Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428A week. He reached out to me a few weeks before and i completely forgot to respond back altogether. He reached out again and I replied, he replied, then I completely forgot again. :/
How long has it been since you guys talked? If it is casual then it's a casual sometime hit you up because people are busy and it's okay but you will have to just casually say hey how are you, I would like to take you out sometime and actually do it the day you planned.
Why are you forgetful with a Taurus, I mean how serious are you guys?
I get people are busy and have life depending I wouldn't not mind getting in touch with friends so you say. If you are in a relationship though.
I have lots of air placements through my chart and I am forgetful in stuff like where are my keys. But if there was a connection I stick to it and if something bothered me as not enough communication then I speak up tell them whatever reason you forgot, and make it up.
Posted by PV&JellayI do like him.Posted by leodilemma19900730You've forgotten him twice. Are you sure that you're into this guy?Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428A week. He reached out to me a few weeks before and i completely forgot to respond back altogether. He reached out again and I replied, he replied, then I completely forgot again. :/
How long has it been since you guys talked? If it is casual then it's a casual sometime hit you up because people are busy and it's okay but you will have to just casually say hey how are you, I would like to take you out sometime and actually do it the day you planned.
Why are you forgetful with a Taurus, I mean how serious are you guys?
I get people are busy and have life depending I wouldn't not mind getting in touch with friends so you say. If you are in a relationship though.
I have lots of air placements through my chart and I am forgetful in stuff like where are my keys. But if there was a connection I stick to it and if something bothered me as not enough communication then I speak up tell them whatever reason you forgot, and make it up.click to expand
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I'm not sure. I do know that I'm incredibley ADD lmao. If it's not a big project, paper, just any important task I just forget.
Do you have air in your chart to be forgetful?
Does he has fixed elements like I do because if he does in communication and action oh boy he might not be so forgiving as to why you are doing this for. Actions not words go far.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Yea I'm not sure where this going. The last text he kind of mentioned something about seeing each other but it was fairly indirect lol and asking how his fav leo girl is. I'm not sure if he's giving me a taste of my own medicine or he just completely said eff it :/
Shit! Damn! Yeah what PV&J mentions. But it's a casual and nothing to worry because it's about just friends right now anyhow. Right now that is, if both wanted something meaningful then I would be upset just a tad and detach a little bit...So now he did his part, you do yours but both need to mutually keep at it..
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Oh and here is his chart.
Do you have air in your chart to be forgetful?
Does he has fixed elements like I do because if he does in communication and action oh boy he might not be so forgiving as to why you are doing this for. Actions not words go far.
Posted by PV&JellayThat's what i thought I was doing lol but then i got no response from him. Then again I guess in this situation it's going to take more than just one try huh?Posted by leodilemma19900730Maybe you need to step up and initiate some. A man isn't gonna just keep chasing if you don't reciprocate some type of interest. I've never known leos to be lackadaisical when it comes to dating, unless they are just lukewarm about a person. Find someone who wows you and then you won't forget to reply, because you'll be too busy checking your phone continuously looking for a reply. Let this guy bow out gracefully. Youre just not that into him.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Yea I'm not sure where this going. The last text he kind of mentioned something about seeing each other but it was fairly indirect lol and asking how his fav leo girl is. I'm not sure if he's giving me a taste of my own medicine or he just completely said eff it :/
Shit! Damn! Yeah what PV&J mentions. But it's a casual and nothing to worry because it's about just friends right now anyhow. Right now that is, if both wanted something meaningful then I would be upset just a tad and detach a little bit...So now he did his part, you do yours but both need to mutually keep at it..click to expand
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Ugh I hope so too. I just hope that a week for me to reach out wasn't too long for him to change his mind :/
Damn woman. I hope you work it out and not to late. Also make sure he really is single and what he wants and see if this is what you want. But you said casually. ..if you want casual let him go. If you want something serious just explain it. FYI don't forgot dates planned, or birthdays, or special occasions.
Posted by busyeyes88I really do mean it when I say I'm forgetful (very ADD lol). I'm bad with getting back in touch with my family as well so it's not just him. I did respond back to him last week I just forgot to reply after a while.Posted by leodilemma19900730You can't really be that serious about him because if you were, how could you "forget" to respond to him?! I suggest you leave him alone to find someone who won't "forget" to reach out to him. If you really like someone, it shouldn't be THAT hard regardless of you are doing!Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428A week. He reached out to me a few weeks before and i completely forgot to respond back altogether. He reached out again and I replied, he replied, then I completely forgot again. :/
How long has it been since you guys talked? If it is casual then it's a casual sometime hit you up because people are busy and it's okay but you will have to just casually say hey how are you, I would like to take you out sometime and actually do it the day you planned.
Why are you forgetful with a Taurus, I mean how serious are you guys?
I get people are busy and have life depending I wouldn't not mind getting in touch with friends so you say. If you are in a relationship though.
I have lots of air placements through my chart and I am forgetful in stuff like where are my keys. But if there was a connection I stick to it and if something bothered me as not enough communication then I speak up tell them whatever reason you forgot, and make it up.
Taurus sun with leo moonclick to expand
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428So even though I initiated (showing interest) still seems like I'm not truly intetested in him?
Yeah even a Taurus with Aquarius moon would be like she's not serious about you in that way guess I should leave before I get caught up and really like someone who doesn't have time.
Posted by busyeyes88How can it be an ego thing when I said I'm the same way with my own family?Posted by leodilemma19900730Still no excuse for bad manners and I have a Leo moon and rising and I just don't "forget". I think you get an ego stroke out of playing a "silent" game... Just leave him be. Find someone else with manners just like yours and then you may get a taste of your own "forgetful" medicine...Posted by busyeyes88I really do mean it when I say I'm forgetful (very ADD lol). I'm bad with getting back in touch with my family as well so it's not just him. I did respond back to him last week I just forgot to reply after a while.Posted by leodilemma19900730You can't really be that serious about him because if you were, how could you "forget" to respond to him?! I suggest you leave him alone to find someone who won't "forget" to reach out to him. If you really like someone, it shouldn't be THAT hard regardless of you are doing!Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428A week. He reached out to me a few weeks before and i completely forgot to respond back altogether. He reached out again and I replied, he replied, then I completely forgot again. :/
How long has it been since you guys talked? If it is casual then it's a casual sometime hit you up because people are busy and it's okay but you will have to just casually say hey how are you, I would like to take you out sometime and actually do it the day you planned.
Why are you forgetful with a Taurus, I mean how serious are you guys?
I get people are busy and have life depending I wouldn't not mind getting in touch with friends so you say. If you are in a relationship though.
I have lots of air placements through my chart and I am forgetful in stuff like where are my keys. But if there was a connection I stick to it and if something bothered me as not enough communication then I speak up tell them whatever reason you forgot, and make it up.
Taurus sun with leo moonclick to expand
Posted by AgentP911I really can't explain how serious I am about forgetting. Again, this just doesn't happen with him but with people in extremely close to. No ego boosting here. I did respond back to him but I got busy with work and eventually forgot to respond. The way i am is ill look at the phone but then realize I'm supposed to be working on the task at hand and then forget.
Leo, if you were interested in him and had any intention of being a friend or even a casual friend/relationship or for something maybe more then you'd engage your manners and reply to him. Full stop.
You'd also let him know the score rather than keeping him hanging. He's obviously got some level of interest in you but you appear barely luke warm for him. That's fine but you need to tell him you're not that into him or you don't see him in that way. Alternatively, if you feel you like him but want to get to know him slowly as you have other things on then you should put that to him so it's all clear.
I think you know exactly what you're doing and are excusing your crap behaviour with labels like ADD and saying you're forget to everyone. Nice ego boost. If you know you have ADD then you'd put provisions in place to deal with it better such as responding back when you've read the message instead of putting it off knowing you'll forget later. If you kept walking into a door and it hurt you wouldn't keep doing it, would you? No.
If you're interested in him then tell him and make time to respond back and go out with him. Quit with the ego boosting. If boot were on other foot you'd be here whinging about the guy not responding to you and how would that make you feel? Like shit I would think.
Posted by busyeyes88It isn't healthy for her ego already lolPosted by TaurusMarineOP is afraid the taurus will develop the same 'ADD" that she has and ignore and that would not be good for her leo ego now would it OP?!!!!
C'mon, girl!!! Despite sitting here asking around, DO CONTACT him. What are you afraid of? Rejection? Make rejection your friend, get over impressions. It's OK for a woman to contact a man esp when you said he initiated most of the contact. Go get it!click to expand
Posted by leodilemma19900730I appreciate that BUT...Posted by AgentP911I really can't explain how serious I am about forgetting. Again, this just doesn't happen with him but with people in extremely close to. No ego boosting here. I did respond back to him but I got busy with work and eventually forgot to respond. The way i am is ill look at the phone but then realize I'm supposed to be working on the task at hand and then forget.
Leo, if you were interested in him and had any intention of being a friend or even a casual friend/relationship or for something maybe more then you'd engage your manners and reply to him. Full stop.
You'd also let him know the score rather than keeping him hanging. He's obviously got some level of interest in you but you appear barely luke warm for him. That's fine but you need to tell him you're not that into him or you don't see him in that way. Alternatively, if you feel you like him but want to get to know him slowly as you have other things on then you should put that to him so it's all clear.
I think you know exactly what you're doing and are excusing your crap behaviour with labels like ADD and saying you're forget to everyone. Nice ego boost. If you know you have ADD then you'd put provisions in place to deal with it better such as responding back when you've read the message instead of putting it off knowing you'll forget later. If you kept walking into a door and it hurt you wouldn't keep doing it, would you? No.
If you're interested in him then tell him and make time to respond back and go out with him. Quit with the ego boosting. If boot were on other foot you'd be here whinging about the guy not responding to you and how would that make you feel? Like shit I would think.click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88Making fun of someone with ADD is unneccesaryPosted by TaurusMarineOP is afraid the taurus will develop the same 'ADD" that she has and ignore and that would not be good for her leo ego now would it OP?!!!!
C'mon, girl!!! Despite sitting here asking around, DO CONTACT him. What are you afraid of? Rejection? Make rejection your friend, get over impressions. It's OK for a woman to contact a man esp when you said he initiated most of the contact. Go get it!click to expand
Posted by TaurusMarineThat's the thing I have lol...but I'm guessing once isn't enough here.
C'mon, girl!!! Despite sitting here asking around, DO CONTACT him. What are you afraid of? Rejection? Make rejection your friend, get over impressions. It's OK for a woman to contact a man esp when you said he initiated most of the contact. Go get it!
Posted by AgentP911That's the thing i do forget those kinds of things sometimes :/ lol. Putting gas in the car, leaving the sPosted by leodilemma19900730I appreciate that BUT...Posted by AgentP911I really can't explain how serious I am about forgetting. Again, this just doesn't happen with him but with people in extremely close to. No ego boosting here. I did respond back to him but I got busy with work and eventually forgot to respond. The way i am is ill look at the phone but then realize I'm supposed to be working on the task at hand and then forget.
Leo, if you were interested in him and had any intention of being a friend or even a casual friend/relationship or for something maybe more then you'd engage your manners and reply to him. Full stop.
You'd also let him know the score rather than keeping him hanging. He's obviously got some level of interest in you but you appear barely luke warm for him. That's fine but you need to tell him you're not that into him or you don't see him in that way. Alternatively, if you feel you like him but want to get to know him slowly as you have other things on then you should put that to him so it's all clear.
I think you know exactly what you're doing and are excusing your crap behaviour with labels like ADD and saying you're forget to everyone. Nice ego boost. If you know you have ADD then you'd put provisions in place to deal with it better such as responding back when you've read the message instead of putting it off knowing you'll forget later. If you kept walking into a door and it hurt you wouldn't keep doing it, would you? No.
If you're interested in him then tell him and make time to respond back and go out with him. Quit with the ego boosting. If boot were on other foot you'd be here whinging about the guy not responding to you and how would that make you feel? Like shit I would think.
You don't forget to get up, you don't forget to shower, you don't forget how to get to work, to drive, public transport, you don't forget to eat, you don't forget to do your work, you don't forget to do many things that you WANT to do. If you know you're not good with responding then you'd reply to him and say you'd love to talk to him but you're at work now so you'd love it if he'd text/call after (whatever time you're free) or you could set a reminder on your phone to text/call him when you know you'll be free. You could even explain to him that you have ADD and how that affects things for you but that you do appreciate his communication and you do like him and that you understand life isn't all about you. Stop being lazy and full of excuses and bullshit.click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Are you ADD? By your response I'm going to say no. look I've forgotten to put gas in my car, left the stove on, even forgot my luggage for a vacation. So even very important things I forget.
Forgetful and head in the clouds? Head up her arse more like!
Gotta love those labels... Excuses it all away...
Posted by leodilemma19900730'I let him pursue (she's fully aware of that) and he does 99.9% of the contacting (she's fully aware of that too).
So I've been casually seeing a Taurus man, it's still fairly early in the courting phase. I let him pursue and he does 99.9% of the contacting. I'm incredibly forgetful and these last few weeks I've been working on a very important profect for school and forgot to respond back to him. I finally reached out to him and got no response :/. Should I just reach out again, exlain myself and try to set up a time for us to see each other?
Posted by KoniuchaThank you. I don't think they really understand how forgetful you can be sometimes.
@leodilemma19900730 I just wanted to let you know that I understand.
I have been told I may have ADD. I can be quite forgetful and have my head in the clouds.
Posted by leodilemma19900730No. Although occasionally I'm schizophrenic but she doesn't like that label.Posted by AgentP911Are you ADD? By your response I'm going to say no. look I've forgotten to put gas in my car, left the stove on, even forgot my luggage for a vacation. So even very important things I forget.
Forgetful and head in the clouds? Head up her arse more like!
Gotta love those labels... Excuses it all away...click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Thank you ๐. I'm really not trying to leave him hanging if i did I def wouldn't be here haha. I'll be sure to try and be better with communicating. Here's what I'm confused about, if he thinks I'm not interested and I reach out wouldn't that show him that I am interested?Posted by leodilemma19900730'I let him pursue (she's fully aware of that) and he does 99.9% of the contacting (she's fully aware of that too).
So I've been casually seeing a Taurus man, it's still fairly early in the courting phase. I let him pursue and he does 99.9% of the contacting. I'm incredibly forgetful and these last few weeks I've been working on a very important profect for school and forgot to respond back to him. I finally reached out to him and got no response :/. Should I just reach out again, exlain myself and try to set up a time for us to see each other?
But to answer your actual question - yes, reach out, let him know how things are in your life etc as he probably thinks you're not interested. If he's still interested he'll respond back. Just put provisions in place so you don't keep the poor fella hanging โclick to expand
Posted by KoniuchaNot too forgetful I see! โฐPosted by AgentP911Fuck off
Forgetful and head in the clouds? Head up her arse more like!
Gotta love those labels... Excuses it all away...click to expand
Posted by leodilemma19900730We don't have much of the back story here but...Posted by AgentP911Thank you ๐. I'm really not trying to leave him hanging if i did I def wouldn't be here haha. I'll be sure to try and be better with communicating. Here's what I'm confused about, if he thinks I'm not interested and I reach out wouldn't that show him that I am interested?Posted by leodilemma19900730'I let him pursue (she's fully aware of that) and he does 99.9% of the contacting (she's fully aware of that too).
So I've been casually seeing a Taurus man, it's still fairly early in the courting phase. I let him pursue and he does 99.9% of the contacting. I'm incredibly forgetful and these last few weeks I've been working on a very important profect for school and forgot to respond back to him. I finally reached out to him and got no response :/. Should I just reach out again, exlain myself and try to set up a time for us to see each other?
But to answer your actual question - yes, reach out, let him know how things are in your life etc as he probably thinks you're not interested. If he's still interested he'll respond back. Just put provisions in place so you don't keep the poor fella hanging โclick to expand
Posted by AgentP911By me reaching out yesterday doesn't that show that I'm interested though?Posted by leodilemma19900730We don't have much of the back story here but...Posted by AgentP911Thank you ๐. I'm really not trying to leave him hanging if i did I def wouldn't be here haha. I'll be sure to try and be better with communicating. Here's what I'm confused about, if he thinks I'm not interested and I reach out wouldn't that show him that I am interested?Posted by leodilemma19900730'I let him pursue (she's fully aware of that) and he does 99.9% of the contacting (she's fully aware of that too).
So I've been casually seeing a Taurus man, it's still fairly early in the courting phase. I let him pursue and he does 99.9% of the contacting. I'm incredibly forgetful and these last few weeks I've been working on a very important profect for school and forgot to respond back to him. I finally reached out to him and got no response :/. Should I just reach out again, exlain myself and try to set up a time for us to see each other?
But to answer your actual question - yes, reach out, let him know how things are in your life etc as he probably thinks you're not interested. If he's still interested he'll respond back. Just put provisions in place so you don't keep the poor fella hanging โ
What exactly is it you're confused about?
You've already started seeing him casually so it's safe to say you're both interested in each other.
What do you actually want with him or from him?click to expand
Posted by AgentP911I texted him at 1AM saying hey, wake up.
Well I dunno, you could have told him to fuck off โฐ
What did you tell him?
Posted by leodilemma19900730Jeez... And you wonder why you're confused...Posted by AgentP911I texted him at 1AM saying hey, wake up.
Well I dunno, you could have told him to fuck off โฐ
What did you tell him?
....as I'm typing this im realizing that probably wasn't that good of an idea lol :/click to expand
Posted by AgentP911ยฉ I know right lol. I clearly need to work on the way I communicate. I haven't casually dated/courted in such a long time (ended a 5 year relationship months ago) and I'm only 23 so I guess I'm just kind of lost right now lol. He did finally get back in contact with me though.Posted by leodilemma19900730Jeez... And you wonder why you're confused...Posted by AgentP911I texted him at 1AM saying hey, wake up.
Well I dunno, you could have told him to treetrunk off โฐ
What did you tell him?
....as I'm typing this im realizing that probably wasn't that good of an idea lol :/click to expand
Posted by leodilemma19900730Result! Nice one! Just take it easy and maybe start out as friends (not with benefits) to give yourself some thinking time. You gotta sort that communication out though! I'll let you off though as you're only a young 'un!Posted by AgentP911ยฉ I know right lol. I clearly need to work on the way I communicate. I haven't casually dated/courted in such a long time (ended a 5 year relationship months ago) and I'm only 23 so I guess I'm just kind of lost right now lol. He did finally get back in contact with me though.Posted by leodilemma19900730Jeez... And you wonder why you're confused...Posted by AgentP911I texted him at 1AM saying hey, wake up.
Well I dunno, you could have told him to treetrunk off โฐ
What did you tell him?
....as I'm typing this im realizing that probably wasn't that good of an idea lol :/click to expand
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Posted by busyeyes88
You are very very vain I'll give you that much!!
What sun sign are you?
Are you a Leo?
