Taurus and aqua couples?

I have been in a taurus aqua relationship where ofcourse im the girl and hes the guy
I was wondering if theres more taureans here whos been in a aqua/taurus relationship to share their experience and advise whether I should go for another aqua/taurus relationship or completely eliminate the idea from my head?
So far 90% of horoscope websites say that its either a very bad match or needs extremely hard work from both sides
very few said that it can work out just fine where both can learn from each other

Some websites stated that it depends on ur decan (if anyone doesnt know what decan is ask me or look it up google)

Note: this is what my natal chart says (born on 18th may 1992)

Sun:27?? 48' in Taurus
Moon:19?? 30' in Sagittarius
Mercury:13?? 01' in Taurus
Venus:20?? 44' in Taurus
Mars:09?? 38' in Aries
Jupiter:05?? 06' in Virgo
Saturn:18?? 17' in Aquarius
Uranus:17?? 45' in Capricorn
Neptune:18?? 47' in Capricorn
Pluto:21?? 12' in Scorpio

Oh and another thing
this is my ex aqua's natal chart thing:

Sun:27?? 49' in Aquarius
Moon:10?? 52' in Cancer
Mercury:01?? 30' in Aquarius
Venus:16?? 01' in Aquarius
Mars:16?? 16' in Taurus
Jupiter:27?? 24' in Taurus
Saturn:10?? 34' in Capricorn
Uranus:04?? 13' in Capricorn
Neptune:11?? 33' in Capricorn
Pluto:15?? 02' in Scorpio

If anyone can suggest if we r such a bad match from what our natal charts say?

my 1st BF was an Aqua.. he cheated. but I didn't know until after I broke up with him, not that it mattered at that point. I met an aqua 2 yrs ago.. great conversations, but once he aske me what it was I was seeking in man (in general).. I kept it real with him, he didn't like the idea of "Security" of any kind, but he was more than willing to talk about arranging a FWB arrangement. & He liked talking about rough sex alot..so weird.


any way... you said:
So far 90% of horoscope websites say that its either a very bad match or needs extremely hard work from both sides
Love does take work, but NOT VERY hard work. Life is already hard enough as it is, I don't need a project for a lover either.

I'd vote no on this one..but it up to you.

I never dated one. I just had a thing for several Aqua men. One of my male best friends is an Aqua. I admire his confidence, honesty (yes, it's very unfiltered), but the truth nonetheless, his ability to offer a different perspective on things, and his care free, risk taker, 'whatever happens is whatever happens' attitude.

Be prepared for the ride.

It will not be a boring one.

Run like the wind! LoL j/k (but not really) This is coming from a Taurus who's found herself surrounded by aquas throughout life for some reason....Still dissecting my chart to figure that one out...Probably the heavy Uranian influence in my chart...Now that I think of it, I've found my self amidst bunches of Scoprios too, and my chart is equally heavy with Plutonian influence...Yep, lookin at it now; almost all my personal planets and angles are aspected by either Pluto or Uranus...lol. Anyway...

Seriously though, aquas are actually good company, but I'd just be cautious (esp. looking at astro info. you posted, but aspects/placements in both natal charts, and a synastry report would be more telling) when it comes to entering a serious relationship with one. Keep a level head; consider whether you two are truly compatible or not, rather than running purely on emotions...Then again, this would be my advice to anyone entering a serious relationship.

Posted by TaureanVirgo
Run like the wind! LoL j/k (but not really) This is coming from a Taurus who's found herself surrounded by aquas throughout life for some reason....Still dissecting my chart to figure that one out...Probably the heavy Uranian influence in my chart...Now that I think of it, I've found my self amidst bunches of Scoprios too, and my chart is equally heavy with Plutonian influence...Yep, lookin at it now; almost all my personal planets and angles are aspected by either Pluto or Uranus...lol. Anyway...

Seriously though, aquas are actually good company, but I'd just be cautious (esp. looking at astro info. you posted, but aspects/placements in both natal charts, and a synastry report would be more telling) when it comes to entering a serious relationship with one. Keep a level head; consider whether you two are truly compatible or not, rather than running purely on emotions...Then again, this would be my advice to anyone entering a serious relationship.

Hi thnkx for ur advise..
but umm what u mean by " but aspects/placements in both natal charts, and a synastry report would be more telling)"
Well if there's anything u can tell me about my natal chart and his natal chart I would appreciate the help 🙂

Posted by TAURUSbelle
my 1st BF was an Aqua.. he cheated. but I didn't know until after I broke up with him, not that it mattered at that point. I met an aqua 2 yrs ago.. great conversations, but once he aske me what it was I was seeking in man (in general).. I kept it real with him, he didn't like the idea of "Security" of any kind, but he was more than willing to talk about arranging a FWB arrangement. & He liked talking about rough sex alot..so weird.


any way... you said:
So far 90% of horoscope websites say that its either a very bad match or needs extremely hard work from both sides
Love does take work, but NOT VERY hard work. Life is already hard enough as it is, I don't need a project for a lover either.

I'd vote no on this one..but it up to you.

Can i know more reasons y u voted a no on this one? Also have u been in a relationship with more aquas other than the weirdo and the cheater?
I only in been in one relationship and it was with that aqua..he did want to talk about sex for a while but I was young and shy so he was very patient with me and he would stop talking about it when he realizes its getting me out of my comfort zone
But yeah there r other disadvantages about that aqua man i used to b with

Posted by Nouran20
Can i know more reasons y u voted a no on this one? Also have u been in a relationship with more aquas other than the weirdo and the cheater?
I only in been in one relationship and it was with that aqua..he did want to talk about sex for a while but I was young and shy so he was very patient with me and he would stop talking about it when he realizes its getting me out of my comfort zoneBut yeah there r other disadvantages about that aqua man i used to b with

After those two, I honestly wasn't looking to meet anymore Aquas (romantically.) It doesn't take me very long to know who I feel I'm better off with. For me, Air and Fire signs are better as FRIENDS. The 2nd Aqua was just a turn off to me because we barely knew each other and he was so crass, detailed and unfiltered about sex acts, how he likes to inflict pain, choke a woman during the act of sex..etc EXTRA wierd to me and it hadn't been even 2 weeks yet since meeting. He just seemed too "ALL over the place" for my liking. Don't get me wrong, our topic of conversations were quite intriguing and at times pretty intellectual. I was looking for something steady, longterm & serious. He thought I was TOO serious and TOO young to want something so seriously. the red flag for me was, that he was older than me, and wasnt even in the mindset of taking life and relationships seriously yet. So I wrote him off as "immature and not ready" and threw him in the "Friends ONLY" box.

AS for your EX Aqua: Here's why -I- (personally)vote "No."

Posted by Nouran20
Oh and another thing
this is my ex aqua's natal chart thing:

Sun:27?? 49' in Aquarius
Moon:10?? 52' in Cancer
Mercury:01?? 30' in Aquarius
Venus:16?? 01' in Aquarius
Mars:16?? 16' in Taurus
Jupiter:27?? 24' in Taurus
Saturn:10?? 34' in Capricorn
Uranus:04?? 13' in Capricorn
Neptune:11?? 33' in Capricorn
Pluto:15?? 02' in Scorpio

His Sun & Venus in Aqua is known as the most Emotionally DETACHED, and "unfeeling" aspect on a chart. (Yours Venus is in Taurus), Both loving style s are different. Where Taurus are stable, caring, love with emotion a bit possessive, Aquas are more "Logical" & wouldn't fully express love and affection just like a taurus would give. Aquas are more prone to running off tryin to preserve their "Freedom".

His Merc is in Aqua, (yours in Taurus),your communication style s will be different, and you two may have to work at making sure you both FULLY understand each other. Alot of misunderstandings can & will happen, but you never know.. if you're both patient and really want this to work, then there will be endless possibilities. then again, he IS your EX after all. I wonder why that is? hmm.

This is a very common coupling.
You might be happy for a while.

Posted by TAURUSbelle
AS for your EX Aqua: Here's why -I- (personally)vote "No."

Posted by Nouran20
Oh and another thing
this is my ex aqua's natal chart thing:

Sun:27?? 49' in Aquarius
Moon:10?? 52' in Cancer
Mercury:01?? 30' in Aquarius
Venus:16?? 01' in Aquarius
Mars:16?? 16' in Taurus
Jupiter:27?? 24' in Taurus
Saturn:10?? 34' in Capricorn
Uranus:04?? 13' in Capricorn
Neptune:11?? 33' in Capricorn
Pluto:15?? 02' in Scorpio

His Sun & Venus in Aqua is known as the most Emotionally DETACHED, and "unfeeling" aspect on a chart. (Yours Venus is in Taurus), Both loving style s are different. Where Taurus are stable, caring, love with emotion a bit possessive, Aquas are more "Logical" & wouldn't fully express love and affection just like a taurus would give. Aquas are more prone to running off tryin to preserve their "Freedom".

His Merc is in Aqua, (yours in Taurus),your communication style s will be different, and you two may have to work at making sure you both FULLY understand each other. Alot of misunderstandings can & will happen, but you never know.. if you're both patient and really want this to work, then there will be endless possibilities. then again, he IS your EX after all. I wonder why that is? hmm.

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He broke it all up out of nowhere SUDDENLY. I tried so hard to give him his freedom. When I did make him feel more free like not text him much. And not ask him questions much. Get less mad when he gets all detached. He would get all shocked and he would say "dont change just stay the way u r, caring and loving and if u wana get mad at me if im not always there for u then u have all the right to" then he would apologize and all.
Maybe its just his way of saying thank u for giving me that freedom ??

@TAURUSbelle
I was wondering what the other planets meant?
i can see that some of his planets r placed in taurus sign..is that a good thing?

Posted by TAURUSbelle

Posted by Nouran20
Can i know more reasons y u voted a no on this one? Also have u been in a relationship with more aquas other than the weirdo and the cheater?
I only in been in one relationship and it was with that aqua..he did want to talk about sex for a while but I was young and shy so he was very patient with me and he would stop talking about it when he realizes its getting me out of my comfort zoneBut yeah there r other disadvantages about that aqua man i used to b with

After those two, I honestly wasn't looking to meet anymore Aquas (romantically.) It doesn't take me very long to know who I feel I'm better off with. For me, Air and Fire signs are better as FRIENDS. The 2nd Aqua was just a turn off to me because we barely knew each other and he was so crass, detailed and unfiltered about sex acts, how he likes to inflict pain, choke a woman during the act of sex..etc EXTRA wierd to me and it hadn't been even 2 weeks yet since meeting. He just seemed too "ALL over the place" for my liking. Don't get me wrong, our topic of conversations were quite intriguing and at times pretty intellectual. I was looking for something steady, longterm & serious. He thought I was TOO serious and TOO young to want something so seriously. the red flag for me was, that he was older than me, and wasnt even in the mindset of taking life and relationships seriously yet. So I wrote him off as "immature and not ready" and threw him in the "Friends ONLY" box.

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OH wow thats one weired aqua guy u had there
I was wondering did he ever chase u after u broke it off?

@TAURUSbelle
I know this is out of the topic like waaaaay random but u have a very pretty face 😄 U remind me of a friend of mine

Posted by Nouran20
He broke it all up out of nowhere SUDDENLY. I tried so hard to give him his freedom. When I did make him feel more free like not text him much. And not ask him questions much. Get less mad when he gets all detached. He would get all shocked and he would say "dont change just stay the way u r, caring and loving and if u wana get mad at me if im not always there for u then u have all the right to" then he would apologize and all. Maybe its just his way of saying thank u for giving me that freedom ??

Yes thet definitely can pick up and go when THEY think its time. That's too unstable for us Taureans who like stability, familiarity and some type of routine.

Your Aqua didn't want you to change yourself for him, they want you to be 100% yourself. Even though you may say you are being yourself, He could see that you really were "moving mountains" and stepping out of the Taurus norm to adjust for him. Things should just flow naturally. If you kept that up, it would you would eventually feel dissatisfied and empty emotionally,because Aquas just aren't built to be more emotionally in tune. It would feel like WORK to keep things together.

Posted by Nouran20
@TAURUSbelle
I was wondering what the other planets meant?
i can see that some of his planets r placed in taurus sign..is that a good thing?

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When I just want a general idea of someone I'm interested the 1st 5 is usually enough (Sun, Moon, Merc, Venus, Mars). Unless you want synastry charts then that's different. you'd need all planets.

Your Aqua's "Mars in Taurus" just describes his "Sexual nature". he's slow to get warmed up but sensual..etc..

Here is a site to visit that describes different placements/planets meanings:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/zodiacaquarius.html

When you get there, just scroll down to read the descriptions of each planet placement
for ex: "Mercury in Aquarius" you will find under the "Aquarius page".
IF you're looking for "Mars in Taurus", you would have to click on "Taurus" and scroll down..etc
The same goes for all other sign/planet/placements descriptions located on the far right column under "In this Section".

Posted by Nouran20
@TAURUSbelle
I know this is out of the topic like waaaaay random but u have a very pretty face 😄 U remind me of a friend of mine

aww thank you! 🙂

actually to intervene on Mars energy and chart placement. For women, it's the Sun/Mars that she's attracted to, plus rising, because it is the masculine energy she likes. For men, in general, it's the Moon/Venus, and rising and to some degree his sun, but mostly the Venus/Moon.

This Taurus Sun/Cancer Moon astrologer/researcher has a bit of info on it:

http://www.astrologyzine.com/mars1.shtml

LOVE style S:
Mars in EARTH SIGNS: Taurus/Virgo/Capricorn

Suitors with Mars in EARTH Signs act these ways to ATTAIN love...
* practical...take useful steps to pursue you; are very pragmatic
* planning...make concrete plans; know your likes/dislikes/habits
* patient...will wait a long time, if that seems the best tactic
* persistent...chug along in their courtship till the ship sinks.

Mars in TAURUS acts...

* a good provider...of both material things and sensual comforts
* determined...wants you a lot and for a long time; will patiently persist
* very physical...will hug and caress; concerned for your comforts
* hedonistic...loves all sensual pleasures; likely over-indulges
* Nature-loving...seeks to get near Nature, to relax and revitalize
* possessive...may want to own you, or to remove you from rivals.
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if his moon is in cancer:

http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-cancer.shtml

MOON or VENUS in Cancer

The type of woman who attracts you is one who could comfort and care for you - who would "mother" you. If she feeds you and fusses over you, she may soon see you sharing her home - since home is where you most want to feel wanted and cherished and comforted.

You naturally act as a protector and care-giver to those you feel affection for, and seek similar treatment - for that is how you feel loved and safe and secure.

The "old-fashioned girl" appeals to you - or one who is looking for the house with the white picket fence and children in the yard.

You are especially prone to be attracted to a partner who appears like your personal image of the perfect mother - or even reminds you of your own mother (if you were emotionally close to her).

A woman who is especially "motherly" attracts you - either by her mother-like nature, or by symbols of motherliness like a large bosom, wide hips, or even a plumpness that resembles a pregnant woman. (continued) ??2000 by Michael Star

since he has aquarius venus, it is definitely conflicting with his moon. hoo boy:

MOON or VENUS in AQUARIUS

The type of woman who attracts you is intelligent, independent, free-spirited, and a good conversationalist. Should she keep you guessing, or be a bit off-beat or unconventional, she'll fascinate you - but if she's too emotional, you'll pass.

Especially while young, you may be drawn to women who are not really available for a lasting relationship (because of distance or inability to make commitments, or a prior commitment to someone else).

When you are ready to commit, you will. Meanwhile, you may be attracted to "free spirits", "space cadets", or even somewhat "strange" women.

Idealists or rebels also have a particular appeal to you. Politics may play a part in the attraction. Political foes might make strange bedfellows. (continued)

http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-aquarius.shtml
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that is a huge conflict. Because he wants to commit very much. but that venus in aquarius.....and IF he is in a relationship right, so that's why you can't have him. There is something in YOUR chart that dictates a reason why you attracted to him, and he's NOT available. This is UNREQUITED love. Perhaps you have a midheaven Aquarius or something in your chart that is desiring for those unrequited. If he is SINGLE, then this is the ONLY reason why you should even decide to think about being with him.

ohhh sorry it has nothing to do with aquarius, if you go deeper, i was googling unrequited and it came up with "HOUSE" placements. if you know your houses, for example...
A woman's planets, especially LOVE planets fall in the male's 4th, (Cancer- home) 8th,(Pluto/powerful energy) 7th,(relationship) & 12th houses.(dreams and secrets)
as far as that goes, pffff i am clueless.

Posted by lisabethur8
since he has aquarius venus, it is definitely conflicting with his moon. hoo boy:

MOON or VENUS in AQUARIUS

The type of woman who attracts you is intelligent, independent, free-spirited, and a good conversationalist. Should she keep you guessing, or be a bit off-beat or unconventional, she'll fascinate you - but if she's too emotional, you'll pass.

Especially while young, you may be drawn to women who are not really available for a lasting relationship (because of distance or inability to make commitments, or a prior commitment to someone else).

When you are ready to commit, you will. Meanwhile, you may be attracted to "free spirits", "space cadets", or even somewhat "strange" women.

Idealists or rebels also have a particular appeal to you. Politics may play a part in the attraction. Political foes might make strange bedfellows. (continued)

http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-aquarius.shtml
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that is a huge conflict. Because he wants to commit very much. but that venus in aquarius.....and IF he is in a relationship right, so that's why you can't have him. There is something in YOUR chart that dictates a reason why you attracted to him, and he's NOT available. This is UNREQUITED love. Perhaps you have a midheaven Aquarius or something in your chart that is desiring for those unrequited. If he is SINGLE, then this is the ONLY reason why you should even decide to think about being with him.

Y cant i have him even if hes in another relationship? he said his relationship is not even serious. And no im not attracted Unavailable men. Im just attracted to his personality and miss how good we used to flow. we still flow so well when we talk.

girl, pffff no man is trustworthy when they are IN a relationship and they're telling you sweet nuthings. Too many films, books, dramas document this even without experiencing it or learning it from others. (although dxp sure has alot of them) lol