thewateryram
@thewateryram
11 YearsTaurus
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Sick of the lies
I always end up asking this for a tired woman like you - why do you stay if you are tired? aren't you tired of
assuming things will work? aren't you tired of hoping hopelessly? for me. Common sense has the highest I.Q
over intelligence.
Posted by M143
I always end up asking this for a tired woman like you - why do you stay if you are tired? aren't you tired of
assuming things will work? aren't you tired of hoping hopelessly? for me. Common sense has the highest I.Q
over intelligence.
Because leaving is easier said than done. When you have strong feelings for someone you'll try to make it work.
Especially being a Taurus, it's hard for me to let go of relationships that I worked so hard on, and put time and effort into building.
Posted by TaurusGirlRas
Cancer Mars lies like crazy! It's how they pursue if they think telling will hurt you forget it! Even if you know they won't confess! Passive aggressive ppl and that combined with taurus n the Gemini venus who feels he doesn't have to answer to anyone but his self, tough combo to date. I dated a Taurus sun pisces moon venus gem n cancer Mars! He was a pathological liar who will always switch up like it was you who were wrong for even asking or hell brush you completely off.
Hey hey hey, I'm a Cancer Mars too! Lol 😛
No but seriously it's true. I lied so much in my past relationships, it's probably karma biting me in the ass. Don't look at me badly though, I learn from my mistakes and I don't lie anymore! I have the same placements as him too... Venus Gem, Taurus Sun, Cancer Mars... *sigh*
Ha! That's exactly what he did!!! I confronted him, and he totally made me sound like the bad guy and told me he's done with me and to leave him alone lol. I'm not the one in wrong the here so I didn't budge! Then it finally got to him, and he said he won't lie again. Ugh. I hate these placements.
Posted by TaurusGirlRas
How'd you get him to stop lying. I want to know! I've found they cover up one lie with another more believable lie. It's like a Russian doll set of lies....just when you think you get the truth and you can breathe..your like wait 😐 that's not adding up lol smh. Never againclick to expand
LOL Russian doll set of lies hahaha that's SO true.
He surprisingly didn't do that this time lol he did that in the past but I knew the truth the whole time so I stuck with my belief. This time he kind of just brushed it off and called me a stalker, and said "he's done" with me and to leave him alone. I ignored him, tried to explain why I was so pissed, and then he tried to turn it on me and bring up an issue we had a month ago :l lol He thinks I lied about something so stupid, when I have witnesses who told him that I didn't do shit.
I think it's the way I confront him. Usually when I'm pissed I lash out and go crazy (stupid Cancer mars) but I'm trying so hard to control it, and I'm getting better at it. We have the same placements, so I just thought of how I'd like to be spoken to in this situation. Yelling, and fighting would just piss me off even more so I was very calm and just simply told him that I'm not trying to fight with him, I'm just trying to resolve this issue. I think he lies because he thinks I'm like his psycho exes who were disgustingly clingy and jealous, so when he wants to go out with friends, he lies to me. I explained that I'm probably the least clingy girl he'll ever meet, and that I'm not gonna be mad when he goes out with friends. People need space! I understand that! I need space too lol I HATE clingy
Posted by Hotbeefy
Your Scorpio rising shines that frightened him.
But somethings seems odd.. why did he lied to you to hang out with your friend? Were there any conflict between you and his friends? Did he told you that you were very clingy or jealous? Did he told you the reason for this?
I'm a Virgo rising.
He lied to me to hang out with his friends, not mine. I don't have any conflict with his friends, but I know that his friends girlfriends most likely don't like me because they're all friends with his ex (they act like little teenage girls pulling that bullshit) He hasn't mentioned that I'm clingy or jealous, but the last time he lied to me about going out with his friends he told his brother not to tell me because he thought I was gonna get pissed off at him for not hanging out that weekend. I think he thinks I'm this way because we're always together every weekend. That's what I'm assuming, because I'm not clingy at all. I don't text him much during the day, and I always make sure there's a day or 2 where we don't see each other, so he doesn't get tired/bored of me. And majority of the time he makes plans with me, I don't really set up much of the plans. My best friend (his brothers girlfriend) told me that he's just so used to having clingy/crazy girlfriends, so he might just automatically assume I'm like them lol
Posted by TaurusGirlRasPosted by thewateryramPosted by TaurusGirlRas
Surprisingly I was that calm person to him. Thank god for my Aqua moon. I can deal very rationally with him but he didn't get it. He kept snapping and having outbursts. I told him to his face he was a lie and I knew all he lied about. He even hung with his ex n lied and I said I already know your lying about where youve been. I'm the farthest from clingy, extra and controlling. I let him be him and I thought his moods were cute even named all his sides. He's a crazy morherfxcker. I accept him but I guess my calmness came off as lack of caring and he kept pushing for an outburst.
One day I up and left n toldclick to expand
Wow I would've lost it if I found out mine was hanging out with his ex. That's a no-no. That sounds like how my bf was with his exes. How old is he? What's his moon and rising?
Posted by TaurusGirlRas
Honestly the behavior of your bull sounds like the behavior of my ex bull. Guys are fxkin delusional at times to how a female feels. Mines supposedly has a pisces moon but who knows. idc about who he hangs with I just don't like being lied to. One day he had lied so much I just exploded. Like I know where u were so TELL ME NOW! He finally said the truth n said he didn't wanna lose me blah blab blah blah... He left crying voice mails n sxit I ignored him totally
Exactly! There's just no point in lying over stupid shit because you don't wanna "lose" some one. Lying will just make the situation worse. If he lies to me 1 more time I'm done.
Hmmm...doesn't sound like a very upright guy. I understand having feelings but maybe yours should be the most important ones and it doesn't sound like you are being respected. It's hard to have trust with a liar no?
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