So there is this male friend that I met through a childhood friend and I have been getting to know the past couple of weeks. We have been on several dates and he has contacted me at least once everyday since our first date! (Amazing I know) I have been noticing lately though, that he has been a little more possessive than the "average male friend" has been with me. Not to tute my own horn, but I have the tendency to attract a lot of males when I go in public, and I dont think he is quite used to it yet, because he will make sly comments like, "You are attracting too many guys" while we are at a restaurant or something of that nature, and its cute but then kinda.. I dont know lol... I mean, Im quite sure he is more than interested in me, and is taking it slow but not boringly slow, which is good. But, is the possessive trait something that they do with all female friends or is it just with females they see a future with or what? 🙂 Just curious!
Possessive Tauruses
P.S.
No sex is involved in this equation! lol
No sex is involved in this equation! lol
Another p.s.
And I do not attract men with revealing clothing! I dress decently everywhere I go, so I wont attract the wrong attention; however, I am a scorpio so there is only so much I can do! haha
And I do not attract men with revealing clothing! I dress decently everywhere I go, so I wont attract the wrong attention; however, I am a scorpio so there is only so much I can do! haha

Hon, I'm not a scorpio and I attract that kind of attention all the time. Maybe it's the scorpio rising...who knows?
And there's nothing wrong with wearing revealing clothing...as long as it's not accompanied by giant artificial boobs and bleached blonde hair. Classy...not trashy.
Back to your question, yes bulls are possessive. We like what's ours or what we perceive to have potential to be ours.
So he sees you've got potential and he doesn't wanna share.
And there's nothing wrong with wearing revealing clothing...as long as it's not accompanied by giant artificial boobs and bleached blonde hair. Classy...not trashy.
Back to your question, yes bulls are possessive. We like what's ours or what we perceive to have potential to be ours.
So he sees you've got potential and he doesn't wanna share.

"so wait, you telling me she can wear a bikini top to work, if she doesn't have fake boobs and bleached hair?"
Tsk tsk GB that's why I said - Classy...not trashy.
Appropriate revealing = classy
Inappropriate revealing = trashy
"whoa whoa whoa, what's wrong with big boobs?"
Nothing. It's the artificial part I was referring to.
Tsk tsk GB that's why I said - Classy...not trashy.
Appropriate revealing = classy
Inappropriate revealing = trashy
"whoa whoa whoa, what's wrong with big boobs?"
Nothing. It's the artificial part I was referring to.

That COULD happen. But I'm talking the really obviously trashy looks...ya know? Like... the hooker down the street...kinda look.
The rest, of course, is subjective.
The rest, of course, is subjective.

something classy alone doesn't always cut it 😉 if you don't have the respect to get to know someone before you make a judgement on their character based on how they appear alone, then you shouldn't be judging them to begin with. i thought i was demonstrating that, but i suppose things have a way of backfiring.

"what if something you think is classy, someone's sees as closet trashy."
i wonder if that means we can't always control who it is we are attracting
i wonder if that means we can't always control who it is we are attracting
"And there's nothing wrong with wearing revealing clothing...as long as it's not accompanied by giant artificial boobs and bleached blonde hair. Classy...not trashy."
Noooooo lol, I added the "revealing clothing" comment because I believe it would make sense if I walked around in stripper shoes and shorts with the cheeks greeting everyone, and he got possessively upset! lol, that doesnt mean that I wear turtlenecks and sweatpants by any means! haha
"ps. where a bikini top to work, they'll love you"
Hahaa, I def will be thinking about that.. haha, ya right..
"and what's up with this nighty(night gown) phenomenon, chicks are have on a knight gown top with clothes underneath, it looks dumb. it's proof you chicks just wanna be naked."
Totally agree on the looking dumb part...
Back on Topic though, I just find it weirdly funny. He gets A LOT of attention as well, but flirts his way out of it. But when I see male friends that I knew from school and what not, he gets possessive and starts saying things like, "Too many dudes are looking at you... If I see another one looking..." ahaha, and I laugh because I'm like whateva its something you probably gotta get used to... Im not the "average possessive/jealous Scorpio" so when I see him flirting Im just like ok...lol, with no effects. Hmmmm, interesting though!!
Noooooo lol, I added the "revealing clothing" comment because I believe it would make sense if I walked around in stripper shoes and shorts with the cheeks greeting everyone, and he got possessively upset! lol, that doesnt mean that I wear turtlenecks and sweatpants by any means! haha
"ps. where a bikini top to work, they'll love you"
Hahaa, I def will be thinking about that.. haha, ya right..
"and what's up with this nighty(night gown) phenomenon, chicks are have on a knight gown top with clothes underneath, it looks dumb. it's proof you chicks just wanna be naked."
Totally agree on the looking dumb part...
Back on Topic though, I just find it weirdly funny. He gets A LOT of attention as well, but flirts his way out of it. But when I see male friends that I knew from school and what not, he gets possessive and starts saying things like, "Too many dudes are looking at you... If I see another one looking..." ahaha, and I laugh because I'm like whateva its something you probably gotta get used to... Im not the "average possessive/jealous Scorpio" so when I see him flirting Im just like ok...lol, with no effects. Hmmmm, interesting though!!

If it's just a female friend I couldn't care less. Unless said friend is obviously uncomfortable and the guys are violating her personal boundaries then I'd step up and say something. Otherwise they do as they like.
If he's making these comments and stuff then I'd have to say, yeah. Guy is definitely interested in you. If you feel the same way, reassure him. That's something you'll have to do a lot so you'll have to figure out for yourself if you can deal with it.
How exactly does he flirt his way out of it when females give him attention when you're around? Is he not interested but doesn't completely reject the women? That's probably his way of showing you that he can get other girls but has no interest in them, just you. Which is why he is with you.
If he's making these comments and stuff then I'd have to say, yeah. Guy is definitely interested in you. If you feel the same way, reassure him. That's something you'll have to do a lot so you'll have to figure out for yourself if you can deal with it.
How exactly does he flirt his way out of it when females give him attention when you're around? Is he not interested but doesn't completely reject the women? That's probably his way of showing you that he can get other girls but has no interest in them, just you. Which is why he is with you.

The foot is gross, but I kind of like the shoe!

easy there prom queen, no need to jump into that porn career so fast

LOL, arent we all a little naughty

"he has been a little more possessive than the "average male friend""
You might find that he is also a little more loyal. It's a price worth paying.
You might find that he is also a little more loyal. It's a price worth paying.

that pic of those feet..those are some nasty ass feet.

Yup that's how they are. I got a Taurus Moon and Venus and I am very jealous. Luckily my Scorpio boyfriend doesn't get scared LOL.
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