aqua girl taurus guy—?

I met a taurus man(May 13) at my school 2 years ago..We talked for a few weeks and then things turned sexual very fast.I was a sophmore at the time, he was a freshman..I fell in love very quickly..We would always argue and then make up with crazy hot sex. I saw him with another girl and when i asked him about it , he said "Just because you see me with a girl doesnt mean thats my girl". I still cant believe i fell for that bullshit. Anyway We didnt contact each other that much..Actually i learned how not to use the phone because i got tired of making contact and then he would accuse me of not caring..Anyway a few months into things, he said he didnt want a relationship so i let it go.. A few weeks later i found out i was preggo..He was very mad at me when i told him..we didnt speak for the weeks leading up to abortion but i did it..it was the longest car ride ever cuz he didnt say a word to me..he just drove me there and back to campus..fortunately it the end of the semester..so we both went home and i thought i would never see him again or so i thought...
august of 2008. he transfered back to my school..apparently after going to his other school, he couldnt afford to go anymore..When i saw he was back on campus, i couldnt believe my eyes. He tried to speak to me but i ignored him for a while..Then i called. I said i would come to his house after i went to the bar but when i was very close he told me to leave and i met up with the reason why! he had another girl coming over.We had a huge fight cuz i was angry and jealous..not just about her but the fact that our past issues never got resolved and we were supposed to talk things over. We had sex that night and didnt speak to each other for months because after we had sex and i explained that my feelings didnt go away after a year and half..he said he didnt want to be with me and once again i let go..then he came back to me again in january..we were having very intense frequent sex but i would back off a lot and keep him at bay..then 2 weeks ago he told me he's messing with someoneelse but he wants me 2...i see him on campus but im back to ignoring him..im graduating in May so i wont c him anymore.do u think after all this drama we went through we were meant to be?.I 've never loved anyone this much and bended so much for a man in my life and he's younger than me.im 22 (feb 15)..Why cant i get over him— Do you think he ever cared about me or just liked the drama he goes through with me?

IMHO I think you should stop sleeping with him, for however long you have left to be at school....Its clear that you have formed an emotional attachment to him, whereas he does not have one to you...If he did, he would be me considerate of your feelings (that he lknows you have) but he is not....

You need to focus on you. You are young and intelligent and school will be over soon....You have your whole life ahead of you to get serious about a guy....Date, have fun and most importantly do you!!!.....After a while he will be a long distant memory...Good luck and keep ya head up...

yes i totally agree with you ladies.... i havent spoken to him since the night he told me he's been messing with someone else....i tried so hard to make this work but he's too young and i know i cant make someone want me...i struggle to sleep at night sometimes because there is so much i want to say but i know it will only fall on deaf ears because he doesn't care...the high road is the hardest to take...i pray i meet someone that can light my fire without all the heartache and distraction... oh wait there is more..the girl he called over that night was stalking me last semester because of him...she's a pisces and a freshman..i have a class with her and i noticed ever since i stopped speaking to him ..she changed her seat and decides to sit right behind me..i wouldnt care if we werent in a lecture hall and there are like 30 other seats available..why does she have to sit directly behind me — my family don't understand...it;s like she wants my attention..i spoke to her in the pastto try to clear the air about what happened that night but we still dont speak to each other when we see each other.. i guess he's back with her now that i wont have sex with him anymore..should i try to speak to her again or should i ignore her desperate attempts to get my attention—?

You should leave well enough alone. You approaching her if they are seeing each other may not turn out as well as you think. She may get defensive because she stinks you still want him....

So what if she sits behind you, ignore her....As long as she don't step to you or touch you she is cool....

If they are seeing each other, who cares...Let him be her headache....

You have too much to offer someone else....You need to focus on you and not be bothered with either of their nonsense.....I know its hard to do but try not to let other people bring you outta yourself....

CORRECTION stinks = THINKS...hehehe

He's a stupid little boy.

thank you so much