Taurus having an issue with a Virgo women

Hey, I'm a Taurus and dating this virgo girl for almost a month now.. 10 days ago I confessed that I used to have a heavy drinking issue ( not an alcoholic) and I'm over it now.. been sober for 90 days now.. 2 days ago she came up to me crying and wants to end this because she's not comfortable with hearing that I had a drinking issue... I convinced her that it's over, and I'm really happy with the decision I made, she asked me to give 24 hrs to think about it... and again she came up to me wanting to end this but she can't imagine her life without me so she asked me to stay friends, I respected her so much and I agreed to be friends, a day later her sister came up with an idea: to stay away from each other for a week and not to talk at all, so she can make up her mind. Please someone advice about this as I really like her but at the same time I really need some stability in my life and I'm afraid even if she comes back with a positive decision, later she may find another issue and change her mind.. BTW it's my first experience with a virgo.. thanks

Posted by Nevermore
How old is she?

She is 25..

The red flag I see is you claiming to have had heavy drinking issues, but not being an alcoholic. How is that even possible? You also claim to be "over it" after 90 days of sobriety...which is yet another red flag. You seem a bit naive about addictions, which is really dangerous, imo.

Also, you had dated this woman for only about 20 days when she found out. She doesn't know you and all she has to go on are your words. Take your drinking issues way more seriously, and, by that, show her that you can be trusted.

All the best! I really hope it works out for you!

As a Virgo myself, I can say that I agree with her decision. 90 days without alcohol is not that much in someone else's mind and she might think you still have that kind of problems. Maybe she will change her mind after a week, but you have to give her at least that time to make a decision.

Crying? She aint even in love yet



She's seeing someone else and feels guilty.

When someone wants to walk out of your life, let em. Dont ever let them back in.