Taurus doing the FWB thing

...I can't see this sign doing flings like that. Even with Solar Astrology putting them at my 5th house, I STILL can not see you guys doing that well.

Unless you just turned to the dark side of earth signs and just "used" the harem for sex in between being a ruthless materialistic success demon. *cough* While I know any sign can try FWB, with earth/air being ones able to pull it off easiest/best in my opinion, Taurus seems so odd in this relationship set up.

I could see why it be appealing though:
- No feelings coming up (at the start)
- No obligation to constantly work on the relationship
- You don't have pay for them or get them anything.
-It's pretty much having your cake (sex & low- maintenance companionship)and eating it too while having your options open.

Thing is though, you the longer you're around an earth sign, the seeds of emotional investment grow with time. So while the first few months might be cardinal sin heaven, at some point feelings come into the situation and either kill the relationship or changes it to an official one.

Can you guys tell me if I'm missing something? It seems easier to just ask the Taurus who wants to bang you for a relationship, making it clear that even if your work lives, etc make you sparse, you both can deal with it and let things play out naturally.

Either the feelings grow from lust to love or they find someone, end things and go after them. Why isn't this the standard for you guys? I mean Taurus knows what it wants and values, so why bother with the FWB set up, knowing the longer it goes on, the more risky it becomes due to emotional bonds?

Posted by tiziani
When it comes to earth signs and sex, I wouldn't put anything past them. Apart from Virgos, since they're so innocent and all.

Did Damanata tell you to say that. It's okay, Tiz, you're in a safe space.
Though yeah, I mean how many Virgo Women and Taurus Men are in porn again?
Shit man, Earth Signs could get stereotyped as sex demons if they weren't so conservate with their "cash and prizes".
Think Air or Fire could beat them out in that department?

Taurus is above all a physical sign that seeks pleasure, so I don't get why such sign doing FWB would seem unusual. Can't speak for all, but personally I can seperate pure physical attraction from actually falling for someone/involving emotionally easily. When I meet someone I could potentially fall for, I know it from the get go. Feelings never "come up" to me, or in other words, they can't suprise me.

I value certian things physically, emotionally and intellectually. Even when seperated, those values are still very much in tact. The reality is, you rarely get "the whole package".

Posted by SirHorns

Thing is though, you the longer you're around an earth sign, the seeds of emotional investment grow with time. So while the first few months might be cardinal sin heaven, at some point feelings come into the situation and either kill the relationship or changes it to an official one.

Can you guys tell me if I'm missing something? It seems easier to just ask the Taurus who wants to bang you for a relationship, making it clear that even if your work lives, etc make you sparse, you both can deal with it and let things play out naturally.

FWB is possible.

If there is no prospect for longevity.

Then yes.

A harem is in place, and a FWB is definitely in order.

Bulls can be quite hedonistic, but still possess an innocent charm. 😉

*Blushes quietly*



...But it depends on the Bull, most Bulls do have an all or nothing attitude.

That's the thing. Bulls are usually too smart/good to play that game where they catch feelings later.
So it confuses me when that happens.
Did the bull test out the harem and just picked the one that was thee highest quality?
If the bull had feelings from thee start, why play that game at all? To rebel against thee sterotype of being realistic and logical?

Posted by SirHorns
That's the thing. Bulls are usually too smart/good to play that game where they catch feelings later.

If the feelings and prospect for longevity is present....then good sex is just an additive.

If not, then sex is just sex.

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by tiziani
When it comes to earth signs and sex, I wouldn't put anything past them. Apart from Virgos, since they're so innocent and all.

Did Damanata tell you to say that. It's okay, Tiz, you're in a safe space.
Though yeah, I mean how many Virgo Women and Taurus Men are in porn again?
Shit man, Earth Signs could get stereotyped as sex demons if they weren't so conservate with their "cash and prizes".
Think Air or Fire could beat them out in that department?

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The biggest porn stars out there are Aries. And I think one is on the cusp. Shoot. Aries beat every sign out there in the porn department.

SirHorns,

taurus are picky... so while there's a low maintenance lady coming around they can sleep with

and have intimate, etc.... they are still searching the better one. FWB is not a problem.

The bull partners knows that. Sex is sex. Love is love... oh yeah. Oh love. lol

I don't know...if a girl is good enough to have a FWB with - by that I assume she's good enough to be a friend, and she's attractive enough to sleep with, then why wouldn't I form deeper feelings for her? Its one thing if circumstances keep you in a non-traditional situation - like distance, time factors, etc. But in most cases, if you're going to do an FWB, I don't really understand why you'd try to restrain your feelings. I think, for any sign really, chances are good that you're going to develop real feelings.

I always thought there is no way in hell an evolved taurus would even consider an fwb. Its a huge gamble even im not willing to take (weird, considering all the air placements i have). The taurus could fall for them but the fwb might only be around them for the sex(vice versa).

Posted by Theatrum
Taurus is above all a physical sign that seeks pleasure, so I don't get why such sign doing FWB would seem unusual. Can't speak for all, but personally I can seperate pure physical attraction from actually falling for someone/involving emotionally easily. When I meet someone I could potentially fall for, I know it from the get go. Feelings never "come up" to me, or in other words, they can't suprise me.

I value certian things physically, emotionally and intellectually. Even when seperated, those values are still very much in tact. The reality is, you rarely get "the whole package".

Right on ??_