Pros out-weighed the Cons?

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Love2Love
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My bull is back! I'm not sure how to take it, so I've opted for slow. Really, really, slow!

@JohnTheBaptist100 your advice was gold! 😉

I ignored the fuck out of him and got on with my life. He couldn't even last two weeks. He called me and asked to talk. We hashed out quite a bit, as painful as it seemed for him! (Taurus men have a tough time opening up huh?).

He invited me out to a black tie event, which we enjoyed. Standard, I brushed up well and slayed in my evening gown. He looked so hot in his black suit!!! A friend of his even said "It should be illegal for a couple to look so good together!" Which totally floated my bulls boat!!! Even though he hated other guys looking at me. Lol 😄

He now picks me up from work 3 times a week (the days I finish early). We hang out for a few hours until around 6-7pm and then we go about our business. So far, so good. I'm guessing weighing up the pros and cons, brought the pros up trumps! As I expected.

I can be a little dramatic when pushed, but only someone who I care about would ever know how to push me that way. I don't register or have energy to waste on people who mean nothing to me...I've let this here bull know that, the fear of losing him has left me, so we either put in equal effort or none!!! Watch this space...😉
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Posted by Belle_Gemini
I just came across your post...are you a Gemini ? I'm having trouble with my bull...he says he likes me, acts like it but when it's time to meet up he never sets anything in stone. But will constantly FaceTime me and say he wishes I was there.....SOS
I'm not a Gem and neither am I a real expert on bulls. I just know I always attract them... I would say as with anybody, don't be 'the option'. Ask him why he doesn't seem to want to meet up, and let him know his 'FaceTime' annoys you.

The one thing I have learned most about bull men is that they press buttons! If you are being too passive, he may think you're not serious or worth taking seriously. Tell him you really want to hang out, that when he doesn't show it hurts your feelings, and that you feel like his rubbing it in your face when he messages you after a no show.

Then, call up your peeps and enjoy yourself as Gems know how to best! If he is for real, he will contact you. If not, you're not sitting around waiting for nothing to happen!!! Hope that's helpful.

Out of interest, how long have you been with him?

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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by Belle_Gemini
I just came across your post...are you a Gemini ? I'm having trouble with my bull...he says he likes me, acts like it but when it's time to meet up he never sets anything in stone. But will constantly FaceTime me and say he wishes I was there.....SOS
U sound long distance....

Taurus men are not good at ldr's even with the aloof attitude they tend to give off...

U need to get to know him as a friend first...
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Yeah it is long distance ? we met via social media....what's strange is that he's always the one to initiate everything but then doesn't follow through...

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Posted by Love2Love
Posted by Belle_Gemini
I just came across your post...are you a Gemini ? I'm having trouble with my bull...he says he likes me, acts like it but when it's time to meet up he never sets anything in stone. But will constantly FaceTime me and say he wishes I was there.....SOS
I'm not a Gem and neither am I a real expert on bulls. I just know I always attract them... I would say as with anybody, don't be 'the option'. Ask him why he doesn't seem to want to meet up, and let him know his 'FaceTime' annoys you.

The one thing I have learned most about bull men is that they press buttons! If you are being too passive, he may think you're not serious or worth taking seriously. Tell him you really want to hang out, that when he doesn't show it hurts your feelings, and that you feel like his rubbing it in your face when he messages you after a no show.

Then, call up your peeps and enjoy yourself as Gems know how to best! If he is for real, he will contact you. If not, you're not sitting around waiting for nothing to happen!!! Hope that's helpful.

Out of interest, how long have you been with him?

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Hmmm yeah, I thought maybe I needed to be a little more assertive so I came right out and told him dates that work for me & he didn't really say much about it, but continued to talk about other things ?

I've known him since January, I'm starting to think there might be someone else on his end...it doesn't make much sense to me.