Taurus ex getting back or just booty call?

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Is this taurus ex wanting to get back or just seeing me as a booty call?

Its been a year since I broke up with him, still liked him but it was just difficult. We moved on.
He now has a girlfriend. He knows I dont fancy relationships but more into flirting and stuff..
We kept in contact ever since we broke up, still friends but 5 days ago we talked on the phone again for the first time (2 hours) because I sent him a video of a singer that looks like him and we talked for abit before he asked if I wanted to call him.I asked him how he was he told me he is bored/annoyed/confused with his girlfriend and the feeling is becoming neutral. He asked me that is it wrong that we're on the phone for this long? I said no unless we catch feelings. He said he is happy to talk to me and he is confused.
When we broke up, he didnt delete my photos off his phone and his current girlfriend found out and got mad at him and he told me..he said he didn't want to delete them, it was good memeories. I told him that 'I thought you weren't over me lol' and he was like 'what if I'm not?' but I just laughed it off because I know he has a girlfriend. He also asked me if I'm over him and I said yes, I like someone else now but if we keep talking, I might change my mind. What is he trying to find out from me? Reassurance that I'm not going back? We talked about our past and the good times, I told him I was sorry to whatever happened because I was so selfish and mean at the time. We joked about getting back together.

We kept flirting after that-social media. (even though I know its not his trait of cheating) and we decided to meet on Saturday cause I was in town. He said we could chill but somehow plans changed. We met briefly because we both had different plans to do and we talked abit and hugged. It was weird because he came out of his ways(from his friends) just to meet me. I haven't seen him for a year so it was very exciting.

I went out drinking with my friends later on and he sent me a message like 'you never thinking of inviting me out too?' and I was confused because he was the one who changed the plan of chilling together.

I don't know how to think anymore because he keeps liking my stuff and message me, is he just bored because of his situation in his lovelife (gf's a scorpio) or he values our friendship? (we are still friends, after all) I'm trying to keep my distance because I don't want to ruin anything. us thus normal for taurus guys?
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oh yeah. My ex did not delete one of his exes numbers. But I saw his letter saying... from now on

no more other girls... and his dad and mom photos and our photos together he displayed.

I don't think you are a booty call except you are trying to win him over.. even he has now scorp gf.

Bulls are really loyal even to at fault. If he can have you in his bed... he still going home with his

gf. what else you wanted to know?
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He's feeling you out and you are responding, let's not all kid each other here, there's no confusion. You both know exactly what you are doing lol

Men are direct. If he wants you back he will come straight out and tell you coz he won't want to risk another guy having you. But he seems not to have said this? He seems to be tugging that little flirting string to hook you in ... Liking your pics, messaging.. Tug tug tug.. You see what is happening? We all can. Don't get sucked into this BS "charm"

For some men, if they can have their cake and eat it then they will.. If the woman lets him.

If you want to get back with him fine; be direct about it.. But work out a way once you are both single if that's what you both want.
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Posted by AriesGirl74


Men are direct. If he wants you back he will come straight out and tell you coz he won't want to risk another guy having you. But he seems not to have said this? He seems to be tugging that little flirting string to hook you in ... Liking your pics, messaging.. Tug tug tug.. You see what is happening? We all can. Don't get sucked into this BS "charm"




Not quite, he said what a bummer that I got sweeter, sexier and more time now and he regret not going out being together now(didnt say he wants me back directly) and I understand because I got some experiences after I dated him.

Hahaha, I won't even if it's hard to resist with them bulls! Aren't they magical lovers, after all?
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Awww...

and If I were his Girlfriend. I'd better hand him over towards you. I don't like women keep flirting

even they knew their ex already have partner. What he was trying to say is that... hey I am an alpha

male and get what I want. lmao. Only cheap girls trying to boast his ego.

My ex Taurus told me one night... I have an ex I think she is going to attack here in our house.

I want to be honest and let's prepared.

Me: If she is nice. I will be nice to her. If she is freak then you know she can't have my kindness.

Him: ok.

One night I was mad and explode for any reason

Me: so where's the lady again? what are you trying to tell me? that you are an alpha male.?

hello a $ $ hole... I will hand you over to her.

Him: Please no.

me: oh yeah... I don't need to fight an a $ $ hole here. Go with her and play games with her you both
deserve. lol. He said no... because he said... that his ex is just for sex. lol
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and also... to hear about your story... it's just like he sees you as a friend and not a lover.

My ex Taurus have that feeling with his Ex wife...they remained friends until now and I met his wife

and talked...yes some photos of exes are still there doesn't mean he still loves them. it's just

a Taurus thing. It didn't count because if they do then why not trying to work out before it ends..

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Posted by M143

Awww...

and If I were his Girlfriend. I'd better hand him over towards you. I don't like women keep flirting

even they knew their ex already have partner. What he was trying to say is that... hey I am an alpha

male and get what I want. lmao. Only cheap girls trying to boast his ego.





LOL..I would do the same too.. I'm no ones 2nd choice.. I wouldn't mind my partner having female friends but if they started flirting knowing I'm in the picture then they can both go piss off for all I care.. Both know exactly what they are doing. The 'ex' 'friend' or what ever she is should know better!
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This is totally normal behavior for a Taurus male. It seems to me you still have feelings for him because you are putting the time and effort into seeing him as well as talking to him via phone and social media. Taurus men I would say 80% of the time cheat on their girlfriends. They are not very loyal until they find the one they truly love. I dated one on and off for almost 6 years, plus I am a Taurus myself. Taurus men easily get bored in relationships and often dwell on their past. They often hook up with old girlfriends but never date them. Once something is broken with a Taurus it's very hard to mend the past and fix an old relationship. But they will definitely HOOK UP with you. Taurus men are very sexual they love sex/romance. If I were you, I would maybe just talk with him for fun keep it as friends pursue the guy you like now, because the Taurus guy already had a chance with you and it didn't work so try this new guy and if it doesn't work then the Taurus guy will always be there! But from the way you talked about him it kind of seemed like you wanted to be with him, I don't know.. all I know is Taurus men are not very loyal and they always dwell on their past, they are sneaky and manipulative BUT they are very fun to be around! Good luck to you xx
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Posted by KittyKnitter
well maybe he is rethinking the past and hoping that he has kept his options open. Taurus can be faithful or not, true they love sex but sex is not love. well you were his gf once and he moved on to another. grass is not greener on other side only different grass. i would also say yes look to new relationship. and if being with Taurus is meant to be, you will be together again.



I see you've dealt with a Taurus, is it worth it in the end? I don't really see so much threads about leo-taurus pairing but I've noticed that there's a powerful connection. Seeing that we have the same sun and moon placements... never thought I'd be attracted to a taurus for I get bored easily.