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so quick summary since I already posted about this. things were going really well with taurus guy, super interested in me. a little over 2 weeks ago while we were in the midst of hooking up I told him I wasn't ready to sleep with him. He seemed fine, stayed the night and fast forward to now I haven't seen him or really heard from him. He mentioned wanting to meet up to "talk" a couple times. Today he asked if we could meet to talk but I couldn't so he said ok let's try to meet up to talk next week. Whats going on? I figured it's over and from the sounds of it I'm pretty sure I'm right. What is there to talk about? He's already ignored me over 2 weeks... why not just drop it. I get the hint. Any Taurus insight would be fabulous so I can be well prepared for this .... thanks!

Why do you keep using the term, hooking up when you didn't have sex? You were going out on dates I presume, so say that. Gah, I hate 'hooking up', unless you actually 'hooked up' as a proper descriptive.

I don't know how we, the general, slobbering public can know what was going on in your brief relationship if you don't. Do you really think anyone will know what is on his mind? Maybe meeting to talk is really just meeting. I've had a guy say that and once we actually met, he had nothing of significance to say. It might be just his way of wanting to see you again.

"He's already ignored me over 2 weeks"

Believe me, 2 weeks is not a big deal. He can go on for even months and come back and say 'hi' just as normal!

2 weeks for a taurus is like 2 days. you are a sag. your patience for the taurus schedule may not be enough.

It doesn't sound like his main intent was to just sleep with you & nothing else, BUT then again, that could be why he disappeared.

Classic case of guy thinks he's about to get some action, doesn't, and so he disappears.

And just b/c he's a 'Taurus' doesn't mean that he's exempt from having a f'd up mentality that alot of men in general have.

He may/may not be interested in you. Either way, I don't think it's fair that you have to sit at home going crazy, with no answers & with no responses all b/c he's technically a "Taurus."

I get it, 1 week to a man feels like 1 year to a woman & you shouldn't be freaking out so much b/c you should be spending more time living your life moreso than chasing after someone who is running

Taurus or not, this guy needs to step his game up. Simply being Taurus doesn't give him the right to disappear & strip the friendship of communication...communication that is required in order for things to actually have a chance at lasting!

If he's got some issues with your or if you didn't meet his expectations that's fine but running & leaving someone high & dry is not ok.

When Taurus' run like that, they come off as immature, emotionally retarded A-holes. And if that's not their intention, they need to do better to make sure they're not coming off that way

What good is it to stay true to their "Taurean" traits if they run everybody off in the process?

This is relationship 101 here. If you guys ever expect to make it long term, the communication will no doubt have to get better! No ands, ifs or buts.

This is why sometimes 2 good people who are perfectly right for eachother end up not working out or running eachother away. It's never over big things. It's always over some petty miscommunication or petty insecurity that as adults, they should've done away with

Posted by krysrenee7
It doesn't sound like his main intent was to just sleep with you & nothing else, BUT then again, that could be why he disappeared.

Classic case of guy thinks he's about to get some action, doesn't, and so he disappears.

And just b/c he's a 'Taurus' doesn't mean that he's exempt from having a f'd up mentality that alot of men in general have.

He may/may not be interested in you. Either way, I don't think it's fair that you have to sit at home going crazy, with no answers & with no responses all b/c he's technically a "Taurus."

I get it, 1 week to a man feels like 1 year to a woman & you shouldn't be freaking out so much b/c you should be spending more time living your life moreso than chasing after someone who is running

Taurus or not, this guy needs to step his game up. Simply being Taurus doesn't give him the right to disappear & strip the friendship of communication...communication that is required in order for things to actually have a chance at lasting!

If he's got some issues with your or if you didn't meet his expectations that's fine but running & leaving someone high & dry is not ok.

When Taurus' run like that, they come off as immature, emotionally retarded A-holes. And if that's not their intention, they need to do better to make sure they're not coming off that way

What good is it to stay true to their "Taurean" traits if they run everybody off in the process?

This is relationship 101 here. If you guys ever expect to make it long term, the communication will no doubt have to get better! No ands, ifs or buts.

This is why sometimes 2 good people who are perfectly right for eachother end up not working out or running eachother away. It's never over big things. It's always over some petty miscommunication or petty insecurity that as adults, they should've done away with

VERY WELL SAID!! Thank you! :-)

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Posted by cancerlovestaurus
2 weeks for a taurus is like 2 days. you are a sag. your patience for the taurus schedule may not be enough.

looks like first hand experience? 😉 😛

Posted by c0mrade

Posted by cancerlovestaurus
2 weeks for a taurus is like 2 days. you are a sag. your patience for the taurus schedule may not be enough.

looks like first hand experience? 😉 😛

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thnx everyone! I'm just wondering b/c I assumed it's over after not hearing from him for so long after consistently hearing from him for 3 months. So that's why I was wondering what he possibly wants to talk about. If it's done then it's done, there's nothing to talk about, I get the hint. I just don't know what else he could possibly have to say after completely ignoring me for 2 weeks. His tone has been different too (in a bad way).. so that has played into my assumption.

A Sagg and a Taurus!! HAHA! LOL. My brother's current gf of 2 yrs is a sagg, and im telling you this is a love/hate relationship with more tears than smiles that I've ever seen. After 2 yrs, and a 1 yr old baby (my gorgeous niece) he's still trying to find a way to get away from that woman, but he loves her, and he loves his daughter even more so every time he tries it's like she sucks him right back in. Which leads me to believe he may not truly want to leave, because if a Taurus wants to leave that's just what they'll do and they will dare you to try and stop them. Besides, like the other poster said I think a sagg is a little too free-spirited and live on the moment for a down to earth stable fixed sign like a Taurus. Most likely they are set in their ways, and aren't changing for anything or anyone except themselves. You??re the type to act and speak without thinking, your Taurus is not like that. They ponder, plan, and prepare. They are very slow in love. And judging by your attitude in the first comment, you are nowhere near patient enough.lol. And they are not good at saying exactly how they feel, not many of the men anyway. So he probably wont even bring up you and him unless you ask. They are the ones better at texting or writing you a love letter or something than speaking them out loud. Or at least that how the Taurus men I've met are. If they do speak their feelings out loud to you then chances are they've known you for a loooong time, or something about you makes them feel "that" comfortable.

Maybe he does want to see you, but if he says hey let's hook up, you might get the wrong idea and think he wants something more. Sounds like he was really trying to be specific. If your diggin him, take the time to meet up and talk, it's really that simple. I don't need to talk to you anymore if I don't want to be bothered with you, I just walk away and don't look back.

I had a guy cross my mind the other day, I went to look in my phone to send him a text and saw I never responded to his text from a month ago! Oh geez, I didn't know it had been that long, honestly, it felt like maybe a week or so. He seemed generally happy to hear from me and tried to immediatley make plans for a date.

I seem to be learning alot about myself on this forum already and it's only my 2nd post. 🙂

Too much guess bullshit, maybe he thinks this shit isn't going anywhere cause is not getting sex, I don't no what to say cause I dnt have details to give my guess on this sistuation. But what get me is if a guy is busy or court up doing something then he should say it. If he can say I need to talk to u. Then he can say he is busy . Did u ask him wat was up when he told u a few time that yaw need to meet up. If u are curious u might have to ask him wat was up. I might just got his ego hurt