Still infatuated with a Taurus....ughhhhh

I wrote a post on 10/22/06 about Virgo meets Taurus...if you have the time you can go and read it...if not in a nutshell...I met a taurus about a year or so ago, at the place where he use to work...he grabbed my attention like no other man,we almost went out but it never worked out. I have not seen him since he left last October of 2006...tell me why I my heart palpatates when I hear his name or why the brief memory of our interaction still lingers in my mind, I mean I had it BAD and I can't forget about him....and we never got a chance...he was just not that into me I guess...recently, someone we know mutually said they would pry into his personal life and see if he's available...what should I do? Its too hard to pass up....and at this point a rejection would feel better than the damnation to wondering what if....HELP!!!

P.S. why are taurus men so irresistably slow....

I have read so many posts about women being hooked on a Taurus man, who isn't that interested, or they are just on the outskirts of his life. I don't get it either, but I am glad I found this forum because I have just been through the same thing. Urrggghhhh is right! I can't stop thinking about this guy even though it's goin nowhere. Damn those Taurus men!

Virgojewel:
Ok, where do i start? I feel the big sister talk coming on! Firstly, are you sure its not you who is too slow? the man left in October 2006 (almost a year ago!) and you still can't get over him...if your feelings were that deep you should have made a move while you were still in contact! Ok, so giving you the benefit of the doubt and you didn't know how you felt until now...don't you think if he felt the same way he would have kept in contact? I'm sorry if i sound a bit harsh but it seems like you never really had anything with this Taurus and living your life in a fantasy really isn't healthy. Somehow i think this is more like a schoolgirl crush than anything serious. If you are really serious and want to, then let your friend pry into his peronal life...if he's avaiable go for it, put all your cards on the table and see what happens...if he's not...please for your sake move on! Taurus men are slow but they will not lead you if there's no chance and will not let you go easily if they feel for you...if he wants you he'll tell you and if not at least you will know! I would think carefully though, how much do you actually know about him, is he really worth it? Good luck!

LOL! Welcome colleir...i think i'm going to like you! 😉

*ROFL* Ok, now i know for sure....i reeeeeeeeally do like u collier!

Damn...slap? shake? slap? shake? slap? shake? slap? shake? hmmmmmmm...i'm not sure! Can I do both collier?

I dont know where you been getting your information but the people i bite are quite happy with the areas in which i choose to bite them! I come highly recommended so stop hating Merc!

*Venuslady gets out a can of hater-raid and sprays Merc to death..."damn that bug"✨

oh yall stop acting up! lol With all this stuff I hear about Taurus men...it might just be me but they seem to boring in a grandfather kind of way to even bother with...eyck!!

I came back and saw 23 replies and thought to myself Gosh I have some good feedback well not really more like chatter box central...it's cool guys...bite me will you😉 yeah it may be a school girl fantasy type crush...its true, but remember we women tend to be irrational with our feelings at times...it's unlike me but having felt this strongly for someone makes me feel more normal more human...it just didn't work out how I wanted and I tried to play with the few cards I had....heres the old post from back in 10/2006...the whole story if your interested.

"I will try make this short becuase I need to get as many of you taurus men to help me out here....

I've had many crushes, but NEVER this bad....I mean this taurus I know is toxic for me, but I can't get him out of my head...but he has no idea what I feel and he works at the place I frequently go to...He comes across as very serious and almost intimidating but his reserved proffessionalism is what I find so sexy.....ahhh...seriously I wonder how chemistry this bad can be one sided.

Anyway in the last 6 months we've only become acquaintences...he's flirted with me very briefly, suggested we should go out for drinks sometime, but never made the move to plan...he stepped away and I started to really notice him, so I stepped in to help him after time passed and try to plan to go out, and it seemed to backfire, ahhh why are you taurus men so into challenges and games....to make the long story short, he started to ignore me so, we didn't talk for 3 months and finally he broke the ice and said he thought I had been mad at him....(this is so juvenile, I know but can I help how feel? nooooo)....I being the one to seek harmony with all my fellow men, made peace with him, and he started to compliment me again like he had done in the beginning.....

Now, I still like him but I don't know how to act he's so hot and cold.....ahhhhh it's frustrating but i know that if I try to befriend him he will pull back again, what do I do—

By the way he was in the middle of a break up with his girlfriend of many years....so not an advantage for me I know....life is never easy is it? HELP, I like him!!"

P.s. the real reason I came back, I feel like my friends think I'm insane and this place just seems like it has people dealing with what I"m going through and understand so thanks for the support....

P.S.S. the girlfriend who wants to hook me up is going to dig into his personal life so lets see...

He might like you. He might not like you. Sometimes I might think a guy is really cute and flirt with him with no real interest in a relationship with him other than conversations and laughs. I'm pretty direct about going for what I want when I check it out and figure it's what I want. I would suggest finding a moment, when the time is right, to have a conversation with him and ask him to candidly and honestly tell you his feelings for you and if he would like to get to know you better. If you're "helping him out" too much that might be a sign that he isnt too interested and he might have sensed your affections and now he doesn't want to hurt you by telling you straight out. I've been accused of being a heartbreaker for simply telling someone I would be their friend and we could share convo, but other than that I wasn't interested, I didn't like being called that so I avoided telling guys no...but at the end of the day I felt worse when it seemed like I was leading them on, that might be why you hadn't heard from him. He might like you, so I really suggest, even if your friend is going to "hook you up" (which won't work if he doesn't like you anyway, I know I've always been capable of hooking myself up as Im sure this guy is too), that you as him straight up and clear the air for him to be honest with you.

I just saw him tonight...by some freak accident he had to come back to where he used to work...thank God for flooding rain...he was cordial and pretty nice...after all it's been a while...........I don't know how weird is it that i havent' seen him since last October!

So what did you do when you saw him? please tell me you made a move or something...this was your chance girl!!!!

Its' cool don't worry mercyinaries, it' s always gotta be the aries starting trouble eh?

"So what did you do when you saw him? please tell me you made a move or something...this was your chance girl!!!!"

Listen I was ready to sit down, and say "put me out of my misery and reject me now!" but my better judgement told me not to act on impulse instead cease the moment to have me place me on the map again if he had forgotten of my existence, I was friendly but not to friendly...it went smoothly actually...he greeted me asked about my life...and said I looked good...I gave a half compliment...not too pushy but friendly enough....and then I went off to do what I needed too and on my way out I said...."wow, it's like you never left....you miss it here? and he said 'yes, I really do" and right before I could spill my guts out someone came into the office and our conversation had to cease....so that was the goodbye and maybe divine intervention didn't allow me to get that opportunity, maybe not the right timing....at any rate if anyone would believe in fate, they would say there is something to this story...I don't know I do.

Virgojewel I KNOW what you mean!!! I met a Taurus male online through a hobby we both share. He was not even available, meaning he has a girlfriend. So even from the begining for us it was never about having a relationship. We emailed a lot, just as friends. Then he disapeared, just cut it off with me. I understood because he is involved with someone else and so am I, and we were just casual friends- we had no obligations.
BUT I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM EVER!!! He haunts my mind daily!! I hate it. I want it to stop. I have NEVER EVER had this happen before. Drives me crazy! But I did love him as a friend. I would like just to forget about him.

I think everytime he enters my mind I will scream, "NOOOOOOOOOO!" Maybe that will help..LOL!

Next time I meet a guy I'm going to ask him if he's a Taurus. If he says "yes". I'm going to excuse myself quickly and run away!!!!

Moon,

Worry not...all feelings tend to reside with time..it has just taken me an eternity and remember feelings tend to be irrational sometimes and when we are more emotional than logical it can torment us to no end...
Fortunetely I had more answers come my way in regards to my taurus...I met someone who knew him and pretty much confirmed that by his actions he must have had feelings but he too was dealing with his significant other and who knows what was the ordeal although he was honest with me from the start....and I think out of respect for his girlfriend he had to cut all ties....hohumm...

I recently found out he was single from another source and I was going to have this friend try to arrange something but I decided I don't want to manipulate anything that deals with love/relationships in my life....
Yes, this taurus captured my heart like no other. Yes, from every objective view point we were perfect for eachother. And yes, my attraction and longing for this dude was a feeling I wouldn't mind having with someone for a very long time. BUT, all things that are meant to be will come to us without our intervention, I really believe that...so it may time, but time will reveil our destiny..(ooo, kinda deep even for me😉)

Final thought, my friend who's aunt specializes in reading charts and relationship compatability according to b-day's said things that blew me away..

She said this man is viewed as a prince by many (oh dear including me) but in reality he's just a chariot driver. He will never lack for female attention becuase of his good looks and that we are not very compatible after all. I have to becareful with settling becuase I adjust easily...this comes from a person who doesn't know me from adam. I found it interesting!