Pisces girl clueless with taurus guy

Hi!

I need some insight about this taurus guy, moon in libra and his rising sign is Aries. I'm a pisces female with moon in cancer and rising sign is pisces.

I'm trying so hard not to fall hard for him! We share so many things is common, the way we see things. Deep down, i know he's a good guy with a good heart. We always share a laugh, teasing each other. It's always lively and joyous whenever both of us are around.. everyone notices that, even at work. Everytime he's got something to share with the others and me, he'd lock eyes with me while explaining. Sometimes he acts goofy to me to get my attention or make me laugh. But i'm not sure if he likes me.. I'm not sure if i should make it more obvious that i like him. I know that his ex gf broke his heart and since then he's more focused on his career path. He keeps saying love/romance is for the weak willed. He also looks at other girls with his fellow friends even when i'm around..

This taurus boy is too complicated for me to decipher. Any advices? It feels good talking about it here! Thank you

wow, he said that directly? yeah, ur gonna need ample amounts of patience. he's butt hurt so he's in the mood to chase skirts right now. i would stay back and try to be his friend for now instead. ur in his line of fire too so be wary.

Hi again!

We're both good friends at work.. and since he's not so tech savvy, i often to help him with online applications, so that's how i got to know about it.

So me, Venus is in aquarius, Mars in Taurus and Mercury in Pisces.. while for him: Venus is in Gemini, Mars in Aquarius and Mercury in Taurus

Oh sorry i miscalculated it.. My moon is in gemini..

Thanks for your insight and kind words 🙂 Since we're kinda parting ways soon, i thought i'd hint it to him that i liked him.. or maybe he prolly guessed.. but i think i'll let it be.. let's see how it unfolds.. If it doesnt turn out the way i wish it to be .. i guess i'll prolly get over it ..

Thanks for listening *hugs* 😄

lol yes.. i feel this awesome chemistry with him.. even if he's not the most elegant guy around.. he's a charmer! We both got pluto in scorpio too.

many people claim that taurus guys don't like girls to do the chasing..

great! I'll try that.. i'll prolly try a peck on the cheek when we part.. the only thing that holds me back is the fact that he looks at girls with his male friends even when i'm around..

great! I'll try that.. i'll prolly try a peck on the cheek when we part.. the only thing that holds me back is the fact that he looks at girls with his male friends even when i'm around..

great! I'll try that.. i'll prolly try a peck on the cheek when we part.. the only thing that holds me back is the fact that he looks at girls with his male friends even when i'm around..

oops sorry for the multiple posts.. browser went bonkers

I'd just causually ask him out to dinner or drinks. No big deal just ask him if he wants to grab a bite or catch a drink 😉 If he turns you down then you'll know. 🙂

Moon - my tuarus was married when i got to know him. We were kinda how you are describing us. I'm not a home wrecker so because he was married i never crossed any lines. We just developed an awesome friendship. HIs wife asked him for a divorce, so once that was nearly ccomplete was when i kinda around the corner through the bushes... hinted i liked him. Being that he was coming out of a marriage i didn't want to be that rebound girl so i stayed back, even after he made it clear he wanted me too. I treated him like an "investment". bout 3-4 years later.. hes moved in and we are doing so well.

If you think you guys mesh that well, there's no harm in manicuring the friendship with the unkown possiblitity of something in the future. especailly if he's been hurt, he needs more time and will take longer for him to move in the direction you would like. So be that friend that's there for him that's flirty and open to the possibilities. But you gotta somehow make it known that you are at least somewhat interested but very lightly - not aggressive.

like most are saying, be patient.. keep the friendship going, these people are such loyal friends that you will be thankful you did even if it doesn't develope into more. 🙂

Good luck.. it could be a long road, but if it works all the work you did will pay off.

Oh and mine LOVES to be chased. Not aggressively, but he loves it subtly. he said he always waited to be approached.

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great! I'll try that.. i'll prolly try a peck on the cheek when we part.. the only thing that holds me back is the fact that he looks at girls with his male friends even when i'm around..

I wouldn't be put off by this...most men and hell, a lot of women do it to. I think it's only natural. My taurus is very obvious about it. I'd rather him be that way than sneak around. The better you are at letting him know you are comfortable with yourself by not caring he does this, the more he will like you. In fact, when he does it the next time and you are around, I'd say, yeah, she is hot! I'd love to see the look on his face 😉

Mine really appreciates how easy going I am when it comes to other women. It's never been an issue for me. We all do it!

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Posted by Moonshadow
great! I'll try that.. i'll prolly try a peck on the cheek when we part.. the only thing that holds me back is the fact that he looks at girls with his male friends even when i'm around..

I wouldn't be put off by this...most men and hell, a lot of women do it to. I think it's only natural. My taurus is very obvious about it. I'd rather him be that way than sneak around. The better you are at letting him know you are comfortable with yourself by not caring he does this, the more he will like you. In fact, when he does it the next time and you are around, I'd say, yeah, she is hot! I'd love to see the look on his face 😉

Mine really appreciates how easy going I am when it comes to other women. It's never been an issue for me. We all do it!

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Same with mine Ram. I even point them out haha but i'm very secure with my self and i too appreciate a prety face and nice body so i think it's fun. He loves it and i have heard him brag to his friends about it. But i'm not insecure with him, about him, or with us together so it's easy for me.

Too funny Baby G...mine brags to his buddies about it too! His friends are in awe that I have no issue with it. He will come home and tell me stories about his friends getting read the riot act for something so silly like commenting on a girl's body and he's like "I'm so lucky you don't care about stuff like that."
I'm often the one that says something first...I can definitely appreciate a beautiful woman.
If you are open about stuff like that, then there's less chance of them trying to hide it.

Exactly because they ALL do it, just whether it's obvious or not.

I don't think it's disrespectful either. Well, if he was drooling and broke his neck i might have a slight issue. But then hell i might ask her to come home with us LMAO

It's going on pretty smoothly for me. We chat, tease, banter as usual. He calls to make sure i got home safely on a night out.

I like teasing him about other girls but somehow i feel that it might give him the impression that i might not be interested. His natural charm makes him a girl magnet somehow, they all look at him with big lingering eyes, and this kinda makes me feel slightly jealous! I hate admitting it! I guess i gotta work on it. But most of them admit that he's so open and jokes around only when i'm around him. So that kinda reassures me 🙂 Also, he's got a cappy friend, a good friend who keeps hitting on me.. in a very open manner. He seems to be aware of it but he doesnt act on it. I try to be tactful and smooth while turning his friend down. I don't want him to think i might be interested in his friend.

I like teasing him about other girls but somehow i feel that it might give him the impression that i might not be interested.

Girl take a stand and get your man 🙂

Meaning, be his friend, let him talk to you about other chicks, help him out. But, slide in little enuendo's so it gives him something to think about so you don't fade into the back ground like you are not an option. Tell him about interests that approach you ( i wouldn't recommend his friend though lmao) Play the cat and mouse game. But BE THERE for him. when you're playing, do you touch him at all? They LOVE LOVE LOVE to be touched. so while your playing, casually place your hand on his arm like a lit rub, i hope you get what i mean by that. But do some limited contact. He cares or he wouldn't check up on you. Now you just have to develope it. if you do it suttle, you might be pleasantly happy 🙂