Taurus dating Virgo man- pulling away.

Taurus dating Virgo man- pulling away.

So I've just started dating a Virgo man 2 weeks ago. I was the first to ask him out & things went AMAZINGLY! We connected & got on really well, it's as if we've known each other for years! He's told me he likes me and I've told him I like him too! He wanted to see me the following night & we chilled at his. All went great too! That week he pulled away a bit, I gave him space as he seemed tied down with work. I saw him the Sunday after when I stayed the night (we haven't had sex yet) and everything went well also. Now the other night he opened up to me & told me some things that really upset him. He even made it clear that I was going to be in his life for a while saying, 'you'd of found out sooner or later so might as well say now.'

Since that night he hasn't messaged me, I've left him too it. But I just want to know is this normal for a Virgo man? When I'm with him everything is great, he's really touchy, and is always staring and smiling, he mimics my actions a lot jokingly and we're always laughing. When I stayed he cuddled me all night & wouldn't let me go so I know he genuinely likes me I'm just confused on this pull back & how long should I give him?

Posted by Taurus95
how long should I give him?

What do you mean by this?

How long should you give him until what? Blow up at him? Cut him off?

Posted by Damnata

Posted by Taurus95
how long should I give him?

What do you mean by this?

How long should you give him until what? Blow up at him? Cut him off?

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Ha ha ha... These always seem to be the only options for women dating men!

Posted by Taurus95
So I've just started dating a Virgo man 2 weeks ago. I was the first to ask him out & things went AMAZINGLY! We connected & got on really well, it's as if we've known each other for years! He's told me he likes me and I've told him I like him too! He wanted to see me the following night & we chilled at his. All went great too! That week he pulled away a bit, I gave him space as he seemed tied down with work. I saw him the Sunday after when I stayed the night (we haven't had sex yet) and everything went well also. Now the other night he opened up to me & told me some things that really upset him. He even made it clear that I was going to be in his life for a while saying, 'you'd of found out sooner or later so might as well say now.'

Since that night he hasn't messaged me, I've left him too it. But I just want to know is this normal for a Virgo man? When I'm with him everything is great, he's really touchy, and is always staring and smiling, he mimics my actions a lot jokingly and we're always laughing. When I stayed he cuddled me all night & wouldn't let me go so I know he genuinely likes me I'm just confused on this pull back & how long should I give him?

In my experience, every time I'vel maked the first move, it didn't work out. Takes the fun out of it for the guy. I eventually learned to set it up so he does the asking and things worked out a lot better.

I don't mean I manipulated to get them to ask, just mentioning that there's a movie you want to see and usually, if they're interested, they'll pick up on it and follow through with making the plan.

*made*, not maked. lol!

No I meant how long should I give him space. I did that about a cafe I wanted to go to and he said we could go to it if I wanted too, just let him know when and classed it as a date. He's not a big texter anyways but he will always usually send at least a few messages a day to keep in contact.