Starfish and Krysrenee are spot on. I'm Taurus with Venus in Aries and I'm exactly how you've described! It's a shame because I'd like to settle one day but the things you have mentioned definately stop me. I love chasing men! However, most of the men I've met don't really like being chased, you definately have to learn when it's best to chase and when it's best not to!
We're now on a break. I don't know, I feel like the decision I'm making is to break up with him. It still hurts though and I feel terrible that a guy that makes me feel so special I can't see a future with. I don't know, maybe I'm the one with the issues. I want to go and live abroad and the people closest to me don't understand that. I don't know what I'm looking for. Once upon a time I didn't really live my life and now found the strength to go and do that. However, my best friend worries about why I need to do all this soul searching, why I have to go far away. Can anyone else relate to that? I lived in Italy and now a friend who lives in the south of francet has said I can go and stay with her and I'm tempted. I'm going to end up going back to Italy anyway. I have friends who are stable in their lives, settled job, houses already. I'm the one that's different but sometimes I feel that I'm made painfully aware of that. I try and explain that everyone has a different way of doing things but it seems no-ones convinced. I feel like I'm going against the grain and always have and somehow I even enjoy it. I'm scared though, of leaving and starting a new again but I did it before. At this moment I've just suddenly lost my courage
That's cool to know about the moon signs....however, the scorpio stuff. Honestly speaking, I seem to be more for getting down than he is. I don't know if this is because this he's not so confident in that department. I've tried talking things over but I guess his nerves are brushing off on me and makes me less receptive to him. It takes away the sexiness. That's work in progress. I don't know, he's lovely and we have a good but I really don't know if he is enough....
Oh know, what's happened...we had a disgreement and sorted it out but suddenly I'm questioning being with him. This whole Venus retrograde thing is hitting me hard. I'm so confused. We've stopped planning on going abroad in 6 months. I know I still want to go. We're just working on the here and now. We both talked everything over and we both are wondering whether we disagree on too many things. I'm kind of feeling like this is the beginning of the end. Like I want to enjoy what we have while it lasts and that we are really learning a lot for each other but I just don't see a future with him and I can't seem to get away from that. Last night I dreamt I was pregnant. I've had this dream before and this was when my boyfriend said he wanted to come away with me when I leave to go try living abroad. I dreamt this dream after contemplating going alone. I woke up and in the dream I was so happy I was pregnant, ecstatic. I interpret that as meaning I'd rather go abroad alone. I don't know whether to just see how it goes but honestly part of me is holding on and it's driving me nuts, sos
I think sometimes people can be scared by a lot of emotion. Cancers are seen as very emotional and can at times be very mood. Of course they have great qualities too but I think people may feel they might not know where they stand.Especially if they withdraw into their shells all of a sudden. However, definately think it's a lot to with with almost excessive emotion. I have cancer rising so can see how that could be a problem
I would say it depends on his chart, my boyfriend is an aqua with a lot of earth making up his chart and he wants to see me a lot, he's never not wanted to and i've been with him 4 months so far. So yeah check it out
Yeah...you know sometimes I do wonder whether he feels like his wings have been clipped. I get the impression that he won't go out there and enjoy it because something is holding him back. I don't know what that is. I'm glad he's going abroad with me though. I think most times in life you enter someone's life for a reason. I've felt for a while with him that it's to get him just to show him a different way. I don't know, I could be wrong. He does need his space though, although he definately doesn't protest it but just goes and does his own thing. I feel terrible for aquarians if they should feel like their wings are clipped! I feel like that most days and I'm a Taurus
Actually, I told him that astrologically speaking we might not be a good match. He just laughed and said it was ridiculous. The only thing I can see being a problem is on a practical level. I'm saving a lot to go abroad and he's just started since making his decision to come with me. I do get concerned he's not going to save enough and then it will make moving abroad tougher. I think that could be something that could start to niggle. Like a man who's got his act together with his finances. What's interesting is I found out in one of my houses is Capricorn, and it said I'd go for a guy who is emotionally unavailable but who will be good with money and I will be attracted to them regardless of looks or age. I hate to admit it but it's true! I've gone for established older men who I couldn't get close to and always thought that was because I didn't have such a good relationship with my Dad growing up. However, that probably is the case if it's showing up on the type of man I usually go for.
However, this guy fulfills my emotional needs and he's an aqua! Maybe it's just the outward appearance they project, have met plenty that I've really liked when I've sat down and talked to them and found them a lot warmer than the generalisation of them.
Back to my boyfriend, the only reason it's gotten this far is because he's proven to me how much he wants to be with me. I've never been with a man that made me feel really good before, he thinks I'm beautiful and lovely even when I wake up in bed with him with panda eyes from smudged make-up and hair all tangled with a hangover. He even calls me a natural beauty ha, ha! My friends would laugh and say man, he really likes you : D He's also there for me when I need to talk about the good and the bad stuff.
I wonder why all the things in our charts say it wouldn't work?
What are the weak points I wonder? Or does everything just verge on the platonic in our charts with regards to each other?
With the square of composite Moon and Uranus, this relationship is not likely to be a stable, enduring, long-term one, at least as far as love is concerned. This is an aspect of emotional change and instability. A love affair with this aspect may flare up suddenly and then cool off with equal suddenness.
Nevertheless, considerable good may come from such a relationship, as long as you try only to find what it can offer rather than how long it can last. It will challenge your basic patterns of thinking on an emotional level. If you give it a chance, this relationship will expand your consciousness.
Hmmmm interesting feedback, will let you know how it goes! I met an aquarian before and it really did not work but he's doing a lot of running which feels lovely : D if any disasters occur I will be sure to let you all know. Hopefully won't go down as Aquarian/Taurean stat in a bad way.
He pretty much knows all there is to me which is supposedly never good for an aquarian guy but weird. I read up on Aquarians and thought no...it won't work but pleasantly surprised thus far. Have been together since last October so still early days yet!
I don't know...I mean I thought it wouldn't work but so far it does. He's planning on coming away with me when I move abroad, he's bought me my birthday present for months away. He listens to me, is so affectionate with me. I keep thinking with Aquarian men that this will change. I hope not, I want to go and live a different life abroad, it's nice meeting someone who wants to share that with me.
Thanks ever so much for the feedback though, much appreciated : D
My boyfriend is Aquarius, shock, horror and yes I am a Taurus and yes it's supposed to me a nightmare combination. However, it's turning out to possibly be the best relationship I've had so far...go fiqure! Actually, would anyone be able to figure this out by looking at our chart details below?
Ermmm...I'm actually getting a little freaked out now. A few days ago I dreamt that an ex, ex, ex, ex boyfriend wanted to tell me something and I woke up remembering this. I haven't spoken to him for months and months and months. Tonight I got an e mail from him wanting to say hello and catch up.....it keeps happening!
Just had an e-mail from a friend abroad who is going through a crappy time with an emotionally unavailable man, you do not know quite how much of this post I have copied and pasted to her in an e-mail, it actually made 2 e-mails. Everytime I read this I feel re-energised, anytime I feel blue I'm going to read it. It's very inspiring,
yeah that too, it's also silly things like i woke up one morning thinking about a pair of shoes that had disappeared for a year, then later when I woke up they were by the front door! Ok in the past week it's been that and I was thinking about what I wanted for dinner and I came home and that's what had been cooked for dinner. Perhaps that's not a good example, lol but also a friend who I was thinking about who I hadn't spoken to in a year got in contact with me a few minutes after I'd been thinking about him....it's those little things that made me think about the leos and aquarians I'd met.
I do like aquarians though, the males that I've met do have that intense way of staring at you so much you can't help but notice, you do feel sort of dissected by it. Also was on a course with one I met a few weeks back and he said he has this way of knowing who's going to be a good person pretty much within 5 minutes of meeting them. Friends now and out of the whole group of people he kept in touch with me. My aquarian female friend seems more airy fairy though, like she's in the clouds somewhere, but the males seem a lot..sharper.
I'm going to delve into my chart stuff now and see if there is more to the magnetism thing, maybe it's just a coincidence
I don't know if this is just me overanalysing but I don't know....I'm just going to throw it out there. Do you find that if you think about something or a certain type of energy you have the potential to draw it to you...or that only certain people can?
It's weird but when I met this guy over a year ago that I liked and I have this bad habit of asking most people I meet what their star signs are. Well, this particular guy was a Leo, and then suddenly all the men I met from that point on were Leos, ok not all...like 3 or 4. Not just get to know, get close to...where did they come from all of sudden?
Then when I met this Aquarian girl who's a friend, then a guy, then bam same thing I get to know 4...in both instances it's one after the other, I haven't made friends with other types in betwee and I don't know I was telling this to an aquarian guy I've met recently seeing as we were discussing astronomy which he's into and me into astrology which I'm becoming more and more interested in. I just said to him that I could be wrong but it feels like if I make a big connection with one person from one sign...I pull in all the rest.
Feel ridiculous for saying that but over the past year that's what's been happening. Ok so it's only with aquarians and with leos but haven't met any other type of man yet.
Perhaps it's an energy thing, someone mentioned if you lack a certain type of energy you can draw the things your lacking, like most of my chart is earth for example.
Has anyone else had a similar experience?
Also not just astrology but when I liked this Norwegian guy and I wanted to get my mind of him I started to become interested in Sweden. I'd been living in the same spot for 8 months and then just like that in the course of the following 2 months I meet more swedish people than I've met in my life and then I got involved with one...
Is that weird? Or am I just looking at things from one angle.....