Should I be worried....

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GalacticFun89
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I guess you can say im fwb with a taurus guy...we never said it to each other, but automatically that's what i wanted cuz im still not over my first taurus guy. This is my first fwb situation. But according to one of my guy friends, he says that me and taurus guy have been crossing over the lines. I never thought about it until then, and now im confused. lol. So heres whats going on so far with us.
We text eachother, or call eachother everyday. No matter what time it is.
We've talked about everything, from kids to relationships, to movies, to food or our jobs.
He's asked me a few times already about my parents, but i just assume that he just asks a lot of questions.
I sleep over his place, even when he has work cuz he doesn't seem to mind. Well, he tells me 'i hope u don't mind that ur staying over tonight..ok great!' lol.
We play fight with each other a lot.
He gave me a food nickname that matches my name.
He stares at me ALL the time. I feel awkward cuz its those long stares sometimes.
We've hung out outside of his place, like we'll go to the grocery store, to his favorite place to eat, etc. One time i told him i was going out to the club with my friend on valentines day and just asked if he was going to go cuz his buddys are usually where we are-he told me he wasn't going, but then later he called me and said 'so you're just going to walk by me like that?' lol. He showed up with his cousin and other friend, and introduced me. Another little surprise since he said he hates going to the club. He wanted to take me back to his place too, but i had to work.
We both like two of these songs, and whenever im in the car with him, those two songs come on. The other day we had sex, and one of the songs came on right at that moment. He's like 'oh that's so crazy that this song comes on right now'--i didnt say a word cuz i thought that was really odd.
He checks to make sure i have my seat belt on, by touching my side and checking. Its a bit cute.
I invited him to go on a cruise with me, but he can't go cuz he has to work. But right away he's like 'well who's going on this cruise with you anyway?' in a way like as if he wanted to know exactly who else was going. I just told him my girlfriends and that's it. I assume it's just cuz he's a guy that doesn't want his f-buddy to go f somebody else.lol
He wants sex almost everyday from me, but it gets annoying sometimes cuz he gets so persistent. One night i was out with my best friend, and he said he wanted
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He wants sex almost everyday from me, but it gets annoying sometimes cuz he gets so persistent. One night i was out with my best friend, and he said he wanted me to sleep over. I told him i couldn't cuz i was already out and didn't think of it as anything...APPARENTLY, he texted my friend telling her that she's going to have problems cuz i was with her and not with him! I texted him off of my phone saying he shouldn't be upset and we'll hangout another day.
Then recently, we were texting and he said he was home from work and wanted to see me but i was cleaning so i didn't reply right away. He sent me a sarcastic text saying 'nice talk' with a grumpy face. I mean really?lol I told him that i didn't have my phone on me and that i was sorry. He was fine after that. But those are the things that have been going on so far.
Soooo should i be worried?? lol. It's going on almost 3months now.
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Posted by notyourtype
Ok, so it's really late, and I'm clearly having a reading disability because I misread your post to say that you guys ARE fwb.

You're totally leading this guy on, even though it isn't deliberate. If I were in his shoes and this girl texts/calls me everyday, sleeps over at my place when I'm not there, talks about future kids, I'd be under the impression that this relationship is heading somewhere more serious. 3 months is a pretty long time to be doing all that without having a talk about where you each stand. Don't drag it out any longer. Let him know how you feel ASAP so he can decide whether he's okay with being just fwb, or to simply move on.



I get what ur saying..I just don't think i'm leading him on, cuz this taurus is the 'badass' taurus. Orr at least that's how he comes off. He's a good guy, but the fact that he has this nonchalant chill vibe way about him makes it seem like everything he does is no big deal to me. I just assume that's how he is.
He seemed fine with it being fwb from the start, it's just one by one these things are starting to happen.
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I didn't feel sparks with this taurus guy, he's gorgeous and a good guy..but me being a sag i automatically know that im ok with just being fwb cuz i feel he's not the type that wanted anything serious anyway. We never said fwb to each other, we just kinda knew. But now, he's like a really good friend to me. Im fine with things..it's just when i would tell my friend some of the things that's happened-he stated that it seems like we crossed the lines.
His behavior has changed to where he was kinda shy on day1 but on day2 he wanted to see me again, to now he tells me everything and he gets a little possessive when it comes to seeing me or other certain things, and we have hung out at other places, and i've met his cousin and all that stuff. I thought it was interesting, but never went 'Oh my gawd i think he likes me!' lol. I figured that we're just comfortable with each other like that. it's been about 3months so far and i never thought too much about it. Until the other day.
I'm just CHECKING to see what everyone else thinks of this.