Scorpio and Taurus

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sugaa
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20 Years

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Hey everyone! how r yall doing.I just want yalls opinions on this situation. i like this scorpio guy, But its weird b/c one day hell talk to me and the next hell walk by me like he doesnt know me. Then recently he asked me "why do you walk by me like you dont know me?" i said "well, i dont know you". then he said lets start over and i agreed, but come the next day, he did the same thing. Why does he do this? is this typical scorpio behaior?Maybe he just doesnt like me.what do yall think?
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klb1028
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20 Years

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All I can say is that I know what you mean. There's this guy next door. Well, he bought the property next door and and his company is rebuilding the duplexes there, but he's out there a lot. Anyway, I personally didn't think I had a shot until it was clear he was flirting with me. Now, when we talk, he always asks questions about me- my goals, fears, hopes, all that- and talks about love. And life in general. But he is SO bad at following through with the phone calls and hanging out! We were going to yesterday, but we both got busy during the day (and I was the one to call HIM two hours after he was supposed to call), and last night I fell asleep early but no word from him then, either. Now, we both have the extra complication of being single parents who lead very busy lives, but I believe that if you're really interested in someone, you can at least make time to talk for a few minutes.

I know it's not exactly the same, but it's still that combo of "he's definitely interested"/"well, I thought he was, but I guess not" back and forth. I think part of it's the Scorpio thing and part of it's just being a guy. I know he feels like he needs to keep himself a mystery... what's the phrase he used?... he said something like, (after I asked him if I'd ever figure him out,) "If you let a girl figure you out then it's over," or something like that. He keeps saying if I know too much about him I'll get bored. whereas I'm thinking, he has enough personalities to keep me running forever if I let him! He asked me point-blank a couple days ago if I wanted him to put more effort into getting to know each other, so we'll see if anything changes. Sorry, this is really long. I don't know if it helps at all, but I'll let you know if I figure anything helpful out.
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spanish_taurus
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20 Years

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sugaa,

I wouldn't obsess about the little things..."he smiled at me"..."he didn't smile at me"..."he said hi"..."he didn't say hi"..."he e-mailed me"..."he didn't e-mail me"...and so on and so on.

Obsessing about the little stuff will drive you crazy and suck all the confidence right out of you. Just be cool and go with the flow. If he see's you all stressed (making a fuss) about little things it'll leave a sour taste in his mouth. Trust me on this.

Just be yourself, smile sexy to him, be demure and alluring. You're a Taurus, a social butterfly...no? Use your natural skills. =)

Anytime you find yourself fussing over the little things just take a minute to think about those (the) thought(s)...chuckle and squash them !

spanish_taurus



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sleepkel23
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20 YearsPisces

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I dated a scorpio 5 years ago and he is still in love with me today, scorpios are obsessive and if he is flip-flopping he is either born on a cusp like libra/scorpio or scorpio/sagg. or he is just playing games.. Scorpios usually take love very seriously and when they like someone they fall hard.. one of my best friends is a scorpio and he is gay, he tells me all the time how he wished I was a guy because he belives pisces and scorpio are the perfect match. thats besides my point, but really dont settle for less by letting a person that you dont really know fuck with your mind. he is not worth it, you deserve more, he cant even make a decision, thats not a person that I would be interested in. Good luck. I hope I didnt step on any toes..
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BeautifulScorpion
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21 Years500+ PostsScorpio

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Yes it is. I hate that about me. But it's what makes me me! Why he does it I don't know. I do it cause I'm scared to talk to someone. I'm not usually the one to walk up to someone and say HEY. Cause i dont know if they wanna talk to me, i have to really know the person. He probably expects u to say hi, and then he'll catch on .Nothing against you though, that's probably just how it is.