this Taurus guy.....

Hey,

Am interested in a Taurus neighbour of mine. I've been over to his place a few times after he's invited me over. Ok, a little history, he has not moved into the house yet, he's still doing renos. I asked him if he wanted to go out sometimes and he said yes, he would invite me over for a beer ("at least" those were his words) once he moved in. So I'm leaving the ball in his court for now. Before I left that day though, he said "stop by again...." So I don't know what to do now......go over there again this week sometimes (was there last Tues) or wait until he invites me over for that beer. He seems shy/reserved and I'm more aggressive for sure being borderline Cap/Sag. Anyways, I don't want to screw this one up since he seems like a nice refreshing change from all the creeps I've been dating lately......and he's a man's man which I love. Am super attracted to him though and want to do things right.

no issue, just am a bit paranoid from some past relationships and appearing too aggressive.

He who waits masturbates

scropx3, great advice. Ok I'll go there in the next day or two to say hi and to play with his dog, haha......Yes, I'm really hoping this is a fresh start, but so far so good! The only thing what I've read on here is to take time which have to say is hard for me because my attraction for him is strong so I want to get physical ASAP.....

Theres no such thing as "right". Do what comes naturally.

How Do you know hes a bull?

lol

@Op- Why does it have to be the neighbor though?, great idea. At least you get to sit back and observe in a non creepy way. You never know. I assume he is single and no kids?

yes, definitely ask questions it helps a lot..

how do I know he's a bull? licence plates haha.....and there's no way he's an aries, cuz he's far too timid to be one...

yeah dating a neighbour......not ideal i know...but seriously there are NO men in this area, i know I've tried online dating and HATED it....

just went over there and there were a few people over there, whoops, but all is good, actually the one person there was one of my colleagues, which is insanely hilarious. anyways, so wanted to stick around after they and their dogs left but it got kinda weird and then he said he was super busy getting the house all ready for this weekend's Super Bowl party, so I could feel he was very stressed and overworked so I left it for now. I think he was kinda sad when I left though.....so all is good, for now.

as for him having harems and fwbs, can't really see that.....no way, he's a shy/reserved Taurus type not George Clooney type. Haha.

single and no kids as far as I can tell.....since I've been low-key observing.....

been asking lots of questions for sure....and am changing my game plan with this one....before I would jump into the sack ASAP more for my own pleasure than anyone elses (Sag characteristic). What can I say, I love sex, so why wait? Anyways, I had sex on the first date with the Taurus that I dated for 5 years but I think he didn't trust me down the road because he figured I did it with everyone else.....so yeah, will be slower with this one......say one month— Haha....

Posted by estika9
single and no kids as far as I can tell.....since I've been low-key observing.....

Ooooh girl. He is an endangered species

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Posted by estika9
single and no kids as far as I can tell.....since I've been low-key observing.....

Ooooh girl. He is an endangered species

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Haha....yes indeed. Yeah for me, neighbour or no neighbour, I would be strongly attracted to him anyways as he strikes me as a real man. Anyways folks, thanks for all your great advice! So far the taking it slow bit seems to be working beautifully!

Has he invited you to the Super bowl party?

if you are so sure, the quick sex is working, just seduce him.....

I pity him a bit OP, you seem to be very determined to get him...