is judgmental and we are as liberal and open minded as some of the mutable men like sag or virgo. The problem with taurus is sometimes once they have caught their prey.They get bored but taurus men are smooth talkers.and charmers.and with too many options. Better to hang out, KEEP CONTROL of.the emotions and establish a mental bond first before a physical bond!!!

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Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. If you have hung out together since you had sex that is a good sign. My suggestion is, put the brakes on and notice If his actions have changed, also note what he says and how he treats you. Get to know his interests. Does he have his venus in gemini?

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Posted by tiziani
We ARE stupid as men, but we're not as stupid as you're making us out to be.


sidenote: I'm not a Taurus man though.

Exactly!! You are not a taurus man!! My goodness, if things between a man and a woman were as simple as You make out the world would be a less complicated place!!!! Lol

All I am saying is that people need To take time to get to know each other!! You only have to read the taurus threads and it's the same problem time and time again. Because taurus is a slow mover the other person has to learn to move slowly too as this is how a taurus mind works whilst working the other person out! Move to soon physically before his emotions have caught then game over!! Harem here we come!!

For me it's not really about simplicity. Some things are just common sense.


She said one thing, did another. Inconsistency.


The idea that you can gloss over inconsistencies by "timing it right" and getting his emotions involved is like saying women or non-Taurus people don't have to be responsible for their actions.

Realistically if you show inconsistency in ANY area of a relationship in the early phases, not just sex, you're going to make the other person take a closer look.

It's not like anyone can MAKE men do, feel or think anything.

You could wait half a year, a year for someone and by the end of it you give yourself to them and they still don't like you that much. That's life. As long as both people took responsibility for themselves, no regrets. But you can't control people through sex. Men aren't oblivious.

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Posted by Jes8744

Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. If you have hung out together since you had sex that is a good sign. My suggestion is, put the brakes on and notice If his actions have changed, also note what he says and how he treats you. Get to know his interests. Does he have his venus in gemini?

We haven't hung out but we have talked almost everyday since.

I am not sure of anything else except for that he's a Taurus :/

Has it been weeks days or months since you both were physically in each other's company? Basically have you physically spent time with him since you had sex with him?

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Where's AB and TLS haha...when you need them..

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Posted by AnomalousBull
I remember when I signed up for a dating site years ago and had to fill out a personality survey then after over an hour of answering shitloads of questions it took me to my potential suitor page. Out of 40 Million registered Profiles, I didn't match with a single one. LOL.

I met my bull on a dating site and he was the only one out of 1000 men that I liked!!! lol Bulls are so picky!!! lol lol

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Haha hey AB everyone here needs your highly noted opinion of the OP and situation.... So there can you answer it the best you can honestly. Lol

And yeah dating sites omg.. Tell me about it. I know what you are saying seriously..I give up.

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Posted by AnomalousBull
I remember when I signed up for a dating site years ago and had to fill out a personality survey then after over an hour of answering shitloads of questions it took me to my potential suitor page. Out of 40 Million registered Profiles, I didn't match with a single one. LOL.

I met my bull on a dating site and he was the only one out of 1000 men that I liked!!! lol Bulls are so picky!!! lol lol

You are lucky then!

I attempt to find a woman who connects with me on six or seven levels which I consider the primary ones and if that ever does happen something serious might result from it but alas it hasn't thus far. lol.

But not so simple as this bull terminated a 11 year relationship so we have been hanging out as platonic friends for 6 months even though the attraction is there!! He has a VIG so would have liked to have physically moved things along between us right from the beginning but my mars in Taurus has been slowing things down and we have been hanging out and he just respects my wishes. We are not an official couple yet!!!

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